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 Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 20:37 Post subject: Another Dumb Bitch, What to do!!!! |
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So now it’s my turn to bitch about my relationships 
I don’t know where to start. But ok
So i met this girl at a party a couple of weeks ago. She was really my type of girl. I liked her, she liked me, it was really great. But I guess we went to fast. I saw her almost every day at her house. She dragged me into her house and introduced me to her mother on the 2nd time we saw each other after the party. Her mother was fine with me coming by every day blah blah blah. I was really gentle with her. I didn’t do shit she didn’t like. And i always told her '' if you don’t like something about me or the way I’m acting, just say it''. And guess what she never fucking did.
She told me she loves me so many times. She would never leave me for no one. She even didn’t speak to her sister anymore. Because her sister said shit about me. But that a whole different story. She cried for me several times. Because she was afraid that I would leave her.
So everything was going fantastic until new years day.
SO
I was bored to death because every1 was still sleeping and unconscious from all the alcohol they drank so I started harassing her a bit with text messages. She was fine with it. A couple hours later I called her. Her voice sounded like she was pissed off. She always had that. Sometimes she sounds angry but isn’t. That’s just the way she is. And her mother’s exactly the same. So i asked her ''what’s wrong why are you angry'' just for fun. She says I’m not angry.
Me: What are you doing
Her: Something
Me: What
Her: Something
I’m like huh...., ow ok. Why can’t you just say what you’re doing. Why something? Am i not worthy enough to know? And then she stared to sound even more pissed off. So I said. I have to go. ll speak to you later. Love you... She says: ok. So I say: Don’t you love me??? And she repleys: Off Course huhhhh.
A couple of hours later she texts me a message.
I don’t think this will work between us. We have to much differences blah blah blah. Would you like to stay friends.
I don’t know what happened. The only think i could think of was WTF, just WTF. I called her several times. And her mother took up the phone. I’m like: I would like to talk to her. Where is she. Her mother says she’s taking a shower. YEAHHHHH SUREEEEEE. So I hung up. Call back a couple of minutes later and her mother lies to me again.
ME: Where is she?
MOTHER: She’s studying for school.
RIGHHHTTTT. So i hang up again. Wait a couple of minutes and keep calling. NOW the mother starts arguing with me.
YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT NO AS AN ANSWER. ITS OVER
I’m like: HUHHHHH WHY CANT SHE TELL ME THAT HERSELF. LET ME SPEAK TO HER
And the mother goes on and on and on. Until finally I couldn’t take it anymore. And said some things to her (facts) that left her speechless for like half a minute. I didn’t call her names or something. Just stuff I know about her and her mother. I then said: Ok Bye and hung up the phone.
Couple of minutes later (ll just refer to that chick as bitch from now on) bitch calls me back. She yells to me. I DONT WANT ANYMORE AND THAT IM TOO PUSHY. I’m like WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!. How the fuck can you say that. I’ve never been pushy about anything. So she yells it a couple more times and runs away from the phone. So her mother takes over. So i gave her mother another good combo and hung up the phone.
She texts me things like. I don’t want to see you anymore blah blah blah. And that she will change her phone numbers.
So she did. The day after. But it didnt end there.
Im a very caring person. I really regreted yelling to her mom. So i bought a bouquet of flowers with a sorry card, layed it in front of her house. Rang the door bell and walked off.
But now I’m like WTF. So i don’t know what to think. Did she lie all the time??? WTF!
Last Friday I waited for her at the train station. Where she gets out to walk to home. She was with her mother. So I start saying things like: WAS IT ALL A BIG LIE?? WHO COULD YOU DO THIS?? WHY ARE YOU LIE ING? She walks like there’s nothing going on. A minute later. She starts calling the police. The says her EX is harassing her. Then I don’t know what the fuck happened her mother starts acting like she’s experiencing a heart attack or something. I’m like: Is everything alright? Bitch just keeps on walking. So i scream to bitch: WTF look at your mom where the hell are you going you moron!!! Mom starts acting normal again. So I just let them walk away.
WTF SHOULD I DOO. There are some things i just need to know. And I’m planning on harassing her until she gives me some answers. Why can’t she just take 5 minutes to talk to me and get everything out of the way??
At least i banged her a couple of times . Stupid bitch.
I really liked her. But theres something really wrong with her. Ow yeah did I tell you see can’t read analog watches. Thats Just to sad. Dumb bitch.
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X_Dror
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 20:41 Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | She told me she loves me so many times. She would never leave me for no one. She even didn’t speak to her sister anymore. Because her sister said shit about me. But that a whole different story. She cried for me several times. Because she was afraid that I would leave her. |
That's sounds very off. She doesn't sound like a very stable person. Didn't you notice it on an earlier stage?
