Have you been unfaithfull?
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Have you ever been unfaithfull?
Yes
19%
 19%  [ 13 ]
No
65%
 65%  [ 44 ]
It's my way of living
14%
 14%  [ 10 ]
Total Votes : 67

miragui




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Location: Venezuela
PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 05:45    Post subject: Have you been unfaithfull?
Come on people spill your guts.


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Mortibus




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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 08:09    Post subject:
why this is in the bitching section? Laughing
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wawrzul




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Location: Cracow, Poland
PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 11:55    Post subject:
Never been unfaithful, somehow i couldn't do it. Calling the gf 5 seconds before sex with another girl would be ok tho Laughing
I did fuck girls who had bf's :>
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Van.Helsing




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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 14:25    Post subject:
Been unfaithful once, but that was about 6 years ago probably more, been a loyal faithful man ever since, different partner now of course.
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Newty182




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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 14:30    Post subject:
I voted no but i suppose some people might say i have. I have only been with other girls if its been within a week or so of getting into a new relationship and it hasn't got serious, otherwise i don't cheat.

Answer your own question, miragui. Smile


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SpykeZ




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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 16:17    Post subject:
I find it pointless to have a relationship with a girl if your going to just treat her like trash. People who cheat are insecure.


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dominae
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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 16:29    Post subject:
Nope. Not ever.


I also think fisk should be unbanned.
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Lathieza




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Location: NL
PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 16:36    Post subject:
Never done it and never will do.


But it happened to me 3 times Sad
Last time it happened i broke 2 hands and a wrist on a so called "friend" of mine and since then it never happened anymore Very Happy


Empty again Sad
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bushwacka




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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 17:19    Post subject:
Lathieza wrote:

Last time it happened i broke 2 hands and a wrist on a so called "friend" of mine and since then it never happened anymore Very Happy

great, hope you also showed the x-ray pix to her to prove what a manly man you are Rolling Eyes
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Mortibus




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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 18:17    Post subject:
that's why they invented this dumbo Razz



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Hierofan
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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 19:11    Post subject:
well , even if i'd be with the gf just for being with someone and i'd fall in love with the 'bait' i still wouldnt do it , i just wouldnt be fair .. i'd rather end it than cheat .


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PostPosted: Mon, 20th Jul 2009 23:46    Post subject:
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lhzr




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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 00:12    Post subject:
Yondaime wrote:
Personally though, if I were in that kind of marriage, I would tell my wife I don't want to be with her anymore, I wouldn't just go and bang some girl behind her back, even if I don't care about her.

you're oversimplifying things there.. sometimes can be quite difficult to end even a relationship, ending a marriage would pose a whole lot more problems.

also you're forgetting about the boredom factor. after being in a (not necessarily great, not necessarily bad) relationship for a longer while, boredom's gonna start seeping in through the cracks. and then that whole 'i could never do that' attitude will be pretty easily forgotten Wink
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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 01:00    Post subject:
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lhzr




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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 01:17    Post subject:
Yondaime wrote:
I just can't see myself doing that to another person, much less to someone I actually like, even love?

well, if there's boredom, there's prolly not much love left, so that was one my premises Smile
and she'd be hurt only if she'd find out.

let's say, for example, that you've been in a relationship for a while, it turned lame and now you're together just for the sex (or whatever other reason). if you have the chance to have sex with someone else (good looking, etc), why pass it up ? (we're assuming there's no way your girl would find out about it) i mean, you gonna break up with her soon anyway, you're just, waiting for the right moment Wink

if you want some more reasons.. perhaps you've been feeling down for a while (maybe even because of the relationship you're in), perhaps your girl only rarely wants to have sex, perhaps she got fat.. hehe, perhaps you're planning to use the sex with the other girl as a catalyst for starting the break up you've been postponing, so it would actually be good for everyone involved.. etc.
i could come up with a shit ton of this sort of stuff, point is that anyone would do it, given the right set of circumstances
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miragui




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Location: Venezuela
PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 01:38    Post subject:
I made this poll because it's here in Venezuela people cheat a lot and think it's normal. And to answer you Mortibus it's in the bitching section because thats where all the relation bitching allways goes Smile


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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 02:18    Post subject:
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Unauthorized




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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 17:12    Post subject:
Yes i have. Not really the faithful type, or I just havent found the right girl.
Could be a insecurity issue too, looking to get "confirmed" once in a while.

No im not INSECURE like in a typical nerdy way, instead a weak soul that has been trough a lot in my life.


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Cohen




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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Jul 2009 18:46    Post subject:
nope.. very faithful.. always have been. My parents split due to adultery and its something I could never see myself doing. I have to be very connected with a person to even be friends with them these days, let alone sleep with them. so it really isnt an issue for me. Id never disrespect my girl like that.


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Invasor
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PostPosted: Wed, 22nd Jul 2009 18:35    Post subject:
Seems kinda strange that over 60% here say they don't cheat.

I never did, and I had several chances. But I have been cheated. I think the cheating part is not the worst, tho, it's the lies. At least I can feel I'm better than them after that.
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Photish




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PostPosted: Thu, 23rd Jul 2009 09:19    Post subject:
Yes I have cheated... Sue me!
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drakgon




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PostPosted: Thu, 23rd Jul 2009 15:47    Post subject:
Never cheated myself tho out of my 10 closest friends i'm the only one ... specially didnt get a gf through uni coz i new i would .....

worst is this guy who is in a relationship with a girl he thinks he will marry ... and regularly fucks prostitutes (since he works at an escort agency call center) ... typical russian orthodox ....
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WaldoJ
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PostPosted: Fri, 24th Jul 2009 07:23    Post subject:
luckily never Sad i'm a one girl guy and it sucks!
if i have a fuck buddy i won't fuck anyone unless i know she fucks someone...
if im seeing someone even if it's a sexless relationship i can't bare sleeping with someone else other than the girl i'm interested in at the time.

i had a chance to cheat once or twice but never went through with it...


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SycoShaman
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PostPosted: Fri, 24th Jul 2009 17:18    Post subject:
WaldoJ wrote:
luckily never Sad i'm a one girl guy and it sucks!
if i have a fuck buddy i won't fuck anyone unless i know she fucks someone...
if im seeing someone even if it's a sexless relationship i can't bare sleeping with someone else other than the girl i'm interested in at the time.

i had a chance to cheat once or twice but never went through with it...


Whoa whoa....monogamous fuck buddy/casual sex relationship? Dude...we have to talk man Smile
If its consensual and no strings attached sex....its not cheating cuz you know she will fuck another guy if one comes along. Always wrap up, thats all.

As for the topic, never cheated (well, I have, but at 15 years old...come on...I'm speaking from 18+...16 year olds bitching that their bf or gf cheated...stupid) in my adult life.

For me, its about trust. Cuz most ppl can tell if their partner has cheated (projected guilt).
And once you lose trust on that level....its almost impossible to get it back (for me, its impossible) to the level it was at originally.


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WaldoJ
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PostPosted: Sat, 25th Jul 2009 03:26    Post subject:
im all about monogamy Very Happy


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