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SycoShaman
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hahaha....very true  I like the way u look at stuff dude, nice  
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ForHim
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 12:14 Post subject: |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 20:45 Post subject: |
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| ForHim wrote: | SycoShaman. We are pretty much the same age you and I. I'm getting married on the 3rd of December 2005 and I've been with my chick for more than 5 years. If you haven't made a choice yet, my advice to you is the following:
1) You shouldn't have asked for advise here cause most of these guys, are in love with their PC's and don't know anything about women.
2) Best relationships are the ones that started out as a friendship. 
3) Girls who have been through 6 bad breakups...well that will put me on high alert...find out why those breakups happened, who was mostely to blame and for what reason. 
4) Do you trust this girl with all your heart, cause if it doesn't work out, depending on the reason for the breakup, your friendship will be fucked. 
5) What have you got to loose? Both of you aren't getting any younger...go for it man.
Clearly you are in love with this woman, I'm just afraid she is one of those buddy buddy types. If I were in your shoes, I'd go for it. Good luck man...hope I helped you with your decision. |
hahaha dude
I appreciate ur answer...but ive been married and am currently divorced, im not gettin hitched for a LONG fuckin time, A LONG FUCKIN TIME. Marriage is really the death of fun and love, for me anyway....
As for this chick, i know how im gunna play it now, when i see her this weekend.
As for her breakups...trust me, some of the guy's she's dated were fucked...had to beat the shit outta 2 of her ex's for hittin her, bad luck i say...not everyone finds the right person right of the bat, takes a lifetime in some cases man.
But still, thanks for the vote of confidence |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 22:43 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: |
As for this chick, i know how im gunna play it now, when i see her this weekend.
As for her breakups...trust me, some of the guy's she's dated were fucked...had to beat the shit outta 2 of her ex's for hittin her, |
What does that tell you? She goes for tards.
Good luck dude. |
I knew YOU were gunna say something like that...or possibly fisk ...naw, she's been with good guys too but fuck, Ive had many gf's and slept with many women, its kinda unfair to dislike a chick because she enjoys her sexuality as well.
I mean, I dont know too many girls 25-32 that have only slept with 1 or 2 guys or dated 1 or 2 guys...come to think of it, I know one chick who has slept with only one guy...but she's a devout christian (so she says anyway)...so unless u let ur "god" dictate ur sex life, ur bound to have had numerous partners by my age. |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Nov 2005 15:44 Post subject: |
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| mb_morgana wrote: | A girls oppinion (not english as you can se by my spelling ):
If you told her friend about your agony regarding this girl my guess is that she told her friend sometime during the next hour after they left your house. If not in words - in more or less subtle questions about your relationship. So... the next time you meet she probably already knows. |
Naw, me and the other girl are good friends, she wouldnt do something like that...atleast i hope not, way to highschoolish 
Well, i'll find out soon enough |
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Nov 2005 15:57 Post subject: |
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The more reason for her to try to "help" you. If she's a friend to both of you she probably want's you to be together (and knows that neighter of you are going to do anything about it based on the lack of action during the time she has known you).
She couldn't even wait to start trying to figure it out until they left your place but had to ask her right away (in a kidding way) to se how she would react.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Nov 2005 16:01 Post subject: |
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| mb_morgana wrote: | The more reason for her to try to "help" you. If she's a friend to both of you she probably want's you to be together (and knows that neighter of you are going to do anything about it based on the lack of action during the time she has known you).
She couldn't even wait to start trying to figure it out until they left your place but had to ask her right away (in a kidding way) to se how she would react. |
Good point....now im confused again 
Naw, her friend, also has the hots for me, as i mentioned somewhere in this thread, but i dont like her at all, in a romantic sense, she's a flake...i like intelligent, outspoken, tough girls ya know? But yeah, thats why i dont think she'd say anything...and if she has, well, i havent heard anything yet...so I dunno |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 10th Nov 2005 07:22 Post subject: |
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| mb_morgana wrote: | Well, at least I think that it was the right thing to do (based on the tiny information I have about all of you). Now you will have to act on it. Otherwise you will never find out if she knows that you like her or not. *smirk*
You remind me of a guy I used to work with. He had a female friend that he had sex with now and again but never got around to trying to make a relationship out of it even though I'm sure he wanted to. He was too affraid of risking his face or risking their friendship. I don't know the girl but I think that it was a mistake not to act on it. He is a nice guy and not bad looking but as far as I know he has never had a permanent girlfriend. Cowardice is a bad thing when all you want is a loving and faithful partner!
