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timechange01
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PostPosted: Wed, 19th Dec 2007 13:53    Post subject:
Girls play girly games like DDR and RPGs. I never heard of any girls into stuff like COD.

And I agree deelix the internet is a good escape from reality. The thing that really made a difference in my life though is my xbox getting fixed. Gave me a sense of accomplishment and hope for fixing stupid problems. And it also keeps me busy.

It is finals week in my school and I just have to go back there 2 more days including today to take final exams. But I made 1 friend as mentioned earlier from my theater class this semester because we were put into a group to do a group project. But he turned out to be gay. Not that theres anything wrong with that but Id like to have a friend I have a bit more in common with. He doesnt even play any games whatsoever or listen to music...



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PostPosted: Wed, 19th Dec 2007 20:41    Post subject:
Martian123 wrote:
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imaginary.number wrote:


Uhmmm things could be better too nakitu but let me correct my phrase in "with a girl that share A BIT of your main hobby" ... actually i have a wife that shares that "A BIT" of my pc passion, and it's enough for having some fun together with some casual fps or action rpg (we played titan quest together and it was quite fun, even if i had to make all the skill development and the like Smile ) and at the same time i eat very well and my house is rather well kept (of course i have to help her A BIT).
Sometimes i wondered how good it could have been to have a girl with EXACTLY my crazy passion for pc and games but you made me think about it and ... probably you are right it could be a disaster Smile
In the end anyway i still think and believe that a gf at least a bit interested in pc & games is a good partner for any mad pc addicted dude Smile


Damn, where do you meet these women? I have yet to met a woman that plays videogames....sucks...


I've met many video game playing women, they just always want to play something mario Surprised( I am not a big gamer, but someone who played some games would be cool from time to time.


Im not a big gamer either, but I do like to play videogames from time to time when good ones come out. It'd be nice to have someone to play with you know?


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PostPosted: Sat, 22nd Dec 2007 15:40    Post subject:
@ syco / martian : ahah in reality i don't have met that very high number of them, at least in "real life", uhm let me count them ... well they have been 4 maybe 5 (for one i am unsure) in all of my life, i mean women that can be defined to be interested in videogames.
Anyway only one of them was *truly* crazy like me with computer rpg and the like, but unfortunately i didn't interested her Sad
As i said however i was fortunate enough to marry a woman that sometimes and in some limits, can share a nice play with some games with me !
Mainly fps like Serious Sam but even some action rpg like Diablo 2 or Titan Quest (even if i have to make all the thinking and character development for her), but it's quite a big plus inside a relationship for me.
Surely it could be unnecessary for some and it's not something that ensures the relationship itself, but for me it's very very nice.


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PostPosted: Sat, 22nd Dec 2007 16:29    Post subject:
one of the reasons my ex and I just split up was that I shared no interests with her apart from a few music tastes.. I am a hardcore PC/gamer type so I guess my next GF will need to like it too, not just accept it. Cos when she accepted it, that was ok for a while but not for long.


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PostPosted: Sat, 22nd Dec 2007 21:05    Post subject:
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one of the reasons my ex and I just split up was that I shared no interests with her apart from a few music tastes.. I am a hardcore PC/gamer type so I guess my next GF will need to like it too, not just accept it. Cos when she accepted it, that was ok for a while but not for long.


yeah mon

same with my ex. she tolerated what i liked. fuck that. I want someome to like the shit i do - music, tv, movies, books, games etc
Maybe not 100%, but like i would take someone into books lets say. I like to read and it would be good for conversations and such


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PostPosted: Sun, 23rd Dec 2007 19:23    Post subject:
SycoShaman wrote:
watergem wrote:
one of the reasons my ex and I just split up was that I shared no interests with her apart from a few music tastes.. I am a hardcore PC/gamer type so I guess my next GF will need to like it too, not just accept it. Cos when she accepted it, that was ok for a while but not for long.


yeah mon

same with my ex. she tolerated what i liked. fuck that. I want someome to like the shit i do - music, tv, movies, books, games etc
Maybe not 100%, but like i would take someone into books lets say. I like to read and it would be good for conversations and such


I think what makes it so hard for me, is that my ex and I share a lot in common, most things in fact. *sighs* Sad
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PostPosted: Sun, 23rd Dec 2007 19:36    Post subject:
that can also be a bad thing mate.

If you are too alike you get on each others nerves Smile


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PostPosted: Mon, 24th Dec 2007 15:01    Post subject:
prolly the best thing is sharing some of the interests, but not being an exact copy of the partner ... sometimes being a bit different can help one to appreciate other things that the partner likes ...

and, even if the child inside of me won't ever agree with this, there are very important things in a couple other then sharing some interests in the free time.

i agree in the end with what you say watergem, while sometimes i dream to have a more "the-stuff-i-like-addicted-wife", two copies of myself with opposite sex probably will kill each other in some weeks Smile


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PostPosted: Mon, 24th Dec 2007 15:59    Post subject:
the best way to do it is.. Think about dating yourself. If you where dating yourself, what habbits do you have that you think would annoy you. Your characteristics, your hobbies interests and daily routine. Would it be good to date you?


