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Damn I truely feel lonely as a girl in the midst of all men. But I must agree, most girls are twisted in their minds. But it is surprising to you I guess that I have it all the way around, I truly disgust MOST men for their behaviour! But before Im getting killed here, I shall explain myself:
I had a relationship with a guy and, after 6 years of misery with other relationships, this relationship with him was like heaven for me! But he had "problems" and had to break-up and 2 weeks later he was back to his ex-girl. The girl before me that says. While I was with him he could only complain how she had him on a leech and how happy he was with me because i didn't and that he could go out with his friends without me complaining or spying in his email or telephone.
Still my central question in this case: WHAT IDIOT WOULD GO BACK TO THAT MISERY AGAIN!!!
Well anyway, he spend 5 weeks (of the period they were together again) of complaining that he didn't knew why he did go back to her and that he wanted to come back...And he wanted to stay friends.
Well believe me: There is nothing so hard then to stay friends with an ex! Eventually I gave him a few slaps in the face (thank god we have handbags, because it would look truly nasty hitting him in his face with a fist...  ) while cursing in front of an audiance of about 30 people to make shure he got my point about his behaviour. And all I do nowadays is ignore him as much as possible, I must say that that works GREAT! It truly did hurt in the beginning but now I got my life on track again and layed my eyes on a great guy and I hope that that will lead to something but I don't know..
So point of it: Most people, both men and female, are a nightmare to eachother, so find the girls (in your case) that aren't bitches. And if you find a bitch well try to attach her to your worst enemy Solves a lot of trouble for the RARE amount of well mannerd good hearted men!
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| Posted: Tue, 10th Jan 2006 12:58 Post subject: |
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Just so the opposite sex who is boss, act like daddy/mommy and for some reason they love you *paging Freud* no matter how shitty you are, you make them think they will die without you, ultimate loyalty, you do as I say when I say, I am your god. So far its working for me, but it could turn out bad? *shrugs* will find out one day, I was tired of being a dormat, so I just treat like I am their master now... cant wait to be flamed for this, lol
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| Posted: Tue, 10th Jan 2006 13:16 Post subject: |
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| MariusED wrote: | | deelix wrote: | | MariusED wrote: | fuck her, hard faggot! everything aint bout love m8  |
haha, i KNOW that you know that |
haha, i KNOW that you know that i know that |
we get it, you know eachtother in real life, get a room  |
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deelix
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| Posted: Tue, 10th Jan 2006 23:32 Post subject: |
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| Relinquish wrote: | Damn I truely feel lonely as a girl in the midst of all men. But I must agree, most girls are twisted in their minds. But it is surprising to you I guess that I have it all the way around, I truly disgust MOST men for their behaviour! But before Im getting killed here, I shall explain myself:
I had a relationship with a guy and, after 6 years of misery with other relationships, this relationship with him was like heaven for me! But he had "problems" and had to break-up and 2 weeks later he was back to his ex-girl. The girl before me that says. While I was with him he could only complain how she had him on a leech and how happy he was with me because i didn't and that he could go out with his friends without me complaining or spying in his email or telephone.
Still my central question in this case: WHAT IDIOT WOULD GO BACK TO THAT MISERY AGAIN!!!
Well anyway, he spend 5 weeks (of the period they were together again) of complaining that he didn't knew why he did go back to her and that he wanted to come back...And he wanted to stay friends.
Well believe me: There is nothing so hard then to stay friends with an ex! Eventually I gave him a few slaps in the face (thank god we have handbags, because it would look truly nasty hitting him in his face with a fist... ) while cursing in front of an audiance of about 30 people to make shure he got my point about his behaviour. And all I do nowadays is ignore him as much as possible, I must say that that works GREAT! It truly did hurt in the beginning but now I got my life on track again and layed my eyes on a great guy and I hope that that will lead to something but I don't know..
So point of it: Most people, both men and female, are a nightmare to eachother, so find the girls (in your case) that aren't bitches. And if you find a bitch well try to attach her to your worst enemy Solves a lot of trouble for the RARE amount of well mannerd good hearted men! |
All men are pigs. Que Sera Sera, glad to hear you're back on track.