By the way - what's a flake? Haven't heard that word before but it can't be a good thing. |
She's more than a friend still, like...we met through one of my old friend's 10 years ago, and she kinda became part of my crowd for a lil, but i guess she got sick of hanging out with thugs and shit, so she stopped talking to everyone, cept me for some reason. Anyway, besides my 2 best friends from childhood, she's my closest friend...truth be told, she knows more about me than my exwife did...
Thats why I hesitate, I dont want our relationship to change in that sense...cuz sometimes, its alot easier to talk to close friend than ur partner right
Calling a woman (or a guy i guess) flake means, to me anyway (and id say generally), a ditzy, shallow, more concerned about her make up than anything else type of woman...and it can be a good thing, for a nite
Im not into her cuz she's to easy and she's a player...not my type of woman, well, to get involved with anyway. She's a good friend tho
Btw, u speak good english |
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| Posted: Thu, 10th Nov 2005 07:36 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: |
Calling a woman (or a guy i guess) flake means, to me anyway (and id say generally), a ditzy, shallow, more concerned about her make up than anything else type of woman...and it can be a good thing, for a nite
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You've gotta admit syco, it's nice to just shag these type of girls for a night!
I don't know, it's a different experience thats for sure.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 10th Nov 2005 07:44 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: |
Calling a woman (or a guy i guess) flake means, to me anyway (and id say generally), a ditzy, shallow, more concerned about her make up than anything else type of woman...and it can be a good thing, for a nite
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You've gotta admit syco, it's nice to just shag these type of girls for a night!
I don't know, it's a different experience thats for sure. |
I know, but meh, she's just a friend, never looked at her in a sexual sense to be honest. She's tried to fuck me a few times tho, usually when were smashed |
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| Posted: Thu, 10th Nov 2005 07:51 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | AnimalMother wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: |
Calling a woman (or a guy i guess) flake means, to me anyway (and id say generally), a ditzy, shallow, more concerned about her make up than anything else type of woman...and it can be a good thing, for a nite
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You've gotta admit syco, it's nice to just shag these type of girls for a night!
I don't know, it's a different experience thats for sure. |
I know, but meh, she's just a friend, never looked at her in a sexual sense to be honest. She's tried to fuck me a few times tho, usually when were smashed |
Well not all of us can be a pimp. We have to get it when we can.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 10th Nov 2005 23:33 Post subject: |
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Im no pimp, but i dont swim in just any pool ya know? trust me, a good bunch of my buddies have slept with her, why would i want to be another nasty stat like that?
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 04:52 Post subject: |
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SycoShaman -> Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems like you're assuming the friendship will be over if you make a move and she turns you down. I... don't see how you came to that conclusion O.o
You don't have to make it all "Baby, if we can't be together then we can't be friends"
Myself, I've ruined 2-3 pretty good friendships wih that mentality.
The girl I'm with now is a lot like the girl you're talking about, we were best friends, knew everything about each other, our exes, she gave mixed signals etc.
All I'm going to say is that the kinda girl you're best friends with is the kinda girl you wanna have a long term relationship with, but make sure that when you pop the offer, you leave her room to back out gracefully, so she can say "I'm not ready yet" instead of a "Nope, not interested"
Well, that's 2c from another over-opinionated fool
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 04:54 Post subject: |
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Well, here's the news.
Me and the chick are takin things slow and gunna see how things develop, so it worked out all good
BUT, man, God or whomever has a very weird sense of humour...
Checked my email a few days ago right. My exwife emailed me. All it said, "wanna fuck?"...so I responded saying "sure, but not you"
Anyway, she responded saying she's misses me like crazy and all this shit....the funny part is, one my boys predicted that she would do something like that.
