Just found a homemade sex video of someone I know...
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:25    Post subject: Just found a homemade sex video of someone I know...
Apparently she did some Chatubate (or whatever it's called) videos. It's not the guy she is dating now, but they've been together for a few years, and the video does not look old. So a very strange situation.

I don't know why, but I feel strangely ... violated. Laughing I mean, it's like any amateur sex video - badly shot, badly lit, terrible quality, bad porn. Yet, I can't stop feeling intrigued by that video. I don't really understand why. I mean, porn actors and amateur buck seekers on these sites obviously are normative people who have found a niche to make money (they have good bodies, why not?). But I guess it's the cognitive dissonance of someone you know for years as a friend and their sexual life (public or not). And then there is the matter of the video itself, and the acts depicted in it, that, again, while perfectly normative, it is certainly not what I was imaging that person normally doing. Sad

FHITB? Privately or publicly?
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:38    Post subject:
wait, you found amateur porn and you won't post it? Failed Troll

seriously though, what is the content of the video and why you couldn't imagine the person doing it? I mean how bad can it be Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:39    Post subject:
First i would give her some verbal tips to fuck better, based on that video.
Then i would ask her if i can FHITB for science reasons.


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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:39    Post subject:
Obviously we can only form an educated opinion after seeing said video.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:41    Post subject:
Invasor wrote:
wait, you found amateur porn and you won't post it? Failed Troll

seriously though, what is the content of the video and why you couldn't imagine the person doing it? I mean how bad can it be Laughing

I rather not post the video. And it's not bad at all. Just not as ... conservative. Laughing FFUUU I don't know how to explain! My friend is not conservative, I just could not have imagined her doing some pretty normal stuff. I mean, it's my fault. Don't know how I would look at her when I see her though. Now I am afraid, because I am awkward when I have something on my mind. Perhaps a grown up discussion can be had? But yeah, I don't want to ruin friendship over nonsense.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:51    Post subject:
Screens pls


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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:56    Post subject:
That is fapping material in its truest form.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 20:58    Post subject:
LeoNatan wrote:
Invasor wrote:
wait, you found amateur porn and you won't post it? Failed Troll

seriously though, what is the content of the video and why you couldn't imagine the person doing it? I mean how bad can it be Laughing

I rather not post the video. And it's not bad at all. Just not as ... conservative. Laughing FFUUU I don't know how to explain! My friend is not conservative, I just could not have imagined her doing some pretty normal stuff. I mean, it's my fault. Don't know how I would look at her when I see her though. Now I am afraid, because I am awkward when I have something on my mind. Perhaps a grown up discussion can be had? But yeah, I don't want to ruin friendship over nonsense.

So it's either anal or a blowjob (can't be just a blowjob though Laughing)... maybe some S&M? Laughing

Oh well, anyway, why would you talk to her about it? Do you want to fuck her? Is she dating a friend of yours, or she's your friend?

and... are you sure it's the right person?
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 21:07    Post subject:
If you even mention it I think it's a sure bet the friendship is over for good. Laughing

Just fap and move on.

Ahem, you also cou!d anonymously send it to her boyfriend if you think he deserves to know wtf is going on

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 21:47    Post subject:
Now I would be disappointed if its anything less than the angry pirate.

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 22:03    Post subject:
LeoNatan wrote:
Invasor wrote:
wait, you found amateur porn and you won't post it? Failed Troll

seriously though, what is the content of the video and why you couldn't imagine the person doing it? I mean how bad can it be Laughing

I rather not post the video. And it's not bad at all. Just not as ... conservative. Laughing FFUUU I don't know how to explain! My friend is not conservative, I just could not have imagined her doing some pretty normal stuff. I mean, it's my fault. Don't know how I would look at her when I see her though. Now I am afraid, because I am awkward when I have something on my mind. Perhaps a grown up discussion can be had? But yeah, I don't want to ruin friendship over nonsense.


We human beings all have a sexual side having had processed millions of years of evolutionary data.

Good friends are not easy to find so if the friendship matters then I think it is worth preserving it.

