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| Aeon will soon be a father of a baby that is not his own |
| Yes! (He will get a relationship) |
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| He will be friendzoned again |
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| No! (It won't work out between the two) |
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 Posted: Mon, 27th Jan 2014 22:59 Post subject: |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 00:52 Post subject: |
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| MORPHINEUS wrote: | | sausje wrote: | Yeah my sister had hers at 22, dropped work and everything. Got TWICE the money i get monthly 
It's a fucking joke.. She decided never to go back to work back then, because it wouldn't be worth it compared to how much she gets for doing nothing.
Eventually it did bite her in the ass when after 2-3 years that disappeared and she was forced to work.. |
I was talking about stable people! 
But yeah it's a good example how 'good' support is in NL  |
That's really another world entirely.. no wonder why situations like this one are seen under a different (more negative) light around here. Making a babby grants you no benefits whatsoever, only expenses that you and only you alone need to provide. If you are a woman lucky enough to have a job, you have your 8-9months to grow a belly without noticing it (xD) and then you're obligatorily requested to go back to the normal routine, otherwise..bye bye job.
Hell, even marriage is a financial hammer here. It ain't worth it at all. People just live together, and the vatican punctually complains about the lack of married couples, and people just keep happily living their semi-free lives zero fucks given.  |
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Aeon
Posts: 8700
Location: Netherlands
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 12:23 Post subject: |
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| Sellob wrote: | Jesus, Aeon, you're only 21? I thought you're like 26  I'd kill for a mature woman |
Haha, I'm 21 yeah but I feel a lot older mentally. That's what people tell me aswell.
| VGAdeadcafe wrote: | | tonizito wrote: | | when she's back I'm up for surgery and I'm going to look like shit for at least three weeks. |
what kinda surgery ? |
They going to fix the inside of my nose. I have no idea how it's called, but it's the thing between my nose holes. They going to break my nose completely and they gonna fix it with some very sharp tools. After that I look like I'm beat up to death for some weeks...ugh I'm gonna have so much pain 
| sausje wrote: | | Aeon, i'm actually curious how she looks. Got a picture? |
I have pictures yes, but I'm not going to show them yet. When this will work out, I'll gladly show them 
| MapHtH wrote: | I have to side with Invasor here.
Dating while having a 4 month baby is a huge sign of irresponsibility. If she's ready to leave her most valuable and have fun and drink, I don't think she's ready for motherhood.
She's not dead, but if she's lying about having a baby or waiting to tell you that until you meet up with her, that means she knows that what she's doing is wrong and definitely didn't want the kid. A 4 month old kid needs constant attention from his/hers mom. It doesn't mean that she shouldn't have sex or date, but the older the kid is, responsibilities multiply by geometrical progression. And the first thing that comes to her mind should be her baby.
And I totaly don't buy it that she was pregnant without knowing. Like: "SHIT, SOMETHING IS COMMING OUT OF ME!!! IT'S NOT BROWN!!!" Even a whale knows it's pregnant.
Call me oldfashioned, but if a girl waited to tell me about her having a kid, I'd seriously reconsider about having any serious relationship with her. Would probably keep a ff relationship, and fhitb from time to time (well, isn't this the hump ) |
She wasn't lying mate. She told me via the app that there is something very important, but that she wanted to tell me face to face. And she did that right away at the first time we met. Completely fine with me. For me, I try to no think too much forward. I don't even know if it's going to work out between us. Life is not what it should be. It is like it is and how I deal with it, makes the difference. I've seen her now twice in less then 48 hours and she's the best girl I had so far. But it's still too soon to tell this is going to work out between us. And I think I have to make the decision this time, and not the other way around which was usually the case. Yesterday she told me that she's so happy that I react like this too the whole situation, that I'm such a sweetheart and that she likes being with me (Why does this reminds me of Sellob's girl ? ) I told her aswell that the baby always should come in the first place, because I know it's important for the little fella to have a mother around when it's needed.
Really, in the end time will tell how this is going to end or continue. There are plenty of scenario's that is not going to work:
- She sees my face after surgery and it scares her so much that she doesn't want me anymore (this is my best guess for now, because I can't see her a lot during that time and when we do meet, I look like shit. It's going to be a serious test for her)
- She meets a very nice man at the vacation she is now
- After some time she realizes I'm maybe not that great as she expected
- I don't want to be a father at this moment
- I get bored of her
I should make a new poll
Also, Invasor. Can you delete the current poll? I don't see the option to remove it.
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RatKing
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 12:46 Post subject: |
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Take a screenshot of the poll before deleting.
