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 Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 02:12 Post subject: Who here believes in soulmates? |
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Question is easy enough, I know I finally found mine, so question is, how do you experience this and do you believe in it?
Reasons I know she's mine are the following,
- she's never mad at me and allways talks and thinks before acting
- she finishes my sentences
- we share the same deep emotions
- we can be comfortable together even when not talking
- there are never awkward silences and we allways have stuff to talk about
- she's as smart as me(and I don't think anyone could be that smart)
- we both hate the same things and people
- we share the same intrests
- we just click
quite a few more, but those above are most important I guess.
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 02:15 Post subject: |
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hey look, a relationship thread that isn't in the bitching section!!
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 02:17 Post subject: |
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yeah she's the other half of you until she's caught having sex with a black man in a cheap motel
love is BS you naive pieces of meat , hit & run ftw [/troll]
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 02:33 Post subject: |
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It's a stupid concept for stupid people.
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 03:47 Post subject: Re: Who here believes in soulmates? |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: |
- she's as smart as me(and I don't think anyone could be that smart)
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I stopped reading there because I had to vomit from laughter.
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 04:10 Post subject: |
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Hahaha, I put that one in to annoy people, seems I already suckered one guy into my little web:) Its allways the retarded ones that fall for that shit first:)
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Phluxed
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 05:08 Post subject: |
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I think soulmates is a ridiculous concept. Sometimes you find people you click really well with, and then you have to work to make it work.
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 09:21 Post subject: |
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And they lived happily ever after 
Well if you like her, thy to make it into sth longer (try being with her for a year or two), and if you still feel the same after that marry her 
"Quantum mechanics is actually, contrary to it's reputation, unbeliveably simple, once you take the physics out."
Scott Aaronson | chiv wrote: | | thats true you know. newton didnt discover gravity. the apple told him about it, and then he killed it. the core was never found. |
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 09:47 Post subject: |
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| Phluxed wrote: | | I think soulmates is a ridiculous concept. Sometimes you find people you click really well with, and then you have to work to make it work. |
Signed!
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Cohen
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| Posted: Wed, 15th Oct 2008 13:11 Post subject: |
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Well, known her for 2 months now, but she's better than anyone else I met so far in my life.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 03:30 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | | Well, known her for 2 months now, but she's better than anyone else I met so far in my life. |
dude, you cant come to the conclusion that someone is your soul mate because you've been dating 2 months.
If you've been together say 20 years and your marriage is really good and such, then you can safely say you found your soul mate.
To be honest man, I think you wear your heart on your sleeve and you set yourself up to get hurt.
All the women Ive been with are the best for the first 6months-1 year and then they change.
And women also change when you live with them.
So dude, dont go all googly eyed over this girl calling her your soulmate. She may be really cool, you may click, share alot of things etc but you cant say she's your soulmate after 2 months |
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 04:32 Post subject: |
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Dude, have you learned nothing from past experiences? Because it totally sounds like every relationship comprises of having your memory erased and starting over. In 2 months you've learned absolutely nothing from/of this girl. As Syco said, circumstances change and with that so do women but this isn't always true.
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 04:34 Post subject: |
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| KrAzY-KaMeL wrote: | | circumstances change and with that so do women but this isn't always true. |
it is
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 04:38 Post subject: Re: Who here believes in soulmates? |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | Question is easy enough, I know I finally found mine, so question is, how do you experience this and do you believe in it?
Reasons I know she's mine are the following,
- she's never mad at me and allways talks and thinks before acting
- she finishes my sentences
- we share the same deep emotions
- we can be comfortable together even when not talking
- there are never awkward silences and we allways have stuff to talk about
- she's as smart as me(and I don't think anyone could be that smart)
- we both hate the same things and people
- we share the same intrests
- we just click
quite a few more, but those above are most important I guess. |
If you ask me this is infatuation,? I could be totally worng?
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 04:46 Post subject: Re: Who here believes in soulmates? |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: |
If you ask me this is infatuation,? I could be totally worng? |
you are not worng
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 04:58 Post subject: |
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your quoting is worng tho
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 06:02 Post subject: |
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| Mortibus wrote: | | your quoting is worng tho |
Screw off!!!
They got my meaning. Look I used a period. Should we talk about that now?
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 06:21 Post subject: |
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Ok so lets say I have had about 59 women in my life so far and noone even came close to this one, then still she couldn't be the one for me?
PS : only one with brains in this thread is syco BTW, and see I am not including myself.
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 06:36 Post subject: |
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Hey, OP, fuck you! How about that?
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 07:43 Post subject: |
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I'm not touching this.
Well ok. Soul mate's don't exist. 
You're with a person for a long while, you become adjusted to them.
You're with them for a long time because you're attracted to them.
That's that. Intimacy happens. Affection grows stronger.
"love" happens. Which just means you're accustomed to that person.
You can't say you found a soulmate. Cause that's bs.
Just be happy with whom you're with and that's that.
Make sure conversations aren't gay/one sided
(lotta people believe soul mates are people who share the exact same opinion on EVERYTHING)
if that's a happy soulmate lifestyle, then i'd rather be unhappy.