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Big_Gun
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 20:46 Post subject: Re: Another Dumb Bitch, What to do!!!! |
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| valkyrian wrote: |
WTF SHOULD I DOO. There are some things i just need to know. And I’m planning on harassing her until she gives me some answers. Why can’t she just take 5 minutes to talk to me and get everything out of the way??
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Best thing you could possibly do is act like you couldn't care less.
When you fawn all over girls and act like they are all they mean to you, they piss on you. When you act like they aren't a big deal, they follow you around like puppy dogs.
No matter how much you don't want to, that's how you need to act.
Don't call her.
Don't act hurt around her.
Find someone else as soon as possible.
She obviously wants nothing to do with you at this point no matter the reason.
The reason doesn't much matter.
Just tell yourself she is banging someone else. If it's not that, then you'll be pleasantly surprised.
1 stripe purple belt in JiuJitsu (good grief this takes FOREVER hahah)
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 20:47 Post subject: Re: Another Dumb Bitch, What to do!!!! |
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| valkyrian wrote: |
WTF SHOULD I DOO. |
Just let it go, not worth your time.
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 20:53 Post subject: Re: Another Dumb Bitch, What to do!!!! |
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| inz wrote: | | valkyrian wrote: |
WTF SHOULD I DOO. |
Just let it go, not worth your time. |
Its just hard to do. A bunch of people told me the exact same thing.
@ Big_Gun
Thanx for the advice man. And for the record. I already found someone else. But still it bothers me a bit. That it had to go like that. My biggest question is WHY? If she really loved me then our differences would matter
@ X_Dror
HAHAHA. Yes i noticed it. But i just thought it was because she cared for me very much.
(And i said in the last sentence that theres something wrong with her  )
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 21:01 Post subject: |
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And no shes not banging someone else. Thats not her. But i guess i couldn't care less now.
Im done with her. Although i still feel a bit for her.
Bitches can really fuck up your mind
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 21:04 Post subject: |
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L...E...T....I..T....S...L..I...D...E
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 22:03 Post subject: |
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looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
been there
done that
move on
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 22:08 Post subject: |
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you can only trust em as far as you can throw em.
this sounds like a classic cheating scenario, especially if she was attached to the hip and suddenly doesn't need you anymore.
don't believe the "I love u" shit when you've only known each other for a few days/weeks, even months. true love only happens over time.
Big_Gun's advice is very good, when you act like she's not a big deal and the situation doesn't bother you, she's more likely to latch back on.
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 22:38 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
been there
done that
move on |
SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE MASTER
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| Posted: Sun, 11th Jan 2009 22:50 Post subject: |
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| tedrotheredro wrote: | you can only trust em as far as you can throw em.
this sounds like a classic cheating scenario, especially if she was attached to the hip and suddenly doesn't need you anymore.
don't believe the "I love u" shit when you've only known each other for a few days/weeks, even months. true love only happens over time.
Big_Gun's advice is very good, when you act like she's not a big deal and the situation doesn't bother you, she's more likely to latch back on. |
If i find out she was cheating on me. ll break her in 2. Or maybe i wont, but somebody will. But she really didnt seem like the cheating type. Afterall i was with her almost every day. And some days till after 2 am. And the fact that she let me meet her mother, im sure the mother wont allow her to bring home a new boyfriend all the time. They didnt seem like that. But for all i care. Fuck them.
Ow and btw this is my msn nick thingy now
SAV3 M3 FR0M WR3AKING MY V3NG3ANC3 UP0N Y0U !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
haha DISTURBED FTW
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Big_Gun
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 01:58 Post subject: |
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| valkyrian wrote: | | tedrotheredro wrote: | you can only trust em as far as you can throw em.
this sounds like a classic cheating scenario, especially if she was attached to the hip and suddenly doesn't need you anymore.
don't believe the "I love u" shit when you've only known each other for a few days/weeks, even months. true love only happens over time.
Big_Gun's advice is very good, when you act like she's not a big deal and the situation doesn't bother you, she's more likely to latch back on. |
But she really didnt seem like the cheating type. Afterall i was with her almost every day. And some days till after 2 am. And the fact that she let me meet her mother, im sure the mother wont allow her to bring home a new boyfriend all the time. They didnt seem like that. But for all i care. Fuck them.
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Lesson learned. next time. . . on occasion, say you have other things to do once in a while when she wants to do something with you (even when you don't). don't act like she is the center of the universe and she will, in return, act like you are.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 02:24 Post subject: |
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needy dysfunctional girls.
come on man.