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| Pizda2 wrote: | | Relinquish wrote: | Damn I truely feel lonely as a girl in the midst of all men. But I must agree, most girls are twisted in their minds. But it is surprising to you I guess that I have it all the way around, I truly disgust MOST men for their behaviour! But before Im getting killed here, I shall explain myself:
I had a relationship with a guy and, after 6 years of misery with other relationships, this relationship with him was like heaven for me! But he had "problems" and had to break-up and 2 weeks later he was back to his ex-girl. The girl before me that says. While I was with him he could only complain how she had him on a leech and how happy he was with me because i didn't and that he could go out with his friends without me complaining or spying in his email or telephone.
Still my central question in this case: WHAT IDIOT WOULD GO BACK TO THAT MISERY AGAIN!!!
Well anyway, he spend 5 weeks (of the period they were together again) of complaining that he didn't knew why he did go back to her and that he wanted to come back...And he wanted to stay friends.
Well believe me: There is nothing so hard then to stay friends with an ex! Eventually I gave him a few slaps in the face (thank god we have handbags, because it would look truly nasty hitting him in his face with a fist... ) while cursing in front of an audiance of about 30 people to make shure he got my point about his behaviour. And all I do nowadays is ignore him as much as possible, I must say that that works GREAT! It truly did hurt in the beginning but now I got my life on track again and layed my eyes on a great guy and I hope that that will lead to something but I don't know..
So point of it: Most people, both men and female, are a nightmare to eachother, so find the girls (in your case) that aren't bitches. And if you find a bitch well try to attach her to your worst enemy Solves a lot of trouble for the RARE amount of well mannerd good hearted men! |
All men are pigs. Que Sera Sera, glad to hear you're back on track. |
Not all men are man.
Key is finding a partner that wants the same thing as you and someone that is trust worthy. Hard to do nowadays it seems
@Rel
Well, I dont want a bitch, I want a woman. my exwife is a bitch and I dont want to waste anymore years with another one. Thats the hard part tho. Finding a woman (or man in a woman's case)that is honest and intelligent and doesnt play games.
In my experience, its women who create the drama. Bitching about the most mundane things.
And, honestly, i dont think women trust men, in general, anymore. And I think the media/hollywood is to blame for that. It paints the picture that guys dont feel and that we are heartless. Thats not the way it is at all. Its a shame there is such a misunderstanding in general. Lots of young ppl today are going to end up old and alone if things stay the way they are. |
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 02:25 Post subject: |
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what do girls want ??? i always (well past few years)_ thought that they want to be persued... to varying degrees, may depend on the type of man she is with , some are more patient than others, some are more forgiving than others, some are stupider than others so it fells like they want different things but i personally see that is what it boils down to for me.
FreeWill or FreeThinking...
The gnostic pretends to knowledge,
but I avow ignorance: that is my knowledge.
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ollax
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You've got a point here, im always amazed at the waste of resources that goes in to things that are unnecessary. Ok war does have the little perk of pushing the technology forwards. I honestly think that if war did not exist we would not be as advanced as we are today.
You might argue that we would, because humanity always finds a way and thee would be an other reason to be as advanced, but i doubt it.
Now to my point! I have been interested (oh well) in astronomy since i was little) i have always loved space and sci-fi ( in a healthy way, not like those idiot trekkie virgins) so i'm pretty enlightened and know alot about astronomy and physics. Suddenly it struck me though! We are spending billions and billions trying to find life outside our one sphere of living while one of the bigest mysteries of all time is right here on earth!
Women!
I have pretty much probed and penetrated women in all the ways imaginable like a true scientist:-). However, i actually talked to most of them, but i still only understand about 7% of what they mean, and im talking about 200+ (Yes its true) women. Then i met my my GF after being single until i was almost 30. Her i can understand to maye 20% if that! wich gives an other 80% to explore just with her. And since i will never be an astronaut, the women of the world will have to be my universe:-)
There is almost 7 bil l ppl in the world today, and out of those 7 bil, almost 4 bil is female:-)
that means that if everyone on earth. From a newborn to the oldest geezer alive would find a women. There would still be a billion females left just for you/me. Loosing the old and the sick and the ugly means maybe a 100 million Hot chicks for us to explore.
