Sex scenes in movies
Page 1 of 1
Mister_s




Posts: 19863

PostPosted: Fri, 9th Jul 2010 23:14    Post subject: Sex scenes in movies
I'm not a prude or anything, but something has always been bothering me when watching movies. Why do so many US movies have sex scenes? I've watched a lot of movies (no life, escaping the boredom, loser, nerd etc.), so I've seen A LOT of sex scenes too. My conclusion is, 95% of them are useless and forced. Why the hell do I need to see a sex scene when it has zero relation to the matter depicted? Do people actually like the fake sounds/orgasms/movements? Is it not better to watch a softcore porn movie for that? Why not search for nude pics if you absolutely have to see that actress nekkid?

So in short. Why the hell does almost every director feel the need to make a sex scene, useful or not?
Back to top
garus
VIP Member



Posts: 34200

PostPosted: Fri, 9th Jul 2010 23:21    Post subject:
snip


Last edited by garus on Tue, 27th Aug 2024 21:26; edited 1 time in total
Back to top
Ronhrin
Banned



Posts: 6428
Location: Paradigms are changeable, reality is absolute.
PostPosted: Fri, 9th Jul 2010 23:40    Post subject:
One answer, sex sells, and people are dumb, they usually aren't that interested in the main plot line, you throw a sex scene in, they get instantly interested in watching the movie, perhaps hoping for some other, more revealing sex scene.


He who sacrifices freedom for security deserves neither
- Benjamin Franklin - 1759

Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 01:42    Post subject:
personally i hate sex scenes in movies because generally they happen during action movies... and if sex is happening it means the explosions arent, hence it pisses me off. if i want ze sex ill get porn. if i watch a movie, then i either want a plot or a want explosions.

'romance' sex to drive a plot forward is ok with me, but those are usually more tastefully done anyway.


Back to top
fisk




Posts: 9145
Location: Von Oben
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 06:04    Post subject:
It's funny that people are bothered by sex scenes in movies, but not about scenes of violence and murder.

Both emulate real life in some extent, but sex is more realistic. Except perhaps of course in the small demography that frequent these forums and don't like sex scenes in movies?


Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 06:39    Post subject:
thought i was pretty clear as to why i didnt like them... they tend to slow the film down and are often unnecessary... its not being bothered by them, its just finding them generally detrimental to the overall film.


Back to top
Surray




Posts: 5409
Location: Europe
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 08:09    Post subject:
I agree in that they are often just unnecessary.
There's exceptions, like the sex scene in Terminator for example because it's actually important for the plot but yeah, most of the time it's just awkward and doesn't fit in.

I think there's just a line somewhere in the Hollywood Director's Guide of Awesomess that says that to show your audience that 2 characters love each other you need to visualize that by making them have sex because nothing shows more clearly that 2 people are in love... right?! Razz


Likot Mosuskekim, Woodcutter cancels Sleep: Interrupted by Elephant.
Back to top
dingo_d
VIP Member



Posts: 14555

PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 08:14    Post subject:
Ummm... you really need to ask? Look at that POS Twilight, they aren't even fucking and little girls scream every time that guy takes his shirt off Rolling Eyes stupid ppl -.-''


"Quantum mechanics is actually, contrary to it's reputation, unbeliveably simple, once you take the physics out."
Scott Aaronson
chiv wrote:
thats true you know. newton didnt discover gravity. the apple told him about it, and then he killed it. the core was never found.

Back to top
Mister_s




Posts: 19863

PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 12:00    Post subject:
fisk wrote:
It's funny that people are bothered by sex scenes in movies, but not about scenes of violence and murder.

Both emulate real life in some extent, but sex is more realistic. Except perhaps of course in the small demography that frequent these forums and don't like sex scenes in movies?

Well if the purpose is portraying real life, we'd need to see people shitting too. My point was that most sex scenes are in just to be in. There have been movies I felt like "wtf was that scene about?". Maybe I've been corrupted by porn or something, but sex scenes in movies are mostly irritating than arousing imo.
Back to top
Saner




Posts: 6877
Location: Uk
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 12:10    Post subject:
I got pissed off when I watched Deep throat, they kept adding sex scenes just as the story was getting interesting.


ragnarus wrote:

I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ?Smile

Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
Back to top
fisk




Posts: 9145
Location: Von Oben
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 16:06    Post subject:
Mister_s wrote:
fisk wrote:
It's funny that people are bothered by sex scenes in movies, but not about scenes of violence and murder.

Both emulate real life in some extent, but sex is more realistic. Except perhaps of course in the small demography that frequent these forums and don't like sex scenes in movies?

Well if the purpose is portraying real life, we'd need to see people shitting too. My point was that most sex scenes are in just to be in. There have been movies I felt like "wtf was that scene about?". Maybe I've been corrupted by porn or something, but sex scenes in movies are mostly irritating than arousing imo.


Your argument would be valid if people were at all interested in shitting. Sex on the other hand is one of the world's largest industries for a reason.


Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 16:23    Post subject:
yes exactly. theres an entire industry dedicated to it, and thats where it should stay. why would we want to/need to see crappy versions of it, in places it doesnt belong, when we could go to where it IS and get something decent.


