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SycoShaman
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Well, based on the lil info you posted...sound to me like she's confused, not sure of herself, has matured and insecure.
I could be wrong. But you havent given me much to work with mate 
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 04:08 Post subject: |
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Do what your heart tells you if you want her back or not.
If you do want her back don't make the first move. Let her make it and then seem hesitant about it and later accept. Desperation or moving in first will take any chance of you being with her again away.
If you don't want her back then I suggest you remain civil with her and when and if she starts to hint wanting to be back together you make clear but gentle that your not interested. She may pursue you for a little time but just be clear and kind when you reject and tell her you just wish to have a friendship. Eventually she will move on.
Now I'm going to give you a little extra advice which normally goes against what I would ever tell anyone. If you wish to have sex with her at least one more time do what I said in the if you don't want her back advise. Instead of pursuing the rejection switch to hesitant in the middle and then meet her in person. Make it clear that your interested in her (or so she thinks) and that night bring her to your home and have sex with her (shes unlikely to reject as she wants to secure the relationship and will see this almost like sealing the deal) Then dump her or continue to have sex with her until either the sex slows down or you get bored of her.
Goodluck!
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 11:30 Post subject: |
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I don't like MSN, I need facetime to see expressions and such when I talk to someone, but we chatted for about three hours. The longest MSN time I've ever known is probably just ten minutes, so chatting for three hours without getting bored is extremely rare for me. I'll take the "be cool" advice, seems like the best course of action.
The main problem really is that she isn't near, so going up there and talking isn't a possibility. Suddenly poppung up in that area would raise alot of question in peoples heads, I don't need that kind of hassle. Girls talk and even chat so damn cryptical, over MSN it's near impossible to know what they exactly want and mean. It is a strange sex indeed.
As for the sex thing, I never even kissed her  . Sex has happened with various girls after this relationship, but I didn't really take girls seriously after her. So 'using' her for sex is still not an option, even though I'm still a bit angry.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 11:46 Post subject: |
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If it didnt work the first time it will never work again.
Fact; im living proof of it so many times.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 02:50 Post subject: |
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haha, naw.
Me and Syco have been MSN bum-chums since the early days of the forum, he has had just as much shit from vagina fitted humans as me.
I mean srsly, go in the archives of the bitching session, theres like 10 threads about girls by me, maybe even more. I know after the last 2-3 long term breakups of memory I can say I posted here to vent my shit too.
To be honest I just gave the fuck up on girls. The last one I was with (prior to my current GF) I was with her like.. I dunno, a few months. Then she just drops my ass by text. SO instead of my usual feel sorry for myself til I got over it, I hit that bitch up on my phone, called her every name under the sun and said I thought about an ex she hated every time she sucked my dick (which wasnt near enough).
After so many times of stupid shit like this OP stuff, if a girl started her shit I just tried my hardest to hit that then GTFO. Luckily though now I think I found a good one for me. Shes not so crazy as the others, but still shes female so she has her moments, but she sucks good and she likes to watch movies so I couldnt give a crap for now.
Heh got a little carried away with myself there huh? I know I've been absent here a lot recently.. just cba with the net as much as I used to.
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 10:02 Post subject: |
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The worst thing is their tendency to be vague. Just say what you mean woman, I'm not a damn mindreader. That's why I like spending time with my friends, if a guy wants or does not want something he'll just say it. Everytime I'm with a girl it feels like work, like solving a puzzle. They talk in code, I suspect they get special education for that. And once you say something seemingly innocent and unimportant they're pissed off all of a sudden. Don't even dare ask 'What the fuck did I say?", you'll get the standard answer "You know what you said!". I wouldn't ask what the hell is going on if I knew what the hell is going on would I?
Oh well, sometimes I think I should turn gay and be done with it.
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| Posted: Thu, 15th Jan 2009 00:46 Post subject: |
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I guess, u'd better make up your mind first: do you want her or not.
If you do want her - then do it the way you like, not the way she would like.
By the way, in every aspect of your life, the behaviour of an "Alpha Male" (do only the things you want, no matter what the others might think) is the best, imo. And with the girls it's the easiest tactic and strategy in 90% of cases - you want it - you take it
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| Posted: Thu, 15th Jan 2009 01:09 Post subject: |
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My opinion, girls don't reserve respect, they need to earn it the hard way, they talk in riddles, fuck them and dump them, hurt them like you never hurt a person before. They play with your feelings, fuck them and play with their feelings them dump then. Only give respect to women who are open and honest, thats my perogative, I don't need that mindfucking, just causes me stress, if I see a cocktease I will fucking open my mouth and nail that bitch to the ground and pound on her puny selfesteem, thats my way of life and it has allways treated me well.
my 2 cents....
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| Posted: Thu, 15th Jan 2009 01:29 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | My opinion, girls don't reserve respect, they need to earn it the hard way, they talk in riddles, fuck them and dump them, hurt them like you never hurt a person before. They play with your feelings, fuck them and play with their feelings them dump then. Only give respect to women who are open and honest, thats my perogative, I don't need that mindfucking, just causes me stress, if I see a cocktease I will fucking open my mouth and nail that bitch to the ground and pound on her puny selfesteem, thats my way of life and it has allways treated me well.
my 2 cents.... |
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| Posted: Thu, 15th Jan 2009 02:58 Post subject: |
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Actually yes they have to
Respect My Authoritahhhh!!!
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 15th Jan 2009 03:25 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | My opinion, girls don't reserve respect, they need to earn it the hard way, they talk in riddles, fuck them and dump them, hurt them like you never hurt a person before. They play with your feelings, fuck them and play with their feelings them dump then. Only give respect to women who are open and honest, thats my perogative, I don't need that mindfucking, just causes me stress, if I see a cocktease I will fucking open my mouth and nail that bitch to the ground and pound on her puny selfesteem, thats my way of life and it has allways treated me well.
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