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wawrzul




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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 13:47    Post subject:
So, basically, you live under one roof but ain't together? Like Zack and Miri? Wink

It's kinda hard to imagine for me, you know, living with someone (different sex of course) and not being in a relationship. But that's maybe because i was never in that kind of position.

EDIT : Oh, and VGAdeadcafe has a point there. It would be totally fucked up if she brought someone over to get laid...
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lhzr




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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 13:50    Post subject:
wawrzul wrote:
It's kinda hard to imagine for me, you know, living with someone (different sex of course) and not being in a relationship.

if neither of them would be attracted to one another, it would be fine
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Van.Helsing




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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 13:51    Post subject:
Well we're still sleeping together, quite actively, but we're not together, this may sound wierd from a guy's view, but i actually want more, i want a relationship, because like i said, i love her...
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SycoShaman
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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 18:47    Post subject:
@waw

thanks man Smile

@spankie

she's being doing the stuff she does since I met her and we became best friend's a year and a half ago...the only difference is we have sex now. She's not going to change Smile


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wawrzul




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PostPosted: Sat, 14th Feb 2009 08:46    Post subject:
@lhzr
Well, maybe. But like i said, i would have to experience this myself cause its hard for me to believe Smile

@Van.Helsing
Oh, i get it now. Are you sure she doesn't want to? Cause maybe she thinks you don't want a relationship?

@Syco
Np. You've got a good thing going, and it's nice to hear a relationship like this is possible Smile
I only got one question - does she like same music as you? I had only one girl who was into music like mine, mainly AIC and Cantrell solo. She was awesome, but we kinda split eventually. Not sure why tho.
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SycoShaman
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PostPosted: Sat, 14th Feb 2009 10:45    Post subject:
wawrzul wrote:
@lhzr
Well, maybe. But like i said, i would have to experience this myself cause its hard for me to believe Smile

@Van.Helsing
Oh, i get it now. Are you sure she doesn't want to? Cause maybe she thinks you don't want a relationship?

@Syco
Np. You've got a good thing going, and it's nice to hear a relationship like this is possible Smile
I only got one question - does she like same music as you? I had only one girl who was into music like mine, mainly AIC and Cantrell solo. She was awesome, but we kinda split eventually. Not sure why tho.


Yeah man. She's into grunge, 60's rock, 90's metal and dancehall reggae.
But she also likes older pop music (duran duran shit). But she rarely listens to that. Usually when she's cleaning or something Smile

But if we are chillin, its either AIC, STP or Nirvana Smile
She knows every lyric to every AIC song dude.....right there, perfection Very Happy U know what I'm saying Smile

My exwife ONLY listened to country.....god.....

My girl is completely different than my exwife and way hotter and better in every way (seriously). She has flaws, just like everyone else, but nothing major like the majority of women I've dated


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Cohen




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PostPosted: Sat, 14th Feb 2009 12:41    Post subject:
Ive had a fair share of bad relationships but I can safely say I never went down the "still fucking" route after a breakup. It's just bad news.

My best friend had a bad experience of it with one of his exes.. She was real nice til they slept together, then apparently started really bunny boiling his shiet, stopping him seeing his friends and such SO he killed it. But he took her virginity so she had a little trouble letting go. She was like.. 19.. me and my mate are 22. So tapping an 18 year old college girl (at the time) he couldnt break the cycle that she just wanted hot sex. Its like meat to a lion right?

I felt sorry for him, because he said the guilt after she left each time they did it consumed him. He cried on me once because he couldnt stand using her but couldnt help it. There is something so strange about seeing a 6 foot 200lb man cry Confused I kinda took warning from it and stopped myself going down the same route. You should probably refuse to sleep with her van.helsing.


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Van.Helsing




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PostPosted: Sat, 14th Feb 2009 21:46    Post subject:
Wgem, bro, like you said, it's like meat to a lion, sex is a great thing, specially when it's with someone you love, i have told her alot that i want more, that i want to have a relationship, but she's kinda like, "i don't know" which lead's me to the feeling that she just isn't interested in being with me, but she keep's telling me she love's me, and want's only me, yet i ask her, and she say's she doesn't know, it's like fucking a skitzerfrenic...
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pistolshrimp
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PostPosted: Sun, 15th Feb 2009 08:54    Post subject:
VGAdeadcafe wrote:
Van.Helsing wrote:
At the moment my living situation is a huge clusterfuck, i love the woman, we're not together, wish we were i love her that much, the house is mine, can't kick her out, i'm not that kind of guy, just one big clusterfuck.