So, since alot of yall know the story, I have to ask...think I should fuck with her head? I mean, she fucked with my head twice, in the span of like 5 months.
I mean, I don't love her at all, actually, I hate her with a passion - but im really vengeful when someone hurts me really bad.
What would u guys do?
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 05:55 Post subject: |
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Man i've been reading this whole thread for the first time right now and it's like a novel
With a pretty happy and-they-went-from-there-ending (well it's not a real ending but it feels like it )
Anyways about the wife-thing, hell yeah fuck with her head. As long as you wont be hurting any other family-members or shared friends by doing so.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 06:17 Post subject: |
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| javlar wrote: | Man i've been reading this whole thread for the first time right now and it's like a novel
With a pretty happy and-they-went-from-there-ending (well it's not a real ending but it feels like it )
Anyways about the wife-thing, hell yeah fuck with her head. As long as you wont be hurting any other family-members or shared friends by doing so. |
We dont have any shared friends...her friends are fuckin loser's...white boys who live in country who think they are gangsta cuz they own a 50 cent album seriously, ive never met a bigger bunch of pussies.
What do u mean by hurting family members? My family couldnt careless and , as for hers, they can blow me - seriously.
And, her mother is a drunk and a drug addict (heroin and shit) yet my ex let her mother influence her life and our relationship
Whats funny is, I knew this was gunna happen, I knew she was gunna realize she made a mistake, twice to top it off...while we were together, we had alot of good times and Im a really patient, understanding guy...but her mother basically convinced her otherwise, which fucked everything up.
I think she know realizes that im the best thing that could have happened to her, cuz I put up with SO much shit, and still loved her....but now its my turn to break her heart In the same way she broke mine....vengence is bliss
Man, if I were to write down the history of my love life...fuck, I'd have a hit Soap Opera on my hands
And u know whats funny? I HATE DRAMA. Im a very straight forward, blunt guy...but it seems I always get involved with women who like nothing but drama, very ironic
My current squeeze is really really hot, as oppose to my ugly exwife...and Im not saying that outta anger, she is ugly - but we got along really well (well, for most of my marriage) and im not a shallow guy. I do prefer substance over beauty - funny tho, my ex lacks both - took me a good 7 years to realize that
Plus, it provides entertainment on the forum
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 09:40 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Well, here's the news.
Me and the chick are takin things slow and gunna see how things develop, so it worked out all good
BUT, man, God or whomever has a very weird sense of humour...
Checked my email a few days ago right. My exwife emailed me. All it said, "wanna fuck?"...so I responded saying "sure, but not you"
Anyway, she responded saying she's misses me like crazy and all this shit....the funny part is, one my boys predicted that she would do something like that.
So, since alot of yall know the story, I have to ask...think I should fuck with her head? I mean, she fucked with my head twice, in the span of like 5 months.
I mean, I don't love her at all, actually, I hate her with a passion - but im really vengeful when someone hurts me really bad.
What would u guys do? |
don`t do it...
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 10:50 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Well, here's the news.
Me and the chick are takin things slow and gunna see how things develop, so it worked out all good
BUT, man, God or whomever has a very weird sense of humour...
Checked my email a few days ago right. My exwife emailed me. All it said, "wanna fuck?"...so I responded saying "sure, but not you"
Anyway, she responded saying she's misses me like crazy and all this shit....the funny part is, one my boys predicted that she would do something like that.
So, since alot of yall know the story, I have to ask...think I should fuck with her head? I mean, she fucked with my head twice, in the span of like 5 months.
I mean, I don't love her at all, actually, I hate her with a passion - but im really vengeful when someone hurts me really bad.
What would u guys do? |
Nah, that would only make things worse as they are. Just tell her no and go on with yer new chick Congratz on taking the step to trying stuff with her, btw. Must've been a hard decision, that you even ask us for help  Hope things work out real well between you guys. And btw ..... when do we get teh fucking picture you promised like 2 pages ago ? Wanna know what it is we have been reading about for 3 pages long |
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 11:21 Post subject: |
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tell her to fuck off & die .. she had her chance .. only reason she is trying it on is because she heard you were gettin with the right girl now .. she just wants to fuck up your life again .. neglect her to death .
