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 Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 12:08 Post subject: depressive? wtf? |
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So been feeling down a little, no appetite, restlessness (sp?), sleeping problems and the like.
So I go see my doc tell him about that, he asks a few questions and comes up with "You are depressive" and I go like "wtf?"
but then I start thinking about it and yes, he seems to be right.
All started when my ex broke up with me. I mean, wasn't the first break up but for some reason really hit me this time. Part of me still loves her, even after she's got a new boyfriend and I gotta admit I really hate myself for that, no reason to tortume me like that.
So I'm depressive alright, gonna se a psychiatrist next week. Fucked up shit world.
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 13:56 Post subject: |
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zzzzzzzzz's problems everyone has problems one way or the other.
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deelix
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 14:07 Post subject: |
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before herr jenni jumps ship... depressed  depressed
you'll get through it. You just gotta want to. Don't sink to a level thinking that's all there will be and such cause that's gay thinking. You want to get better... think good thoughts. Think of the next girl and how well she'll suck your cock while you play cs or wow or what other game you might play.
Fuck the past!
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 14:11 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 14:16 Post subject: |
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 I dunno... I just woke up... thought it'd be funny to throw in a spelling nazi reference 
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 14:19 Post subject: |
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That's the spirit! Fuck feeling down and out like there's nothing you can do. Step out. Find a new girl. Fuck a couple. Move on. There are lots of fish in the sea 
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 19:00 Post subject: |
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think he meant heir jenni or however you spell it. you know like, heil hitler type of thing. a joke 
@rek
I feel ya man. Your not alone tho msn. Many people suffer from depression, including myself. Its hard to deal with but your atleast taking the first correct steps toward feeling better
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A friend of mine tried to commit suicide two weeks ago after a long long long relationship, problems at work, a house to pay that he bought with her, etc...
He's feeling better now, the prescription "drugs" are kicking in and i've been pushing him hard to start pulling his act together and keep on with his life.
Try to get busy! If you're busy your mind will be someplace else and you won't think about her anymore. I always like to go to the gym when i'm down... Treadmill, turkish baths, sauna and some cute looking women is a nice way to relieve the stress!
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 20:37 Post subject: |
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working out helps alot indeed.
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jan 2008 21:13 Post subject: |
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Working out hurts if you wanna turn GAY!
it helps for a while cause you keep your mind off of things. So games work too.
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Yeah, I find games a better distraction than workin out.
Its a more...intense interaction with media than through woirkin out
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 12:37 Post subject: |
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@Waldo: I think it's Frau Jenni, herr means mister..
And Reklis it's probably not 'real' depression, it will go away as soon as you move out of the routine you've stuck in. As Waldo said, go out, try different things, something that will get your mind occupated, in no time you'll feel better. I know that feeling, and I think you'll be fine, don't worry...
"Quantum mechanics is actually, contrary to it's reputation, unbeliveably simple, once you take the physics out."
Scott Aaronson | chiv wrote: | | thats true you know. newton didnt discover gravity. the apple told him about it, and then he killed it. the core was never found. |
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 14:18 Post subject: Re: depressive? wtf? |
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| Reklis wrote: | So been feeling down a little, no appetite, restlessness (sp?), sleeping problems and the like.
So I go see my doc tell him about that, he asks a few questions and comes up with "You are depressive" and I go like "wtf?"
but then I start thinking about it and yes, he seems to be right.
All started when my ex broke up with me. I mean, wasn't the first break up but for some reason really hit me this time. Part of me still loves her, even after she's got a new boyfriend and I gotta admit I really hate myself for that, no reason to tortume me like that.
So I'm depressive alright, gonna se a psychiatrist next week. Fucked up shit world. |
Im in a similar situation at the moment... Kinda feeling down etc.. I can go to a club and have all the girls but next day its all rubish and feeling depressed at work (i know its not the real depression but still...feels bad) bla bla fucking bla, u know all thses problems i guess Why did u lose your girl btw if i may ask?
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 15:50 Post subject: Re: depressive? wtf? |
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| shadak wrote: | | Im in a similar situation at the moment... Kinda feeling down etc.. I can go to a club and have all the girls but next day its all rubish and feeling depressed at work (i know its not the real depression but still...feels bad) bla bla fucking bla, u know all thses problems i guess Why did u lose your girl btw if i may ask? |
Well, you may ask, but that doesn't mean that you'll get a useful straight answer.
Let me play it out the way it happened (more or less):
[2 and a half months ago]
She: "I don't know if i still love you"
[short time ago she moved to a new city to go the university (it would take me an hour to
get to her)]
So I did what every sane guy would do (at leat i hope that's what sane people do)
Tried to spent more time with her (well, she wouldn't let me, not as much as I'd have wanted, but I accepted that)
Sent her a few (cheesy) love letters, bought her flowers, went to the theatre with her, stuff like that. (stuff I already did before but not in this quantity)
[2 months ago]
She: "Maybe we shouldn't see each other for a while"
Me: "If you think that's what it takes" Me (thinking to myself): "wtf?"