Back to top
shole




Posts: 3363

PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 17:57    Post subject:
the problem is that in most cases the sex scenes add absolutely nothing to the film
they mostly just make me cringe
every scene in a film has to have a purpose
in a film like libertine that had a lot of sex in it, it all added to the character and the description of the society
you can't just put a standalone scene like that in the middle to stop the narrative.. it's an intellectual commercial break
like the matrix sequels were slim on narrative and a collection of standalone action spectacles that had little to do with the story
it was a mess and would have been better as a single film with less faffing about
Back to top
zipfero




Posts: 8938
Location: White Shaft
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 20:05    Post subject:
Sex is some of the most heavily censored you can get in american movies. I wonder how you can speak out against sex in movies, when I can't remember the last time I saw an action movie that focused on violence and then had people running around saying 'darn' and 'heck', cause of censoring.

Unnecessary sex in movies is annoying, it's there to sell tickets at the cost of something better(better story etc) and on that I agree. I personally have a bigger problem with the violence, cussing double-standard that you see in american censoring.

Sex is very much a natural part of our lives. So of course you will see a lot of it in movies.


I recommend; This Movie is Not Yet Rated


8 out of 10 dentists prefer zipfero to competing brands(fraich3 and Mutantius)!
Back to top
fisk




Posts: 9145
Location: Von Oben
PostPosted: Sat, 10th Jul 2010 21:58    Post subject:
chiv wrote:
yes exactly. theres an entire industry dedicated to it, and thats where it should stay. why would we want to/need to see crappy versions of it, in places it doesnt belong, when we could go to where it IS and get something decent.


Actually the porn movie industry is so shit these days that to watch a quality fuck you need to go to Hollywood (and that's bad). With the exception of the hair excess, the porn made in the 60'ies-70'ies was a whole damn lot better.


Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
Back to top
shole




Posts: 3363

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 02:52    Post subject:
dude, wtf?
i don't think it's porn you're looking for
Back to top
Spazmotic
VIP Member



Posts: 3107

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 05:13    Post subject:
I like boobs, I watch movie with boobs... I rather go pay to watch a movie with a hot actress sideboob than watch porn for free Very Happy
Back to top
Templair




Posts: 129

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 14:44    Post subject:
Guys we can talk all we want about imitating real life or the need of sex scenes in films. But the one answer to the author of this thread is: SEX SELLS! One sex scene more with famous actress that includes boobs or teh beaver ;P equals more ticked sold. Easy math ...

T.
Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 14:48    Post subject:
...but then, removing the sex and dropping the rating down to pg13 sells even more tickets than that (depending on the film, naturally)


id rather put sex mostly down to the immaturity of filmmakers who just cant think of any other way to make their movie better, other than getting their lead actress to get her tits out.


Back to top
Laurentiu499




Posts: 2972
Location: pe sistem turbo-nervos
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 14:57    Post subject:
you can say the same thing about mindless action.





>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> ♪ Viva La Vida ♪ <<<<<< <<<<< <<<<<< <<<
Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 15:13    Post subject:
you can say the same thing about plot.

how many good action films have been ruined by the pointless insertion of some half-baked shitty plot? pretty much 93% of the action films from the last decade or so id imagine


but thats the whole point... shoving unnecessary shit into a genre where its not needed... studios dumbing down a good plot in favor of making it faster with more action emphasis... killing action films with excess silly dialog and story... ruining my porn by trying to add a story script... although the one based on 300 was pretty hilarious...


Back to top
Mr.Tinkles




Posts: 12378
Location: Reino de Suecia
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 17:21    Post subject:
Movies need more porn in them tbh...


Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 17:33    Post subject:
why, because porn doesnt have enough porn in it?


Back to top
Mr.Tinkles




Posts: 12378
Location: Reino de Suecia
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 17:36    Post subject:
No, because I want porn in everything...


Back to top
Mussolinka
Banned



Posts: 2782

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 18:07    Post subject:
I don't mind a woman stripping or more making out, but if there is a dick involved then meh... Rather make it pg13


sabin1981 wrote:
Fuck you troll. Fuck you and your entire aids-infested family. Get cancer and die. Slowly.
Back to top
chiv




Posts: 27530
Location: Behind You...
PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 18:29    Post subject:
Prefetian wrote:
No, because I want porn in everything...


then the question is... why bother watching anything OTHER than porn?


Back to top
garus
VIP Member



Posts: 34200

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 20:20    Post subject:
snip


Last edited by garus on Tue, 27th Aug 2024 21:27; edited 1 time in total
Back to top
Mussolinka
Banned



Posts: 2782

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 21:31    Post subject:
Didn't mean dick per se, just a hardcore with a man and a woman involved. But since you asked, pick any Viggo Mortensen's movie.
Back to top
garus
VIP Member



Posts: 34200

PostPosted: Sun, 11th Jul 2010 21:34    Post subject:
snip


Last edited by garus on Tue, 27th Aug 2024 21:27; edited 1 time in total
Back to top
fisk




Posts: 9145
Location: Von Oben
PostPosted: Thu, 15th Jul 2010 18:04    Post subject:
chiv wrote:
Prefetian wrote:
No, because I want porn in everything...


then the question is... why bother watching anything OTHER than porn?


Because porn, generally is shit.


Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 All times are GMT + 1 Hour
NFOHump.com Forum Index - Movie & TV Sparks
Signature/Avatar nuking: none (can be changed in your profile)  


Display posts from previous:   

Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


Powered by phpBB 2.0.8 © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group