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Support81
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| nouseforaname wrote: | | Support81 wrote: | Forgot to say grats to u in my other posts.
So congrats man!
Have u planed any honeymoon yet?  |
thanks  and yeah, honeymoon is probably going to be a trip to France and Spain ... bachelor party is going to be in New Orleans |
Hehe nice! Spain is a really nice country.
France im not such a big fan of.  |
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Nov 2008 11:36 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: |
How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Marriage can be a great thing when both people are on the same page. To me marriage means you are happy with the person you are with and don't want to be with anyone else sexually. (altho some marriages are different)
Freedom and indepenence should never be given up because of marriage. Sometimes having someone to support and share your interests and beliefs can be a great thing. It doesn't have to be about the 'ball and chain' |
Not at all, I'm only 23 (and before anyone says anything, I've heard it all before, "Oh, but you're still so young..." is the favorite of older people, especially ) but I maintain that I know myself well enough by now to make that claim. I mean for as long as I can remember, I've never felt a need, per se, to be with other people.
It's not like I'm a hermit or anything, I enjoy a friendly company as much as anyone, and sure it's fun to go have a good time with friends every now and again - but I could very well go without all that, as well (thankfully my friends understand this, so they don't get butthurt if I decline an invitation to a bar night, or to do sports etc). I really enjoy doing things such as going to the movies, hiking and traveling etc. alone - for some people the very idea of enjoying one's own company seems simply impossible to grasp, so usually I don't even bother explaining my point of view. All you get is funny looks, anyway. 
And in my view relationships (and thus marriage) is just an extension to that idea - they don't have all that much to offer me, so I'd just end up losing parts of my life that I deem more important. I've tried a long-term relationship a few times, and it hasn't worked out very well, it just starts to feel awkward, tiresome and restrictive before long (and they weren't 'bad' relationships).
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Nov 2008 12:43 Post subject: |
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Since i'm only 22 i have other more important things to achieve. Like getting laid on a regular basis.... -_-
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Nov 2008 18:14 Post subject: |
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Maybe because to those people it's not intimate and personal and they would like to celebrate the occasion in the company of their loved ones/near and dears?
Do you also have solo birthday party's in your bathroom?
EDIT: The better alternative is not getting married through the stupid formal process in our culture. If you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you aren't obligated to marry just because society puts the "Title" as a requirement between two people.
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Nov 2008 19:14 Post subject: |
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man , hopefully i'll get married with someone who's really worth it in the next 10 years , before i'm fucking 30 ..
someone that shouldnt really fit like a glove , but me and her should have some real chemistry , i wouldnt like it if she would only echo my thoughts , ideas , etc .
i'd rather have a different kinda person than i am , but who i would completely adore and be crazy about , sofar i had only one girl with which i had this feeling , and i really loved it , so hopefully i'll find someone else or .. fuck know , i won't get married . there's no point to get married if you really don't feel like it would work or you don't truly feel love for that person
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To me it's intimate and personal and I don't want to share it with anyone except my woman.