[2 weeks later]
She: "I don't love you anymore"
Me: "Why? What did I do? What didn't I do?"
She: "Nothing, it's not your fault, it's me"
Me (thinking to myself again): "Kinda hard to believe..."
From then on she talked to me for a couple weeks, then she didn't, then she did again - then two weeks ago she told me she had a new boyfriend, since december.
Well and that's about it, I got theories as to why but they're just that, theories and to be honest, I really think she doesn't know, at least not consciously (sp?)
but I'm getting to a point, thinking about my life and such, that I have to say she isn't the reason for my depression. She's the reason it is this bad, alright, but I actually might have been struggling for a couple of years already.
I'm interested in what a psychiatrist is gonna say to that.
So long
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 17:11 Post subject: |
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Let the bitch go, she would do it sooner or later.
Think positive, go out, have some beers, work out.... in 6 months or so you will ask yourself : How that i was so frustated about her.
Look it from the bright side :
WE ALL LOVE YOU IN NON GAY WAY !
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 17:22 Post subject: |
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that's all stuff i "know", i know i shouldn't cling to the memory of here, i know i should get my ass out and do something. the problem is one big "what for?" lurking around every corner.
I know I should get a picture of what to with my life, I mean, in about 5 months I'll be done with the shit I'm doing right now (and that's my, don't know how it's called in english, replacement-service? whatever, that's what you gotta do here when you refuse to go to the army) but right now all I see is one big void ahead of me.
I gotta admit I blame her for that, I wanted to go to the same city as her and study there as well, I somehow got the feeling that I can't do that anymore
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 18:04 Post subject: |
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| dingo_d wrote: | @Waldo: I think it's Frau Jenni, herr means mister..
And Reklis it's probably not 'real' depression, it will go away as soon as you move out of the routine you've stuck in. As Waldo said, go out, try different things, something that will get your mind occupated, in no time you'll feel better. I know that feeling, and I think you'll be fine, don't worry... |
no. herr suits her fine. She's no lady! 
RekRek...  I can like tell you shit right now if it did go down that way. you're lucky Very Very Lucky.
Honestly... she's not the cause for making it worse right now. You are. you're stressing over nothing. You can easily find a new girl. You can easily improve your life. You're just scared.1) she wont take you back so thinking about her 24/7 and all the what ifs... are just stupid and they'll make you feel worse. 2) you don't even want her. She told you she didn't love you anymore. If you go back to that you'll be in worse shape than the one you're in now.
Everything is finite. Next girl you find, she won't last. The girl after that... won't last. Look at it this way. It's better for you right now. She fell out of love with you, you didn't. You care for her. You want the best for her. Blah Blah Blah. Fuck her!! She's happy right now with some cocky faggot who loves to suck on her nipples. Why the fuck are you miserable? Go find a girl that loves to suck on your nipple. Or go find a girl at least. Gettiing upset over something silly is just... icky!
I'm emo... I do that too.. heck i can cry and sulk and write bad poetry too but seriously... life ain't worth sulking over a girl There's a tonne of them out there.Keep looking till you find one that's easily enough to manipulate and she'll never ever leave you
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Jan 2008 18:29 Post subject: |
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Hey there's nothing wrong with nipple sucking! That's acutally quite fun...
and there's nothing wrong with bad poerty, been on that for years now, without improving!!
i know i don't need to be miserable and actually I've had it - too bad there's no spot around here to pick up a girl on a thursday evening - whatever tomorrow's friday, that should work fine
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Jan 2008 00:21 Post subject: |
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Library there are girls constantly there! All the time! Weak ones too if you want to manipulate a girl, and smart ones and cute ones and shy ones. Shy ones are amazing in everything. They're soo affectionate and adorable. You just want to eat them up and when you do... ho ho ho
You seriously shouldn't be looking for a relationship though at this moment. Give it some time. You're still not over this girl so it'll just ruin you from time to time. Right now, do things that'll keep your mind off of your ex. That means picking up random girls and just dragging them to the motel or something or your place or hers and never see her again. Go drinking. Parties. Sociolize. I found out that being around friends helps a lot when you're missing your ex.
Alcohol helps if you do it with people. Same with drugs. If you do it alone you'll get addicted faster.
Heck, read a book too
Just, seriously, don't rush into another relationship right now.
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Jan 2008 16:45 Post subject: |
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fuck and forget that's cute!
Where are you from? Or where did you hear that?
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Jan 2008 19:45 Post subject: |
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I'm giving that a try for the next 2 months but only got one so it's like fuck couple times then forget
but whatever works, y'know Just distance yourself from her and you'll be set for lyfe
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| Posted: Sun, 20th Jan 2008 04:51 Post subject: |
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fuck you for having these things work for you
hahaha... lucky fucker
anyway... s'long as you're having fun.... that's what matters
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| Posted: Sun, 20th Jan 2008 04:58 Post subject: |
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dude, what time is it at your place, that you're still up?
it's almost 5 AM here, should go to bed and get some sleep but I'm too drunk and too pushed up to sleep right now
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