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WaldoJ
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| Radicalus wrote: | | Addendum: no matter how trendy metrosexuality is these days, women appreciate a man who knows, what he wants, and if that man fights for it. Especially if that something is them. |
lol no. Some women do. Fighting for what you want... lol... that's what they call rape nowadays. 
Not all girls like a kerfuffle in their name. Not all women love to be swept away. It's a stereotype perpetuated by the romance industry. Fighting for a woman is childish. You want her, you tell her you want her. if she says no, you don't argue. You walk away. There are more women out there than there are men. if she's into someone else, she's not going to pick you because.
Get over yourself. Confidence gets you a woman at a bar for one night. A heart lets you keep said woman. Being a macho prick because TV/MOVIES/BOOKS told you to be a macho prick only leaves you bloody on the carpet when she finds a bigger man to fight for her.
Women are not worth fighting for. It's a lost battle. There's a reason why she's stuck between two men. There's a reason why she 'loves' two men. There's a reason why two men love her. And it's not masculinity.
If she liked you before and you fucked it up... you can get her back. It's not fighting for it. It's apologizing for your mistakes and begging for forgiveness and hoping for another shot.
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Apr 2015 21:36 Post subject: |
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I don't quite see, how what you wrote relates to my advice in this case.
What if I told you, there are more ways for getting, what you want, than taking it by force? I'm not talking about PUA macho shit. I never pursued one night stands in my life, and never will.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Apr 2015 21:36 Post subject: |
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Seeing that picture of the girl in question, then reading all this reeks to me of desperation.
Move on, if you're going to be a little bitch, at least find a better looking broad to be a little bitch for.
Or be a man and refuse to take part of the little attention-whore game, but that's.. you know. grown up and shit.
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tonizito
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Apr 2015 21:48 Post subject: |
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| spankie wrote: | | Then i replied with "goodnight, but I'd rather have you whisper it in my ear". |
Not saying that it was a corny thing to say or something like that but it was kind of a time warp to that relationship status 1/2 weeks back, no? IMOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO either don't answer or tell her to stop messaging you and move on and that you're going to do the same.
Stop punishing yourself men 
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Apr 2015 21:51 Post subject: |
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| Radicalus wrote: | I don't quite see, how what you wrote relates to my advice in this case.
What if I told you, there are more ways for getting, what you want, than taking it by force? I'm not talking about PUA macho shit. I never pursued one night stands in my life, and never will. |
There are so many ways to get what you want. Women, just like men, are easy. Men are easier of course. Any woman out there could have any man regardless of his standards.
I'm just saying don't say fight for it. You want it, you go for it. You let her know your intentions. Tell her what you want. If she rejects you, that's it. Walk away.
Honesty.
No one said anything by force.
And yes... there are plenty of ways out there to get lucky with a broad. More than I can count. Some girls will jump you the moment you show them your dick pic. Some girls will jump you if you hold her hand while you both discuss the current state of rotten relationships worldwide and how her recent misfortune of men is possibly the worst because she's such a good hearted person.
But if you want something serious. Built on trust that will last longer than 6 months. You start with honesty and trust. Hey, i think you're quite something and i want you in my life, what say you? wanna go out and see where this leads?
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Apr 2015 21:57 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | | Radicalus wrote: | I don't quite see, how what you wrote relates to my advice in this case.
What if I told you, there are more ways for getting, what you want, than taking it by force? I'm not talking about PUA macho shit. I never pursued one night stands in my life, and never will. |
There are so many ways to get what you want. Women, just like men, are easy. Men are easier of course. Any woman out there could have any man regardless of his standards.
I'm just saying don't say fight for it. You want it, you go for it. You let her know your intentions. Tell her what you want. If she rejects you, that's it. Walk away.
Honesty.
No one said anything by force.
And yes... there are plenty of ways out there to get lucky with a broad. More than I can count. Some girls will jump you the moment you show them your dick pic. Some girls will jump you if you hold her hand while you both discuss the current state of rotten relationships worldwide and how her recent misfortune of men is possibly the worst because she's such a good hearted person.
But if you want something serious. Built on trust that will last longer than 6 months. You start with honesty and trust. Hey, i think you're quite something and i want you in my life, what say you? wanna go out and see where this leads? |
"You start with honesty and trust."