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PostPosted: Mon, 24th Dec 2007 23:17    Post subject:
Martian123 wrote:
SycoShaman wrote:
watergem wrote:
one of the reasons my ex and I just split up was that I shared no interests with her apart from a few music tastes.. I am a hardcore PC/gamer type so I guess my next GF will need to like it too, not just accept it. Cos when she accepted it, that was ok for a while but not for long.


yeah mon

same with my ex. she tolerated what i liked. fuck that. I want someome to like the shit i do - music, tv, movies, books, games etc
Maybe not 100%, but like i would take someone into books lets say. I like to read and it would be good for conversations and such


I think what makes it so hard for me, is that my ex and I share a lot in common, most things in fact. *sighs* Sad


that sucks man.

Im sure you'll find a next girl who's into the same thing you are. Plenty of fish in the sea.
See, you know how down Ive been lately about my ex, but fuck it. Something changed. I dont care anymore...just gotta move on. It may be hard (trust me I know) but shit, thats what ya gotta do sometimes

If anything, we're here for you bud Smile


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PostPosted: Tue, 25th Dec 2007 06:03    Post subject:
Martian123 wrote:
SycoShaman wrote:
watergem wrote:
one of the reasons my ex and I just split up was that I shared no interests with her apart from a few music tastes.. I am a hardcore PC/gamer type so I guess my next GF will need to like it too, not just accept it. Cos when she accepted it, that was ok for a while but not for long.


yeah mon

same with my ex. she tolerated what i liked. fuck that. I want someome to like the shit i do - music, tv, movies, books, games etc
Maybe not 100%, but like i would take someone into books lets say. I like to read and it would be good for conversations and such


I think what makes it so hard for me, is that my ex and I share a lot in common, most things in fact. *sighs* Sad



Is that the one you were talking about before?





@syco
I know what you mean about the games. I would go though huge phases with my ex. Esp over Christmas cuz he had it off. I was the one that left the house for the junk food runs, and beer. In some ways it is less work because all you do is sit on the couch and you don't really mess anything up. You have less to fight about becuse you are not out spending money, dragging each other to places the other doesn't want to go.
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PostPosted: Tue, 25th Dec 2007 06:32    Post subject:
@pistol,

The one I was talking about? Ya, personality wise we were very similar, that sorta thing.
I miss not having someone who'd do beer runs etc... I would actually do them a fair amount too, but sometimes it was cool to have someone else do it.


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PostPosted: Tue, 25th Dec 2007 07:04    Post subject:
Ya, those cool lazy days where you get roll outta bed together and don't have to do anything. Sometimes my sister would come over too. Running out for take out food. I just got a total craving for Boston Pizza pissa bread and alfardo sauce and Greek Salad. Now I am hungry
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PostPosted: Tue, 25th Dec 2007 07:13    Post subject:
I love BP's cactus cut nachos, mmm...

Yep I miss the days where you can lay in bed all day with someone you love. or just watch the stars, walk in the parks etc.

I am hungry too now! you crazy moose shrimp, now look at what you've done. Wink


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PostPosted: Wed, 26th Dec 2007 10:40    Post subject:
watergem wrote:
the best way to do it is.. Think about dating yourself. If you where dating yourself, what habbits do you have that you think would annoy you. Your characteristics, your hobbies interests and daily routine. Would it be good to date you?


Definitely not watergem. In my case at least in the end it's better to have someone at my side that shares a bit, but not totally, my characteristics, habits & passions.
And you ? Would you date yourself ?


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PostPosted: Wed, 26th Dec 2007 14:09    Post subject:
If I got a haircut Laughing


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PostPosted: Wed, 26th Dec 2007 19:51    Post subject:
pistolshrimp wrote:
Martian123 wrote:
SycoShaman wrote:


yeah mon

same with my ex. she tolerated what i liked. fuck that. I want someome to like the shit i do - music, tv, movies, books, games etc
Maybe not 100%, but like i would take someone into books lets say. I like to read and it would be good for conversations and such


I think what makes it so hard for me, is that my ex and I share a lot in common, most things in fact. *sighs* Sad



Is that the one you were talking about before?





@syco
I know what you mean about the games. I would go though huge phases with my ex. Esp over Christmas cuz he had it off. I was the one that left the house for the junk food runs, and beer. In some ways it is less work because all you do is sit on the couch and you don't really mess anything up. You have less to fight about becuse you are not out spending money, dragging each other to places the other doesn't want to go.