Aint that a lovestory waiting to happen.....or what?
To All of you with girlproblems, this have never failed me. There are a 100mil hot girls out there with your name on them! If you loose one......
Space exploration to find intelligent life in all honour, but since we know less about the opposite sex than we do about how the moon works maybe we need to prioritize?!
I urge you my fellow men to go out there and explore, and get lost in everything that is women. Trust me! You wont get much wiser but you will have a lot of fun baldly going were you have never gone before;-)
I expect everyone that starts threads about girl probz in this forum to atleast explore their options before asking me about women again;-) You know who you are! You PM sending soon to be casanovas:-)
Over ant out!
/The drunk Lovestronaut!
Of all the things i've lost, i miss my mind the most!
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 05:54 Post subject: |
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| ollax wrote: | Women!
I have pretty much probed and penetrated women in all the ways imaginable like a true scientist:-). However, i actually talked to most of them, but i still only understand about 7% of what they mean, and im talking about 200+ (Yes its true) women. |
Uve slept with 200+ women? |
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ollax
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 06:06 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | ollax wrote: | Women!
I have pretty much probed and penetrated women in all the ways imaginable like a true scientist:-). However, i actually talked to most of them, but i still only understand about 7% of what they mean, and im talking about 200+ (Yes its true) women. |
Uve slept with 200+ women? |
Does it mather?
Does it take anything away from my point?
Ask me in a PM
Of all the things i've lost, i miss my mind the most!
"Ozzy Osbourne"
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 07:03 Post subject: |
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| Relinquish wrote: | | So point of it: Most people, both men and female, are a nightmare to eachother, so find the girls (in your case) that aren't bitches. |
| SycoShaman wrote: | | Key is finding a partner that wants the same thing as you and someone that is trust worthy. Hard to do nowadays it seems |
Thats all true, and you have to remember that you need(among other things) to love that partner and be loved too, so it seems its almost impossible to happen. Way too many factors involved, I guess its why nearly all relationships go wrong?
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Of all the things i've lost, i miss my mind the most!
"Ozzy Osbourne"
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 10:53 Post subject: |
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| talula wrote: | A good rule of thumb is never to start a relationship with someone who you wouldn't be best mates with if they were the opposite sex.
Oh and, not all girls like being persued. To me, it comes across as quite pathetic when a guy is overly keen. I mean.. do you really want a relationship with someone who's had to be forced into it?  |
That just isn't true at all. Some of my best gf's haven't been in this category. The best friends > to gf thing doesn't work either for me. For some it does work but for most it doesn't. And how can persuing be a turn off? Everyone loves the chase and if the girl is being forced into it. i.e. she feels sorry then it's her own stupid fault and should get no sympathy at all. |
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 11:10 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | talula wrote: | A good rule of thumb is never to start a relationship with someone who you wouldn't be best mates with if they were the opposite sex.
Oh and, not all girls like being persued. To me, it comes across as quite pathetic when a guy is overly keen. I mean.. do you really want a relationship with someone who's had to be forced into it? |
That just isn't true at all. Some of my best gf's haven't been in this category. The best friends > to gf thing doesn't work either for me. For some it does work but for most it doesn't. And how can persuing be a turn off? Everyone loves the chase and if the girl is being forced into it. i.e. she feels sorry then it's her own stupid fault and should get no sympathy at all. |
So your best girlfriends were people who, if the chemistry and attraction were removed, you wouldn't like enough to be best friends with? I agree the best friends to girlfriends thing doesnt usually work, I was just saying the ability to get on with each other is pretty important. One of the main reasons my current relationship is so happy is that as well as the chemistry/attraction/love, we have fun spending time with each other and are constantly laughing. I guess it depends what you value in a relationship though.