If you add one more thing to that: respect. Then you arrive exactly at what I was saying.
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garus
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd May 2015 12:42 Post subject: |
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I am beginning to get that impression more and more as well.
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd May 2015 22:28 Post subject: |
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| red_avatar wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | Fuck! Relationships shouldn't be this much work  |
Meh, I stopped looking myself. All the good ones are taken and the ones that are "on the market" are extremely broken. Any girl who doesn't have some major screw loose, is snagged off the market in no time it seems. And I'm not willing to date yet another head case just to not be single  . |
There's still a lot of single (lightly damaged... but hey we all are a little  )women in these Scandinavian parts... problem is they won't move to Belgium xD |
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tonizito
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd May 2015 22:32 Post subject: |
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| red_avatar wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | Fuck! Relationships shouldn't be this much work |
Meh, I stopped looking myself. All the good ones are taken and the ones that are "on the market" are extremely broken. Any girl who doesn't have some major screw loose, is snagged off the market in no time it seems. And I'm not willing to date yet another head case just to not be single . |
Soon, lads... soon 
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd May 2015 00:49 Post subject: |
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tonizito
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Until then I'll have to keep role-playing with my T-stronzo terminator
"Come with me if... nevermind, just come with me  "
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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ixigia
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spankie
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| Posted: Tue, 5th May 2015 08:10 Post subject: |
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^^ Next time she texts you with random question shit tell her you are fabulous. Tell her you met this girl and she has all the qualities that you are looking for. Like straightforwardness. Act like you are impressed with someone else and it's NOT her. Friend zone her.
As a matter of fact I challage all you guys to put that out there. What you really respect in a women. Talk about flipping the tables. It would be totally setting boundaries. ...and wouldn't they feel like the dip shit if they didn't live up to them. Either that or they would just go away and not waste your time.
Not all of you guys here, but most of you deserve a lot more.
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Tue, 5th May 2015 09:41 Post subject: |
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Hihi, nefarious pistolshrimp. Me like!
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garus
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| Posted: Tue, 5th May 2015 19:32 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: |
Not all of you guys here, but most of you deserve a lot more. |
This line cracked me up. I wonder who is included in that "not all of you guys here" 
1 and 2 are still amazing. |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Tue, 5th May 2015 19:39 Post subject: |
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Pistol <3
Instantly giving us +10 Cunning and Willpower while restoring our pride at the same time. *thumps chest*
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spankie
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Well, things with the other lady are turning out quite good. Looks like she's a keeper for the time being. Spending a lot of time together and, surprise surprise, I don't have to think about what to do or say. Things are just going it's natural course, she's coming over to my place, I go to her place, no drama at all, just enjoying each other. So euhm, there still are normal people in the world
And she does know about the other one. We are spending longs nights explaining our funny dating experiences and people's strange behaviour... Btw, she recognises the strange behaviour from a friend of hers who does the same 'whenever she knows someone likes her, she does retarded stuff to make sure that stops'  And apparently then they whine because they are almost 30 and never experienced any true connection with someone else...
I do get some occasional message from the sexy nutter. I just think she is so scared of being hurt or 'losing time' with commitment, she does retarded stuff. She sent me a message 'you are so cute' couple of days ago, totally out of the blue (we didnt have contact for like more than a week). My lady proposed "send her an asshole message, she'll start chasing again, you'll see". So with my lady's approval I sent 'wanna meet/fuck?', but I could not answer any messages as part of the deal 
her reply
'cute message'
'not now, end if June after exams'
1 day later, I still hadnt replied
'I love single life. Independence suits me well!!!
1 day later, still hadnt replied
'I am going to start watching your series' [which I told her about like weeks ago]
half a day later, still hadnt replied
'I watched episode 1'
Then the lady asked me to send 'how was episode 1' and ask her what she will do for the weekend and tell her you are away so it doesnt look like you are inviting her. "she'll go quiet from then on because she thinks she has you on the hook again". So i did send 'Did you like episode 1?, I am abroad this weekend what are your plans?'. And indeed, her answer 'episode 1 was good'. Nothing more since then.
Major disappointment. Apparently females are not unpredictable or have crazy behaviour, it just takes another one to figure it out
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tonizito
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| Posted: Mon, 11th May 2015 14:47 Post subject: |
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Well played by both you and the new lady haha
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