What if she brings someone over and moans like a cow all night ?

Will you throw her out then ? Laughing Laughing Laughing Surprised


Well then it is not a clusterfuck is it? Not by the sounds of it anyway?
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WaldoJ
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PostPosted: Sun, 15th Feb 2009 09:01    Post subject:
sex is so awesome if someone is in the next room fucking loudly as well Surprised
I always had a blast :>


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S.i.L.e.N.c.E




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PostPosted: Thu, 26th Feb 2009 10:18    Post subject:
Do you know what’s worst in being alone ?
The moment you realize you’re no longer your type any more Razz
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Paintface




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PostPosted: Thu, 26th Feb 2009 11:16    Post subject:
spankie wrote:
good luck syco... my girl was like that in the beginning...

and after almost 3 years it has evolved into "who are chatting with? WHAAAAAAAAAAT a girl?"

and then i show she contacted me first and that i just replied and then she goes "Why does another woman have power over you? you always reply to her messages"

and then i reply "she has a bf, it is just a friend i have known for like 5-6-7 years..."

oh man living together sometimes rocks...


somehow i was able to guess she was belgian before i even read your location, im moving out of this country asap
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PostPosted: Thu, 26th Feb 2009 11:19    Post subject:
Stefan F wrote:
spankie wrote:
good luck syco... my girl was like that in the beginning...

and after almost 3 years it has evolved into "who are chatting with? WHAAAAAAAAAAT a girl?"

and then i show she contacted me first and that i just replied and then she goes "Why does another woman have power over you? you always reply to her messages"

and then i reply "she has a bf, it is just a friend i have known for like 5-6-7 years..."

oh man living together sometimes rocks...


somehow i was able to guess she was belgian before i even read your location, im moving out of this country asap



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SycoShaman
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PostPosted: Sat, 28th Feb 2009 00:51    Post subject:
@spankie

my girl isnt the jealous type. she's fuckin gorgeous, intelligent and we share a ton in common. She knows I would never cheat on her. I have never cheated on anyone. I dont cheat.
And since Angela and I were friends for a year and half before we got together, she knows everything about me and that Im not lying to her about anything.

Its not like we are getting to know each other while dating....we already know everything about each other and then got into a relationship.
And we're really happy and she has no problem with me hanging out with my female friends. She knows i'd never cheat on here....give up an amazing woman for one fuck? Im not an idiot.


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ApeX PredatoR
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PostPosted: Sun, 1st Mar 2009 11:50    Post subject:
me and my girl where friends before we got together too...I think that the relationship is far better than the girls I just met in a bar or something.


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wawrzul




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PostPosted: Mon, 2nd Mar 2009 09:47    Post subject:
I met a girl on Valentine's day (hate that "holiday") and we're kinda together (that's a bit weird). Last thursday we were on a party (druuuuunk) and we went to bed, she wanted to have sex and i (i was much more sober than her) didn't say no. I feel bad about it :/
She's not a "one-time" girl and i don't wanna lose her, but she's acting weird so i guess ill move on.

Strange, i was always a relationship-type guy not fuck-n-forget-type, but i guess people change Very Happy
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Martar




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PostPosted: Mon, 2nd Mar 2009 10:47    Post subject:
Maybe she is acting weird because she isnt sure where you want to take it from here either? Just a guess..
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wawrzul




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PostPosted: Mon, 2nd Mar 2009 11:29    Post subject:
No idea :/
We started off writing and texting to each other like crazy, meet occassionally (spelling fail? Very Happy) and now this sex situation. Oh and i didn't say clear that we had sex with others sleeping (not all of them, so i heard later...) in the same room, and one girl sleeping next to us...
So its kinda fucked up.
Also that girl of mine, she was really when drunk, said some nice things. I wonder if that's because alcohol gave her courage to say it or not? Also, one or two times i told her i need to know if she want's to be with me or not, cause i dont want to be her friend. She said that "it's not an easy question". Anyway, i dont think this is going to work so id better look for someone real.

Is there an expert who can help me to interpret this :
I remember that after i first kissed her lips, the next day she only kissed me on the cheek and i got a bit angry. Then i just left. The other day she wrote that it was all too quick so i was like "she is actually right...". Another day she came to my place to have a movies' night. We watched three movies, there were some situations when she was looking into my eyes, and i wondered if she wants something...but nothing happened eventually. After watching we got into her car and i drove with her a couple of blocks so she could find her way home. Finally, i told her to pull over and we talked for like a minute...then she suddenly leans over and kisses me on the lips with tongue - NOT like "let's be friends". I still wonder WTF??
Next there was the party and i wrote about it above already.

