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 Posted: Tue, 5th Jun 2007 09:13 Post subject: 5 years long retaleonship will break because of her mother? |
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Hello to all , I usually dont post stuff like that , but in short , I was in happy relateonship for 5 years , she lives alone in my city , her parents lives in another town....we never fight , EXCEPT WHEN HER MOTHER COEM TO VISIT!!!!
I cant stand that women!!!
Yesterday I went to her to discuss wedding preparations , and her mother was there and start to spread shit , and I tell her to FUCK OFF!!!
Now she is pissed , my fiance is pissed , I am pissed as hell , I odnt belive what is happend here , my relationship and future marriage is going to hell because of her mother???!!!!!
Her mother insits thath we live in her house door by next to her!!
That IS SICK!
I swear if I live anywhere in 500 m radius of thet women I wuld choke her to death-
What should I do???
And when thing can get any worse , my fiance is standing by her side 
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jun 2007 10:19 Post subject: |
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If your future wife is taking her mums side (which lets face it, its ridiculous to expect your grown daughter to live next door. her mum needs to let go) then all I can say is watch out.. your girl should be supporting you not her flippin old bag of a mum
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jun 2007 10:54 Post subject: |
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| Reg67 wrote: | | If your future wife is taking her mums side (which lets face it, its ridiculous to expect your grown daughter to live next door. her mum needs to let go) then all I can say is watch out.. your girl should be supporting you not her flippin old bag of a mum |
you are apsolutly right man..
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jun 2007 14:43 Post subject: |
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start drinking!
I agree with Reg's first comment
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jun 2007 17:43 Post subject: |
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| Reg67 wrote: | | If your future wife is taking her mums side (which lets face it, its ridiculous to expect your grown daughter to live next door. her mum needs to let go) then all I can say is dump her |
fixed, or have a really good talk with her. |
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jun 2007 18:52 Post subject: |
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courage dude - me too hate mothers in law (especially those mothers who have only one child to take care of)
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nouseforaname
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Fyfan
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jun 2007 01:29 Post subject: |
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Try and sit down with your girlfriend and explain how you're feeling about it. Try to get her to understand how you feel about it all, don't try and make her feel like your mad, cause really you're not, you're just sad that you can't get along with her mother and the fact that you and your girl aint as you were before.
Listen what she thinks about it, and if she tries to start a fight about it, just try and calm her down, she needs to know that this is an important matter to you, that you're not just pissed because you can't stand her mother, you're sad that you don't get along with her.
Obviously, her mother means alot to her, so when you talk about her mother, don't say anything bad about her, just try and explain why you and her mother don't get along.
And her mother probably loves her daughter more than anything, so if your girlfriend understands your feelings on this matter, perhaps she can talk with her mother. Because you know you're not trying to hurt her mothers feelings, you just have to get your girlfriend to understand that.
All it comes around to is honesty and being able to understand eachother, and i'm sure you two can understand eachother if the both of you let it happen. I wish you luck, but all you really need is honesty.
Hope it all goes well.
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Godlikez*
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jun 2007 16:40 Post subject: |
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| Fyfan wrote: | Try and sit down with your girlfriend and explain how you're feeling about it. Try to get her to understand how you feel about it all, don't try and make her feel like your mad, cause really you're not, you're just sad that you can't get along with her mother and the fact that you and your girl aint as you were before.
Listen what she thinks about it, and if she tries to start a fight about it, just try and calm her down, she needs to know that this is an important matter to you, that you're not just pissed because you can't stand her mother, you're sad that you don't get along with her.
Obviously, her mother means alot to her, so when you talk about her mother, don't say anything bad about her, just try and explain why you and her mother don't get along.
And her mother probably loves her daughter more than anything, so if your girlfriend understands your feelings on this matter, perhaps she can talk with her mother. Because you know you're not trying to hurt her mothers feelings, you just have to get your girlfriend to understand that.
All it comes around to is honesty and being able to understand eachother, and i'm sure you two can understand eachother if the both of you let it happen. I wish you luck, but all you really need is honesty.
Hope it all goes well. |
Thanx man , really thanx.
I ll keep you all informed
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jun 2007 22:02 Post subject: |
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| Godlikez* wrote: | | Just have sex with the mother, that will solve alot of problems. |
been there ..done that. (with my previous GF...).
well it solved alot of shit,but hey!,she (previous GF),was a moster as hell,so I didnt give any thoughts for that..IT WAS FUN (!!!) ... |
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jun 2007 00:22 Post subject: |
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| FreeDiver wrote: | | Godlikez* wrote: | | Just have sex with the mother, that will solve alot of problems. |
been there ..done that. (with my previous GF...).
well it solved alot of shit,but hey!,she (previous GF),was a moster as hell,so I didnt give any thoughts for that..IT WAS FUN (!!!) ... |
Yeah, sure. 
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jun 2007 19:53 Post subject: |
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| Reg67 wrote: | | If your future wife is taking her mums side (which lets face it, its ridiculous to expect your grown daughter to live next door. her mum needs to let go) then all I can say is watch out.. your girl should be supporting you not her flippin old bag of a mum |
QFT
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jun 2007 20:20 Post subject: |
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First she dump me yesterday , than she called me crying that we should think for one month??
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Fri, 8th Jun 2007 08:06 Post subject: |
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go fuck some bitch, tell her about it, then never see her again. her fucking loss, maybe she should dyke out with her cunt of a mom.
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spankie
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| Posted: Fri, 8th Jun 2007 12:23 Post subject: |
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lol, fucked up bitch you have.
An ex dumped me once and called me and cried.
Fucked her again some months later and she thought i wanted her back. djeez.
And now she is crying every time she sees me. What do the ladies expect? They can fuck with us and we have to be waiting for them like a doggie?
Move on;)
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| Posted: Fri, 8th Jun 2007 12:55 Post subject: |
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If your girlfriend has such little character, just dump her. Srsly.
I also think fisk should be unbanned.
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| Posted: Sat, 9th Jun 2007 17:16 Post subject: |
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Just a friendly reminder
..... this mother-in-law is going to be in your life FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE so get used to it. Your girlfriends family kinda comes with her. Best advice I can give is to be firm right from the beginning if you decide to go through with it.
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| Posted: Sun, 10th Jun 2007 17:51 Post subject: |
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i had a friend that was going out with a girl and they had there own home , but guess what her mother didnt like her daughter having a bf and moved in the home with them and eventually split them up , all women are fucking evil and be sure to choke 1 really hard it will give you a good feeling, they cause trouble from nothing i swear
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