She may not seem like the cheating type. So what? She's still a basket case.
Meeting a mum is normal. I met this girls mum. Means nothing really.
You've known her a short while. The next guy will stay will 6 am. Seriously.
Nothing lost and nothing gained. She's a loose one too, I bet.
Nice guy acts don't work that well these days. Being all poetic like, generous, well endowed, and gentlemenylike doesn't flow. You get what you do. And being all clingy from the get-go. Is a bad idear too. Srsly braw. Forget her. Find a new NORMAL lass. If you want something decent. Not some teenage indie-dysfunctional-emo girl.
I bet she's been hurt a lot. No?
Like come on. Every girl problem thread here is all the same. The girl is a loon.
Start going for normal girls!! Everyone! Fuck! Look at nouse, syn, sin, and other lads who have functional lasses for their bed-companions. They aren't fucked in their heads. They aren't loons. And they aren't basket-cases. There's nothing wrong with being single. There is, of course, something wrong with falling for a girl that has no sane thought in her head. You get what you pay for. And you paid in loonies! 
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 02:43 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | needy dysfunctional girls.
come on man.
Nice guy acts don't work that well these days. Being all poetic like, generous, well endowed, and gentlemenylike doesn't flow. You get what you do. And being all clingy from the get-go. Is a bad idear too. Srsly braw. Forget her. Find a new NORMAL lass. If you want something decent. Not some teenage indie-dysfunctional-emo girl.
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I guess that was my problem. I was all generous, poetic, acted like gentleman and shit. Did everything for that bitch. But you can only trust em as far as you can throw em.
@ Big_Gun
don't act like she is the center of the universe and she will, in return, act like you are.
Once again a wise lesson learned .
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 02:49 Post subject: |
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| wgem wrote: | dude seriously wtf. You sound so young.. A girl youve known like 3 weeks, AND YOU BANGED HER, dumps you? Who gives a crap, you had an experience, you got laid, she was a nut job, the fucking end.
You wanna be thanking your lucky stars she didnt get pregnant and try to tie you down stuck to her crazy ass and with her mother from hell, you would have been posting this thread a year down the line and it would be a hell of a lot more shit.
Get away and dont look back, theres lots of chicks to pick up at parties. You dont 'fall in love' in a 'couple of weeks'  pussywhipped is the word here. |
OMFG YOU JUST NAILED IT
MOTHER FROM FUCKING HELL 
HAHA you guys made my day
Banged her a couple of times. I really should be thanking my lucky stars
You guys are teh shit
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| Posted: Mon, 12th Jan 2009 03:04 Post subject: |
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| wgem wrote: | | so quit your bitching and go find some gamez in the PC section, always the best way to chill at this time of day |
Will do, Thanx man
Thanx everyone
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Jan 2009 23:08 Post subject: Re: Another Dumb Bitch, What to do!!!! |
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| Big_Gun wrote: | | valkyrian wrote: |
WTF SHOULD I DOO. There are some things i just need to know. And I’m planning on harassing her until she gives me some answers. Why can’t she just take 5 minutes to talk to me and get everything out of the way??
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Best thing you could possibly do is act like you couldn't care less.
When you fawn all over girls and act like they are all they mean to you, they piss on you. When you act like they aren't a big deal, they follow you around like puppy dogs.
No matter how much you don't want to, that's how you need to act.
Don't call her.
Don't act hurt around her.
Find someone else as soon as possible.
She obviously wants nothing to do with you at this point no matter the reason.
The reason doesn't much matter.
Just tell yourself she is banging someone else. If it's not that, then you'll be pleasantly surprised. |
this is the way to treat a woman & a bitch . for as long as she knows she can lose you, she'll always be around you. if you keep acting like you said you did, then that gives them power and control over you. and that is very stupid & fun (only to look not experience) |
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Your friendly internet psychologist says;
She sounds like a stereotypical borderliner! (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder)
Have a great day,
Praetori.
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@Val
Dude, sounds like a) she's cheating b) she's a nutcase
Went through that with my exwife.
When things were good, every phone call ended with her saying "I love you baby" or something involving the words "I love you"
When things went bad, she stopped saying it and like you, i'd ask, why dont you say you love me? Ya love me? And she'd say "Yeah of course, bye Raine"......she was cheating or was with someone she ended up leaving me for and didnt want that person to hear her say "I love you baby".
My advice, DROP HER right away man. Been through so I know all the signs and what not.
Women suck at that sorta thing.
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