I have no clue what the hell is going on.
I suspect it's like she fights feelings inside her. She is the kind of a person who has to really know the other person before committing...but on those occasions something "broke" in her and some things happened.
After that party incident she almost doesn't speak to me. Fuck, this is EATING me on the inside. I just wanna know what the fuck is up!

PS. Oh and when we had sex i felt she wanted it very much - not sure if it was because she was hungry and didnt do it for a long time or something else? She was really passionate and that's what i really treasure in women.
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WankStaiNuK




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PostPosted: Mon, 2nd Mar 2009 11:47    Post subject:
Ive been living by myself for 3 years now!! got out of a 11 year relatiionship. she was fucking my m8 behind my back, not good!! but living alone is hassle free, just go out of weekends and pump sum bitches Razz


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lhzr




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PostPosted: Mon, 2nd Mar 2009 16:33    Post subject:
wawr, why don't you ask her again to come over for a movie? if she says no, you can ask her if anything's wrong. maybe she's confused because of things moving faster than she would've expected.
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wawrzul




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PostPosted: Tue, 3rd Mar 2009 08:15    Post subject:
lhzr wrote:
wawr, why don't you ask her again to come over for a movie? if she says no, you can ask her if anything's wrong. maybe she's confused because of things moving faster than she would've expected.

Well i decided to give her space for this week and we are going to the same place to party on friday. Ill guess im gonna play her and pretend not to care for the most of the evening. Then im gonna strike Very Happy
Her friend (a girl, they are close) told me that i should proceed with the "chase is better than the catch" scheme. I think its fucking stupid but im gonna play along. If she doesn't react how id like her to react, ill just leave and never speak to her again (maybe until she does first).
That's a plan Laughing
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pistolshrimp
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PostPosted: Tue, 3rd Mar 2009 08:32    Post subject:
Sounds like a lame plan. Just be yourself and do what you want instead of playing games.
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lhzr




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PostPosted: Tue, 3rd Mar 2009 13:56    Post subject:
yeah, i don't see the point of this sort of thing either. how is this better than talking to her and asking her what's up?
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helvete




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PostPosted: Tue, 3rd Mar 2009 21:41    Post subject:
Van.Helsing wrote:
At the moment my living situation is a huge clusterfuck, i love the woman, we're not together, wish we were i love her that much, the house is mine, can't kick her out, i'm not that kind of guy, just one big clusterfuck.

Ouch.. I've been there. Feel for you man.. it's a horrible situation. Sad
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wawrzul




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PostPosted: Wed, 4th Mar 2009 09:03    Post subject:
lhzr wrote:
yeah, i don't see the point of this sort of thing either. how is this better than talking to her and asking her what's up?

Because she's always like "i don't know" and many times i was like - fuck that, and i stopped talking to her. But then again she turned to me and we started "dating" again.
I guess im gonna just talk to her, ask her whether she wants to be with me or not. Any other answer than "yes" and im just gonna fucking walk away and never talk to her again (especially if i hear the legendary "let's be friends") cause this whole situation bugs me, i hate not knowing where i stand.
Funny thing is that girl has got two female friends who, i know, envy her our "relationship". Dont get me wrong, its not like i aint modest Laughing It's that those other girls only had sex relationships. Plus i use them both to pass romantic gifts (to "my girl") from time to time.
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WankStaiNuK




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PostPosted: Wed, 4th Mar 2009 11:39    Post subject:
im having a nightmare with my ex aswell, heads right up my rubens atm!! i was with her 10 years, and we have a loverly little boy, she rings me 20times+ a day, and now my feelings have come back ,and i want to sort it out with her more then anything, but i cant work her out!!!! ive told her i am going to stop going round to see them so much, and she says my son enjoys having me round. what do i do? its not fair on my son!!! Sad


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cnZ
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PostPosted: Wed, 4th Mar 2009 12:27    Post subject:
i like to fuck women who already have husbands


yes
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WankStaiNuK




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PostPosted: Wed, 4th Mar 2009 13:53    Post subject:
cnZ wrote:
i like to fuck women who already have husbands

well i hope 1 day that some dude fucks ur missus behing ur back, and see how u feel Laughing
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