Over time, you'll be OK with it because you're not the one involved, anyhow.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 22:08    Post subject:
Good advice roach, though I guess my inner devil wants to see this zeppelin crash and burn Devil Troll


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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 22:27    Post subject:
This is certainly an awkward situation xD
I must admit that I would have a hard time (huehue) talking to her about it, even if the temptation and curiosity definitely would be there, especially if she's a friend. Probably wiser to just avoid potential backlashes and enjoy the moment for what it is, unless there are more important implications or...plans!

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 22:38    Post subject: Re: Just found a homemade sex video of someone I know...
Over the years fixing laptops and computers from friends, I found a bunch of naughty pics and even the odd webcam vid or two. One involved the gf of a good friend of mine - a rather sexy gf - so I wasn't complaining Very Happy . But since these involved private pics and not a publically available webcam show thing, I pretended to never having seen them. Only reason i found them, is by backing up their personal files to do a hard drive wipe.

Another friend of mine did some test shoots for Suicide Girl - she didn't get in but she sent me the pics before sending them in to get my opinion - and no, I didn't know she was "that" kind of girl either.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Mar 2017 22:56    Post subject:
I would talk to her about it if I had questions and thoughts about it, then again it all depends what kind of person you are. I never had much taboo with my friends, everything could be talked about. Sure some might feel awkward at first but in the end I always had better friendships with that approach. The ones you lose are not worth calling friends either way, they are just people you know.

I've also seen enough due to work in IT. Customer, friends, family... I usually just gave the advice how to secure it better or in some cases if they went to unsecure sites: giving them alternatives.
I wouldn't look at it though, thumbnails were enough for me to know that it was not my business to click on it.

The friends I had working in the sex/porn industry were rather open about it though. So it was never really a problem to talk about it with them.


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PostPosted: Mon, 13th Mar 2017 00:08    Post subject:
Yeah I wouldn't mention it to either party, it's most likely stuff they are not going to want to talk about. Tbh I don't think I would be that surprised/shocked, people do all sorts of crazy shit behind closed doors.
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PostPosted: Mon, 13th Mar 2017 00:16    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Mon, 13th Mar 2017 09:08    Post subject:
You should show the video to the guy she's currently dating. Then report everything back here. I wanna know in which direction this is going to unravel Laughing
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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Mar 2017 02:49    Post subject:
Shocktrooper wrote:
You should show the video to
me Laughing



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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Mar 2017 03:46    Post subject:
why is nobody asking the question that really matters

WHY DID U GOOGLE HER SCREENNAME AND WENT TO THE WEBCAM RECORDING SITE on the 10th results page U STALKER? Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Mar 2017 08:44    Post subject:
I know what Leo means, my old friend once accidentaly sent me wrong_photos_of_shagging_the_missus.zip when we were doing a college project Very Happy
I too was sort of confused about these photos although I knew that he was a pleasureman to women.


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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Mar 2017 10:03    Post subject:
You naive idiot, you missed an invitation to a 3some. Does he have to spell it to you?
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PostPosted: Sat, 18th Mar 2017 22:13    Post subject:
Shocktrooper wrote:
You should show the video to the guy she's currently dating.

This is the only ethical decision,go for it


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PostPosted: Sat, 18th Mar 2017 22:53    Post subject:
and still no link, shame on you Leo Cool Face
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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Mar 2017 02:59    Post subject:
Why don't you send it to her/him with a fake facebook profile.
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PostPosted: Tue, 21st Mar 2017 09:17    Post subject:
Gieb screenshots with blurred faces
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PostPosted: Wed, 20th Feb 2019 00:33    Post subject:
So apparently there are more videos floating around. Jesus
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PostPosted: Wed, 20th Feb 2019 00:42    Post subject:
YOU WANT TO SHARE THEM, SO GO AHEAD GOD DAMN IT!


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PostPosted: Wed, 20th Feb 2019 01:00    Post subject:
Share them already and again - tell her boyfriend(s) and let us know what happens Laughing Twisted Evil
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