You need confusion. You need chaos. You need abnormality.
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 08:19 Post subject: Re: Who here believes in soulmates? |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | Question is easy enough, I know I finally found mine, so question is, how do you experience this and do you believe in it?
Reasons I know she's mine are the following,
- she's never mad at me and allways talks and thinks before acting
- she finishes my sentences
- we share the same deep emotions
- we can be comfortable together even when not talking
- there are never awkward silences and we allways have stuff to talk about
- she's as smart as me(and I don't think anyone could be that smart)
- we both hate the same things and people
- we share the same intrests
- we just click
quite a few more, but those above are most important I guess. |
- wait a lil bit more , she'll blow her lid off sometime in the next 2 months
- boring , that's like echoing your own thought and not hearing anything new
- as in what ? cry toghter in movies ?
- stuff ? well , stuff will run out , or new that you don't see eye to eye on and then it will start some fight
- this too shall pass
- awww aren't you the modest one ?
- bla bla bla
well , 2 months aint enough for enough shit to happen , but if you think that she's really trustworthy and you love her (in 2 months that CAN happen ) , then go for it
if she's special/interesting/new you'll love that aspect more than anything , that doesnt mean she's lovable or anything , but your fascinated by her .
personally , the soulmates idea is kinda dumb , i'd hate to have a soulmate , it'll make my all so boring life even more boring .. but i to tend to think that if some things are meant to happen , then it's only a matter of time until they become reality
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Cohen
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 09:37 Post subject: |
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I think you lot are being a bit harsh. Soul mate in my eyes is just a word to describe someone who you feel is perfect for you.. Nothing more.
There is a perfect partner out there for everyone, if there wasnt the human race wouldnt have lasted this long.
troll detected by SiN
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 17:06 Post subject: |
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To me it kinda describes what kaeye is saying, just the feeling you can be yourself, not afraid to speak out when she's talking garbage, most other relationships I didn't have this feeling. Would she make my life boring, no cuz she's as mental and chaotic as me, and thats saying alot:LOL:
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Phluxed
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 17:36 Post subject: |
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I would wager to say Pfiemelcheese has very little interesting things to say to anyone besides girls. Get castrated so you can think about other things!
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 17:54 Post subject: |
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Hard not to think about women when you have so much testosteron flowing through your veins, maybe I should just stop working out and I can start posting about metapsychological shit:)
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 17:59 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | | To me it kinda describes what kaeye is saying, just the feeling you can be yourself, not afraid to speak out when she's talking garbage, most other relationships I didn't have this feeling. Would she make my life boring, no cuz she's as mental and chaotic as me, and thats saying alot:LOL: |
But dude, just because you guys click doesnt make her your "soul mate". Ive clicked with alot of women and they werent my soul mate.
And 2 months into a relationship you cant say she's your soul mate. Women change. Atleast all the women ive been with and every guy ive spoken to about women say the same thing. They are the best in the first few months of the relationship then things start to change slowly but they still are cool. Then you move in together and then they show their true colours. Not always bad, but often.
You dont really know a woman till you've lived with her for a couple of years.
Because when your dating and live apart, you may piss her off but she's polite, doesnt say anything because she knows she's going home in a couple of hours and that will be that. But when you live with a woman its completely different. If you piss her off, your gunna fight. Even if she goes to her girlfriends for a while or even the night, she still has to come home and your gunna have to deal with the issue.
Im not saying dont be happy and enthusiastic and such. Be positive. But dont get the mentality that "she's the one" or "she's my soulmate" cause she could change or lose interest in a few months or a year or something and then your going to be heart broken. Take it day by day man. Feel for her, express your affection but dont set yourself up for heartbreak.
Lots of young ppl do that man (even older ppl do). Its the feeling of wanting someone to love you a ton. Everyone wants that. But it has to happen naturally, over time. You have to see the bad side of someone as well as the good side. That way you know what your getting into. Just because say she bitches at you occasionally for something doesnt mean she doesnt love you, thats how ppl are. No one is happy all the time.
Take your time, dont rush love. It cant be rushed. Its gotta happen naturally.
Love is a very strong word and means alot. So dont use it lightly. Like Ive dated and still occasionally do women who after a month start ending phone calls with "I love you baby". And its like...ok...a month and she loves me? I mean, it can happen, but you have to be reserved. Wait till you've seen all sides of the person, know all their little quirks and stuff and what you like and dislike about them before you commit yourself by telling them you love them. And that doesnt happen in a month. Atleast year or so.
I read in a medical journal not to long ago that for the first year of ppl are excited about the new person in their life and learning about them and alot of ppl misinterpret this for "love". its more like infatuation.
After a year your used to the person, you know all about them etc and if the passion and heat is still there, then its safe to say you have something special.
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| Posted: Thu, 16th Oct 2008 18:55 Post subject: |
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Yeah, I know what you mean Syco, just hold back and take it a day at a time and spread my feelings and see what happens. Thnx.
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