Im more the kinda guy that would go with my girl to the store. Do things together you know? Even minor things like that. I dont mind going out for 15 minutes to get some munchies and stuff. I do it all the time still. I hit the store for some kinda munchy once a day lol


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PostPosted: Wed, 26th Dec 2007 22:39    Post subject:
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If I got a haircut Laughing


uhm ... an haircut ? cause you like short haired women or cause you are a woman ? sorry for the idiot question Smile


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PostPosted: Fri, 1st Feb 2008 22:58    Post subject:
Oh mman I talked to a girl today. I said "do we get homework for this class" and she replied. She said something but I wasnt really paying too much attention. But yess a relatively superfun day at school.



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PostPosted: Mon, 10th Mar 2008 12:31    Post subject:
dude you are 21 live! - whenever i move to a new area or like when i moved to my campus or when i started my year at uni, i buy 1 bottle of vodka two mixers call one friend round outside the main area where everyone hangs out.
Then proceed to spend the entire day getting shitfaced, you meet so many new people there as girls and guys think you are a really cool fun guy. plus you talk more because less inhibitions.
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PostPosted: Mon, 10th Mar 2008 13:39    Post subject:
talk to a youger chick, impress her. She will go 'blablablabl' to her friends, and you will have more friends in no time... Wink

I never had a problem finding friends, but this year is insane. Im graduating my master this year and i met some hot hot hot 18yr old 1st year girls this year. You talk to them for like 10 mins and they think you are cool because you start working next year etc. Explain me why that is cool, but they think it is cool

I talked to them 10 mins, gave my number, you know the drill:p

And 2 days later she stared calling me, "I want to go dancing with you", so we went out. Me, she and couple of her hot hot hot friends. And they were dancing with me like those negro RnB music clips. I had a boner for 5h i think

Couple of weeks later, we started to know eachother etc. And she wants to come over to sleep here with her girlfriends etc. She wants to come over to play on the Wii, she wants to do drinking games here etc. Really cool group of girls. And they pay all their drinks themselves, they dont want anyone to pay for them. Isn't that amazing Laughing

And in reality, i am not that super cool But I have a Wii, and i can drink a lot and i am 23.

So if i can do that, you can do that. Wink
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PostPosted: Mon, 10th Mar 2008 15:21    Post subject:
Dude, if thats true, you are a true PIMP Laughing

You could have yourself a Wii sex fest in the making there Laughing


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PostPosted: Tue, 11th Mar 2008 01:06    Post subject:
nah, i am not a pimp. I hardly could get a cell phone number in the past. 18yr olds are just too easy
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PostPosted: Thu, 13th Mar 2008 02:21    Post subject:
Welll my girlfriend loves NFS,CS Source,the new Lost game,TimeShift,RCT3,COD4 in MP and she is really sexy and smart,so u can say i'm a luck guy, or a bastard if you please Very Happy


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PostPosted: Thu, 13th Mar 2008 02:49    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:
Oh mman I talked to a girl today. I said "do we get homework for this class" and she replied. She said something but I wasnt really paying too much attention. But yess a relatively superfun day at school.



I find that funny. Next time you gotta pay attention.
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PostPosted: Thu, 13th Mar 2008 03:09    Post subject:
Laughing bless him


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PostPosted: Thu, 13th Mar 2008 22:00    Post subject:
I getting sick of this. This school year will be over about 3 months and I still have no friends. And that 1 dude that was in my class last semester, well I haven't seen him since last year. If I had the opportunity to talk then I might. But I cannot just randomly go up to somebody and start talking. Thats just something Il never be able to do.

Im gonna try to talk to this 1 girl who sits next to me in one of my classes tommorow. I feel the need to communicate with somebody (in real life). Just anybody lol



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PostPosted: Thu, 13th Mar 2008 22:07    Post subject:
dude what the hell! Just make some random crap excuse to talk to someone, when someone is sitting by themselves just walk up and ask for the time, etc, drop a joke, compliment on something theyre are wearing. Not all of them will be nice but eventually someone will chat back.


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PostPosted: Fri, 14th Mar 2008 00:02    Post subject:
Tell them you got a Wii Very Happy

Now seriously just talk. Open your fucking mouth and listen to the words coming out.
Sorry for the language here.. I have problems getting 'first contact' myself because
most ppl assume I am snotty since I have kinda weird looks. It's not on purpose..

But when I start talking ppl will listen and as long as you don't insult your counterpart
there's a high chance you'll at least get a chance to meet them again.

You don't even have to talk profound stuff. When you leave class and pass by
a group of ppl just say something like '[name of your teacher] is a fucking dickhead'

I am just giving examples. But such a stupid oneliner can get you in contact with anyone!


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PostPosted: Fri, 14th Mar 2008 00:33    Post subject:
I don't know what to say. I never put forth any effort to get friends, they were just there.

can't you go to a LAN party or something? isn't that were the rest of the losers look for friends? that's gotta be pretty nerdy Razz


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