The chase thing is subjective. In my case, if I tell a guy I dont like him and he keeps trying to persuade me to go out with him, it comes across quite needy and annoying. I said "not all girls" though, cos someone had said thats what girls want, and it's not in all cases. I know plenty of girl that have used the "I'm a lesbian" line to get rid of some guy that wouldn't stop chasing her. I guess maybe some like playing hard to get though. 
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 12:26 Post subject: |
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Nice cars. Quite a change from my dad's Volkswagen Transport.
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 14:02 Post subject: |
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| talula wrote: | | So your best girlfriends were people who, if the chemistry and attraction were removed, you wouldn't like enough to be best friends with? |
Yup. I could be (and am) friends but not best m8s, there's a big difference. You mention it's about having a lugh, well it's like that anyway but you dont need to be friends to make someone laugh either! |
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 14:13 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | talula wrote: | | So your best girlfriends were people who, if the chemistry and attraction were removed, you wouldn't like enough to be best friends with? |
Yup. I could be (and am) friends but not best m8s, there's a big difference. You mention it's about having a lugh, well it's like that anyway but you dont need to be friends to make someone laugh either! |
It helps if all your looking for is a shag, which is the only thing on Sublimes mind
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Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
The phone rings in the middle of the night,
My father yells "What you gonna do with your life?"
Oh,daddy,dear,
You know you're still number one,
But girls,
They wanna have fu-un,
Oh,girls,just wanna have
That's all they really want.....
Some fun....
Sounds right to me. Truth of life by Cyndi Lauper
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 17:51 Post subject: |
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| talula wrote: | | I know plenty of girl that have used the "I'm a lesbian" line to get rid of some guy that wouldn't stop chasing her. I guess maybe some like playing hard to get though. |
Hmmm shit, I've been discoverd...
Well it can go in four ways if a guy is trying to tempt me.
1) I COULD be suprised / normal / friendly or head over hills
If it would be a spontanious and normal social guy with a good sense of humor and some wise thoughts and some matching interests (e.g. playing guitar, astronomics, unreal tournament -freaking thought huh?- ).
Looks, well I don't care much about them. If they aren't like monsters and can walk across the street without people running away of him in fear and if he isn't over 2 times my weight (that will result in problems in a later stage  ) and his eyes look quite good (they are the mirrors of the soul).
2) I COULD be annoyed but after one (quite friendly) or a second (unmistakable threatning) warning he leaves
3) I COULD be annoyed and warned over 2 times but he doesn't get the point because he is too stupid to understand, well then there are still friends of mine that can be of aid, wich they love to do, to play my lesbian girlfriend or my boyfriend. I've been in theater classes for 3 years so pretending a girl is a man when you kiss them is possible.
3) I COULD be annoyed and he doesnt give up...well let him pick his ceremonial suit then cause Ill try to do everthing to make him feel sorry for bothering me. That trick costed me 2 handbags, and several painfull muscles but they did went K.O.
@ Talula: Well I guess that would only work for guys then, tried it once but I was like making my shopping note..."butter, eggs, bread... oh are you finished???" No I truly need some chemistry!
And next to that a guy doing that regular would be like a pornstar, a girl would be mentioned a whore for doing exactly the same...Why is that? Because guys don't want to be beaten in sex by a girl or something? Or do they fear that they themself could be used for a one-night-stand with the girl leaving the man with heartache?
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 19:11 Post subject: |
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I'm not just looking for a shag actually . Sure they're good but a proper gf is much better and i think everyone can agree on that.
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jan 2006 19:22 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | I'm not just looking for a shag actually . Sure they're good but a proper gf is much better and i think everyone can agree on that. |
when love is involved everything is so much better |
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Well, I agree with Tal. Maybe not for a gf, but your wife/life partner (some ppl dont like marriage) has to be your best friend, not just your lover. Complete honesty, trust and open-ness make a relationship work.
You know whats funny? Most women I talk to about this sorta thing agree with me and find it hard to believe that my wife would leave someone like me. Im very understanding and compromising. And rather than fighting, I prefer to discuss whatever the problem is...honestly discuss it, not accuse one another of shit.
Too bad my exwife didnt see those qualities...dumb slut
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