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Invasor
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 16:06 Post subject: |
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| Aeon wrote: |
Really, in the end time will tell how this is going to end or continue. There are plenty of scenario's that is not going to work:
- She sees my face after surgery and it scares her so much that she doesn't want me anymore (this is my best guess for now, because I can't see her a lot during that time and when we do meet, I look like shit. It's going to be a serious test for her)
- She meets a very nice man at the vacation she is now
- After some time she realizes I'm maybe not that great as she expected
- I don't want to be a father at this moment
- I get bored of her
I should make a new poll
Also, Invasor. Can you delete the current poll? I don't see the option to remove it. |
She knows your face will only be like that temporarily, so it's not such a big test. And, despite what I said yesterday, it could work between you two, sometimes people find each other in the strangest situations/places/ways and it works. But it's a good thing you know you don't want to be a father now, so you won't feel bad if you decide not to see her again, because thats a solid reason not to get involved.
I already deleted the poll (sorry, no screenshots)...
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Aeon
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tw1st
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 17:09 Post subject: |
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sausje
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 17:16 Post subject: |
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| Aeon wrote: | | Also, Saus. How did your date go? Haven't read anything about it. |
| sausje wrote: | | Well my evening went smooth, i hope yours did too Aeon! |
But yeah, i made her dinner, watched 2 movies together and talked/laughed quite a lot.
Overall a success but no idea how to proceed from here 
First thing she did when she got home was app me that she just got home and thanked me for a really nice evening, that we should do this more often. But that's it, nothing after that anymore
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Aeon
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Jan 2014 18:28 Post subject: |
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@tws1stAaaah, thanks a lot buddy! I'm doing my best, but there's still such a long road to go! We'll see where I am in a couple of weeks 
@Saus
Maybe you should try my approach? If you can get along pretty good with her, you can try to make a move. First, you got to plan a new date, show initiative. Then create a good moment for the both of you to break the ice. I did that last saturday just before we started watching the movie when I asked where she wanted to sit. I asked her if she wanted to sit between my legs. If she says yes, you're good. If she says no, she probably needs more time or isn't that interested. You obviously don't have to do the same thing, but just think of something that breaks the ice
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MapHtH
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Aeon
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| Posted: Fri, 31st Jan 2014 14:09 Post subject: |
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Now, I voted against the relationship. Mainly because I myself wouldn't want a gf who already has a child.
Nontheless, I wish you the best, and if this results in a couple of months of good sex, that's still a great step forward for you, it will give you a lot of confidence. Keep at it!
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| Posted: Fri, 31st Jan 2014 19:13 Post subject: |
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Yeah, only if you give me attention.
Jesus fuck...
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| Posted: Fri, 31st Jan 2014 19:26 Post subject: |
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Ok ok sorry. It was a cheap shot.
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Aeon
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Saner
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Feb 2014 11:25 Post subject: |
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Sounds good =)
| ragnarus wrote: |
I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa! |
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tonizito
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Feb 2014 11:32 Post subject: |
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| Aeon wrote: | Well, she visited me yesterday in the evening and she wasn't scared by my face at all. We watched some television on my bed. We only were able to cuddle and stuff, but it was nice. Thursday she's coming over again and next monday she's going to the hospital with me to see the result of my surgery. I think I'm finally heading into the right direction
For those who want to know how I look: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ah0qbkp050kitc7/IMAG0362.jpg
Today it's even worse, I can barely see now. |
The plastic surgery move worked, yay 
Get well soon kurwa
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Feb 2014 23:42 Post subject: |
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| xxax wrote: | | Aeon wrote: | Well, she visited me yesterday in the evening and she wasn't scared by my face at all. We watched some television on my bed. We only were able to cuddle and stuff, but it was nice. Thursday she's coming over again and next monday she's going to the hospital with me to see the result of my surgery. I think I'm finally heading into the right direction
For those who want to know how I look: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ah0qbkp050kitc7/IMAG0362.jpg
Today it's even worse, I can barely see now. |
Hehehehe, you look like a boxer after a hard fight.
Good to hear you're having a nice time with her. |
That was my thought as well 
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tonizito
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Feb 2014 23:46 Post subject: |
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| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Feb 2014 00:04 Post subject: |
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Sooo, can I get a tl;dr without shuffling through 21 pages so I can properly asses which butt Aeon should fuck up or do I need to lube up (again, sigh) because he screwed up?
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Feb 2014 00:26 Post subject: |
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Did she sit on your face for too long 
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Aeon
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Feb 2014 10:43 Post subject: |
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Bwaha priceless Ixi 
@Claude
I don't know how much you know, so I'll keep it short. I met a girl on Tinder who lives 1KM away from me. We met twice at my house, had a good time, had sex, showered together, etc. Today she's coming over again to watch some tv with me and monday she's going with me to the hospital.
Oh, and she has a baby from 4 months old. That's about it, I didn't screw up so far
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Feb 2014 14:01 Post subject: |
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I knew you met that girl, I just didn't know where you went from there. Nice.
Hope it works out for you, buddy!
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