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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 14:16 Post subject: What if... |
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... you just found out that your wife is cheating on you with a very close friend. To top that - what if both have kids and are married a mere two years?! And what if you know it`s not only sex (bad enough...)?
Yep - My life is just going down the shitter... (not that it`s not fucked up enough already...)
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tonizito
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 14:18 Post subject: |
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An FML thread for sure
I also have no idea on what I would do if I were in your shoes. 
boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 14:19 Post subject: |
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Try under the patio, it will help the plants grown inthe rest of the garden too.*
*Gardening tips sponsored by Fred and Rose West.
Ps. fhitb
ragnarus wrote: |
I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 15:27 Post subject: |
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man , thats bad, not only for you, more for the kids , i dont know what i do if a find that, but i think divorce is on main list of yhings to do, but confront her, does he have a wife?
Sin317 wrote: | while you can't "turn gay", you can cut off your balls. believe me, you'll never think of women again. |
zmed wrote: | Or just a defense mechanism. If you fart, you'll most definitely smell it so your brain tells you it ain't bad as strangerfarts. |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 17:29 Post subject: |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 17:36 Post subject: |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 17:37 Post subject: |
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spankie wrote: | fuck his wife? |
well the first step if it was me,was sharing what i know with her.
Sin317 wrote: | while you can't "turn gay", you can cut off your balls. believe me, you'll never think of women again. |
zmed wrote: | Or just a defense mechanism. If you fart, you'll most definitely smell it so your brain tells you it ain't bad as strangerfarts. |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 17:37 Post subject: |
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spankie wrote: | fuck his wife? |
+1 lol
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 17:48 Post subject: |
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Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 17:52 Post subject: |
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BearishSun wrote: | Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her. |
Or this! I'm so gonna ask for advice on Hump from now on!
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Saner
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 18:05 Post subject: |
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Is this in real life or on the sims ?
If its the latter try reinstalling
ragnarus wrote: |
I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 18:55 Post subject: |
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Damn it man... what's the evidence?
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 19:27 Post subject: |
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Well if your planning a divorce. Get as much info about the affair as possible before saying anything. It will be hard. Also make sure you file first. Live off cash is you can so there are no bank records she can use. If you have joint accounts, as soon as you file for divorce, empty the accounts, get all new accounts. Divorce is nasty, just been through a very rough year and a half. She took me for over 500K. 
Jenni wrote: | I drunk. I don't fucking care! |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 19:33 Post subject: |
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Damn man. That's harsh. Even more so that she has feelings involved. And wtf that "friend" of yours has no bro code..
Before you do anything, get a PI and get some dirt. Make some preparations on the low side. Then confront her if you wish so.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 19:39 Post subject: |
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Put horns on top of your dog.
A good idea for your new avatar.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 19:47 Post subject: |
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I would gather the evidence to support this, you gotta be sure. And then you can go through divorce.
I know I could never forgive or forget if someone cheated on me (in your case it's even worse since it's your wife, and you have kids).
I don't get the cheating part. I never will. If things aren't going good, then ppl need to talk, and if it's not working, then part ways.
Cheating is just slimy thing. I have no sympathy for the cheaters (this includes the other side, especially if it's your 'friend').
"Quantum mechanics is actually, contrary to it's reputation, unbeliveably simple, once you take the physics out."
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 20:35 Post subject: |
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"And what if you know it`s not only sex (bad enough...)?"
What's more then sex?
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 21:01 Post subject: |
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Obviously womans are not satisfied with relationship so they turn to a guy who give more attention to them. Search for the cause in yourself.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 21:02 Post subject: |
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madmax17 wrote: | "And what if you know it`s not only sex (bad enough...)?"
What's more then sex? |
butt sex?
Sorry Awe, I had to xD
"Quantum mechanics is actually, contrary to it's reputation, unbeliveably simple, once you take the physics out."
Scott Aaronson chiv wrote: | thats true you know. newton didnt discover gravity. the apple told him about it, and then he killed it. the core was never found. |
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 21:18 Post subject: |
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Sucks to hear that dude.
But please, whatever you do, think of your kids first. If you return the favour or do other nasty shit, chances are she'll get them and they'll resent you. Or worse, one of them will resent her, another will resent you. Divorcing is fine, I have plenty friends with divorced parents; but some of them also were denied contact with one of their parents/siblings until later life and they all hate that. They don't give a rat's ass that their parents divorced, but actually losing one sucks.
That's assuming your kids are the most important part of your life and you don't hate them of course 
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 22:11 Post subject: |
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You're free now, kinda like the guy in american beauty. (just don't get shot!)
Seriously though, you are free.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 22:27 Post subject: |
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Just make sure she doesn't get your properties and leech off of you for the rest of your life.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 22:36 Post subject: |
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BearishSun wrote: | Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her. |
This is dumb and selfish. Don't punish the kids.
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Posted: Thu, 18th Jul 2013 23:41 Post subject: |
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id be checking if the other guy is also 400km's away right now
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