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 12:29 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Well, here's the news.
Me and the chick are takin things slow and gunna see how things develop, so it worked out all good
BUT, man, God or whomever has a very weird sense of humour...
Checked my email a few days ago right. My exwife emailed me. All it said, "wanna fuck?"...so I responded saying "sure, but not you"
Anyway, she responded saying she's misses me like crazy and all this shit....the funny part is, one my boys predicted that she would do something like that.
So, since alot of yall know the story, I have to ask...think I should fuck with her head? I mean, she fucked with my head twice, in the span of like 5 months.
I mean, I don't love her at all, actually, I hate her with a passion - but im really vengeful when someone hurts me really bad.
What would u guys do? |
don't do anything stupid man, be as nice and respectful as you can be and reject her offer calmly... don't lower yourself and don't give yourself more headache.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 14:04 Post subject: |
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Awww...I know yall are right...but fuck, its so hard, especially when ur a person such as myself. As ive said, im very vengeful...if u slap me, I'll slap ya back right, i dont turn the other cheek...
Max....my headache couldnt get any bigger dude...and im specifically refering to women problems, just in general ....
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 14:19 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | Max....my headache couldnt get any bigger dude...and im specifically refering to women problems, just in general .... |
smoking some chronic again Syc? 
| Injurious wrote: | | And then Mabel tripped over a rock and landed in a well and was trapped there with Timmy. Sadly I shot Lassie so no one is saving that bitch! |
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| Posted: Mon, 14th Nov 2005 16:48 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Awww...I know yall are right...but fuck, its so hard, especially when ur a person such as myself. As ive said, im very vengeful...if u slap me, I'll slap ya back right, i dont turn the other cheek...
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my best mate is like that but he is a bit more extreme. if someone insults him he gives them 1 more chance without telling the other bloke he was insulted and then the next time just beats the crap out of him. its not like he does it all the time but i think its to extreme
i would turn the other cheeck only to have revenge long time after when they dont remember me until after they can hardly move.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Nov 2005 01:56 Post subject: |
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| ApeX PredatoR wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | Max....my headache couldnt get any bigger dude...and im specifically refering to women problems, just in general .... |
smoking some chronic again Syc?
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again? when did i stop? ....oh, now i see the typo I was tired this morning....tired now, spent a whole fuckin day in court and i didnt get to testify...so i gotta go waste another fuckin day goddamn Canadian legal system...
Either which way, Im takin the low road and gunna have my revenge She's hurt me bad, twice, so its my turn. Childish, immature, stupid....yep, all those things apply...but fuck it, i need satisfaction and NO ONE has ever fucked me over and gotten away with it
Still, i respect all of you who would go about this in a mature fashion...but when it comes to shit like this, Im far from mature Atleast im honest right? |
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Nov 2005 03:20 Post subject: |
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| Mech049 wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | Either which way, Im takin the low road and gunna have my revenge
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Naw, seriously dude...
The worst thing u can do to a woman like that is show her that she means nothing to you.
You play her, she'll play you right back. It's tempting, yes, but seriously, from what you said about her she's had LOTS more practice than you.
Methinks tell her she no longer exists as far as you're concerned, and *enjoy* your new life with your sweetheart.
From what I've read here you fuckin' deserve it |
Naw, the only reason she got the better of me, was because I loved her and shit and Im a softy when it comes to love....all those feelings are gone tho...and Im not gunna bang her...hell no. I wouldnt trade my current girl for anything. Ive got my strat worked out
And, she cant play me this time....cuz Im only gunna see her once and do what u said, show her she means jack shit to me Like I said, Im vengeful, prolly more than anyone I know - kinda runs in my family, my dad and I are the same in this respect.
U should read the thread where i discussed my divorce in length, u'd totally understand why i need revenge. cant remember what its called tho
And I talked this over with my current girl, since she was there (in a way) throughout all the bad times, and she agree's with me so its all good ya know?
I mean, fuck my ugly exwife and loose my current hot girl? ....i think not
Im tellin ya, Im thinking of writing my love life down and sending it in to All My Children or some Soap opera and see if they can use it
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