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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:20 Post subject: The Thumb! [stay out if you're under 18 :D] |
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After several requests here is the guide on how to please your girl with the thumb technique
First get your partner wet as usual, eat her out, play with her clit or however you usually do it. Now, the easiest way for beginners is, have her lay down on her tummy and put one or two pillows underneath her so her ass is slightly elevated. Next sit down next to her, sitting on the edge of the bed next to her works pretty good, and have her spread her legs.
Before I continue I'll try to explain how to find the gspot, if you dont do it at the right spot you can go on for hours and nothing will happen Ok, put your thumb in your mouth and feel your upper gum right behing your front teeth, it has some sort of a rough texture, right? Thats how the gspot kinda feels like...
Let's continue. You can start by teasing her a little, run your fingertips down her back, slowly up her inner thights, etc. It's kinda fun to drive her insane first imo When you're ready just enter her with your thumb, hook it slightly downwards and well, "start looking". The gspot is about 2-3 inches inside of her, roughly right behind her clit. Just push your thumb gently down, as if you were trying to push her down with your thumb if you know what I mean. Just keep rubbing gentle until you found it (remember it has some sort of a rough texture).
When you found it, start rubbing it gentle, after a little while you feel it getting slightly harder and your partner should start moaning louder or breathe heavier. At this point you should hold her tightly down with your other free hand/arm. I usually put my arm on her back and hold her tight in that position by pushing down. Now you should start rubbing it harder and faster with each second, and by hard I really mean hard. Don't treat it like a clit, push your thumb hard against it and rub it like there's no tomorrow. Vary the movement of your thumb, clockwise, counter-clockwise, up-down, right-left, etc.
If you do it at the right spot and with the right pressure she will reach her first orgasm within a few minutes, my wife reaches her first after about 5 minutes. Now when she does, make sure you hold her tightly down and keep going, after her first orgasm she will probably beg you to stop, ignore her and just keep going, she will thank you afterwards that you did, because now she will have one orgasm after the other. After another 5 minutes you should stop for 20 or 30 seconds to let her catch some air, because it's very exhausting for her (keep your thumb inside though). Dont pause for too long, just enough for some air and go right back at it. It will only take a few seconds to have her reach her orgasms again, again, hold her down and keep going, ignore her, etc.
The first time you do it you shouldnt overdo it though, maybe two rounds of O's It's very exhausting for her and for you too, if you are not that strong. Try to rub something very hard using only your thumb for about 10 minutes and you know what I mean.
If it doesnt work, you probably didnt do it at the right spot, just keep trying, sooner or later you will find it. Also dont forget to rub it real hard! Only a small percentage of women arent able to get gspot orgasms, if thats your case, well, tough for her
Good Luck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:26 Post subject: |
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also a side note.
Keep a dry towel next to ya incase she squirts in ya face.
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:32 Post subject: |
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well, youre sitting next to her so no danger in having her squirt in your face and most girls would squirt by accident though. if she is about to squirt, and she doesnt know much about it, it feels just like she has to pee, and what sane chick would just start peeing? 
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:36 Post subject: |
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in that case, forget the towel ;p
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:38 Post subject: |
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werdercanuck wrote: | well, youre sitting next to her so no danger in having her squirt in your face and most girls would squirt by accident though. if she is about to squirt, and she doesnt know much about it, it feels just like she has to pee, and what sane chick would just start peeing?  |
thats what i told my exwife for years....dumb bitch. She'd always tell tell me to stop fingering her and fuckin her (i hit her gspot a few times during sex) when i was about to bring her to a gspot orgasim...pissed me right off
Its happened with other women too. I dont know why some women are like that. Its wacked. Its like a girl giving you some amazing head and then as your about to bust, you say stop and do the pinch thing (pinch the head to prevent orgasim)...retarded 
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:47 Post subject: |
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thats why you have to hold her tightly down, ignore her and just keep going 
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SycoShaman
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:50 Post subject: |
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werdercanuck wrote: | thats why you have to hold her tightly down, ignore her and just keep going  |
I tried that a couple of times but once they get that serious tone...i stop. Fuck that man.
When a woman tells me to stop, i stop...wife or no.
@Dazz
Broke the glass a long while ago my friend 
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 21:53 Post subject: |
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Where did you hide the body?
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:05 Post subject: |
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AnimalMother wrote: | Wow, it doesn't sound that difficult, well as long as you have a trusting partner. How come I never heard of this before!  |
Because you guys dont get The Sunday Night Sex Show in the UK
The canadians here should know what im talking about. Thats where i first heard of the thumb thing....just it wasnt with the thumb, rather 2 fingers but meh, i guess its all the same.
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:06 Post subject: |
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i found out about it on the net 
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:14 Post subject: |
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for beginners this is the easiest way, on her tummy and using the thumb. advanced users can use two fingers (index/middle) with her lying on her back 
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:19 Post subject: |
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werdercanuck wrote: | for beginners this is the easiest way, on her tummy and using the thumb. advanced users can use two fingers (index/middle) with her lying on her back  |
yea, thats what I heard about. On the back and the fingers.
Samething if you ask me
I should try the other way tho...maybe its better 
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kumkss
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:20 Post subject: |
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Put the pillow up her ass.
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:25 Post subject: |
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kumkss wrote: | hmmm!! gonna try it!! the "putting a pillow under her ass" idea is nice!!
but, as my english isn't very good, i didn't get what you do with your other hand--- hold her tightly?? whatfore?? so she can't run away?? can you exlain again plz??
i got the other steps allright!! gonna told her and try it ASAP!!!  |
hold her tightly down with your other hand because when she starts cumming she wont stay still, and if he squirms around like a bitch in heat you wont be successful in rubbing the exact spot 
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:28 Post subject: |
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yeah, so her ass is raised a little bit, one or two pillows, depending on the size 
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 22:31 Post subject: |
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the most "difficult" part is finding the right spot, hope i explained it well enough
good luck 
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Posted: Wed, 28th Jun 2006 23:59 Post subject: |
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cant you this when your just fingering a girl,
when she's standing up and you use 2 fingers to rub her gspott, isnt that the same?
I used to suck dicks for coke
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Posted: Thu, 29th Jun 2006 02:56 Post subject: |
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man I lol so damn hard reading this whole thread...
would be funny for some chick to read 
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werdercanuck
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Posted: Thu, 29th Jun 2006 04:29 Post subject: |
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Nailbiter wrote: | penis works also, like scissor position, especially if cock is tilted in any way.  |
or do the normal riding position (her on top) and have her lean backwards
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Posted: Thu, 29th Jun 2006 05:10 Post subject: |
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OMFG I haven't even read this whole thread but I felt the need to post this which is nothing.
*trys to regulate breathing*
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SycoShaman
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Posted: Thu, 29th Jun 2006 07:11 Post subject: |
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pistolshrimp wrote: | OMFG I haven't even read this whole thread but I felt the need to post this which is nothing.
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so, i have to ask the inevitable questions....have you ever had a gspot orgasim (i hear they are different than regular orgasims)? or multiple (3 or more) orgasims?
If the questions are to personal, its all good baby 
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