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Lopin18




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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 05:58    Post subject: Im useless..
I belong here, my nice dark corner in the internet.


...... FFS i gotta change my social life. I feel alienated from all these people around me who only drink and fuck and talk useless shit, i cant seem to point which of my friends or people around me are actually a plus to me, i cant talk to my current surroundings without feeling out of place!

Poker Face I think i might have to start meeting new people. *gasp* cant wait to meet more assholes.
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Atropa




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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 08:35    Post subject:
Ditch your freinds and watch fast and the furious all day.
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deelix
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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 08:45    Post subject:
I get the feeling you are the only sane person in Dominican Rep Laughing
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tonizito
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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 09:16    Post subject:
What is this "social life" you speak of? ...you mean it's not nfohump? Poker Face


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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 09:25    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 09:40    Post subject:
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dingo_d
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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 09:48    Post subject:
Well, internet is safe, but going out with good friends is fun too. It sucks finding new friends tho :\ Especially if you're older and introverted :S


But a good thing to do is, find who is a good friend and see if he has any cool friends and then just tag along. Soon you'll become a part of that group and you'll have new friends \o/


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StrEagle




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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 10:45    Post subject:
What do you mean? I thought you were the coolest drift-racer-mechanic in DR with every man wanting to be your friend and chick wetting herself when she sees you? Rolling Eyes


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tonizito
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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 10:46    Post subject:
garus wrote:
tonizito wrote:
What is this "social life" you speak of? ...you mean it's not nfohump? Poker Face


Dood. Facebook, get on it!



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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 11:00    Post subject:
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spankie
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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 12:51    Post subject:
Well it could get worse. Like one of the friends of my gf. One of them visits us regularly, I am still wondering why. She enters and after 2 minutes, in the middle of a conversation, she starts texting, surfing on her phone etc. And after 2 h she leaves again... Laughing

IMO even worse than saying crappy stuff, at least they are interacting.

You don't need friends just to have friends... I maybe have 5 good friends, but we have a lot of fun, no pressure. No 'buddy calendar' like some girls i know. They have a gazillion friends living gazillion km away and they HAVE to visit each other just to keep the friendship going. And actually they dont like each other, but still have to keep each other as a friend. Laughing

btw, you don't have to hang around the dicks if you dont like it... just get some decent people as friends instead of dicks...
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Lopin18




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PostPosted: Thu, 12th Sep 2013 13:08    Post subject:
Its as it was said, noone has time anymore, hell not even me. Part of the whole problem, i have some childhood friends yea, only true friends i guess, but everyone's busy. Then again im the kind of person who talks a lot about life and stuff that happens, that intrigues me, about people and their acting. but everyone is all about drinking, fucking and being just... weird, complicating others.

Lately i found myself more into my analysis mood and i didnt find anyone worthy of sharing with, even found myself swimming in old memories analyzing myself and others and i cant share it since noone is close to me to understand or enjoy it or those persons arent part of my life anymore and wont ever be, some of them due to complicated resentments and its a pity really for me.

Im pretty social, i can get into people, but sometimes its the people i meet just arent the correct ones, always with complicated behaviors and complexes so i end up "i cant keep talking to this person, its a loss of time".

Drifting did bring some friends, but its just racing companions, not real friends and the women..... yea women, nice, but still not interesting people just whores and open minded fools not worth much respect.

I always find people to have fun with but talking and sharing the deep stuff, i have noone who would listen and share for real. Thats what bores me.
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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Sep 2013 03:27    Post subject:
The thing is, it's quite easy to have lots of friends when you're "young", but once you start reaching the mid-twenties (and more), and the old fellas that you used to hang around with either get married, have kids or are simply busy at being slaves working 10+ hours a day, you suddenly realize that loneliness can be a real threat.

That's the main reason why I'm desperately trying to find a female companion to share my worthless boring rants but it's not easy to find THE one, especially if you're a guy who prefers the relaxing atmosphere of a house instead of going to silly clubs and YOLO-ing, not to mention my addiction to video games which certainly doesn't help. I actually go outside a lot, do sports regularly etc., but nothing too "cool" I guess.

So would you marry me, Lopin? I could provide you with a new life in a south-american-friendly country, also I could fix your engine if you know what I mean Cool Face Laughing
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Lopin18




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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Sep 2013 04:14    Post subject:
A bit sad that i actually understand your position, im definitely an oddball around here anyways. I hate this laidback attitude that people have these days, they either care in a complex excesive bad way or dont care in all the worst ways. Ive never hit a mid field, seriously this is bs. Embarassed

Anyways im dealing with a lot in my head, breaking up definitely opened up a lot of questions and time to think and notice many things about myself, i guess ill have to open up quite a bit and start analizing people themselves to get to enjoy or learn further, maybe i can make others better, maybe that could be fun for a while.

Sadly i gotta admit that i have a lot of antisocial tendencies, im pretty shy when i dont connect with someone strongly, hence why i fuck up so many encounters with people. Oh well.

I hope u do meet someone, but you do indeed have to ENJOY life meeting people, even if its a waste of time, thats the only way we experience others and the only way to connect to the right people. Sadly i fucking suck at it Hell i think i might have gotten somewhat depressed several times now thinking and noticing my current situation, its a heavy load but i pull out of it, time will help me stand up again. and i hate allowing myself to feel down or bad or unappreciated by people around me because i know the reasons arent me alone. But thats the mind, ive got too much on me.

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PostPosted: Fri, 13th Sep 2013 10:58    Post subject:
Same here dude. Same here. I'ts my dark corner too. I have gf for 5 years and she is great. I have work and people to "talk to" there, but I am not going outside. My social life don't exist. But all I see on facebook is "my friends" going out drinking, going out together on vacation and so on and forth.

I have one old friend but not seeing him too much anyway. not much time really. he is working, I am working, we both have our ladies. not much time.

couple of years ago when I meet Kasia (my gf), I was going out with friends from school and then when we were together we were also going out with friends. even a trips for a week or two.
After school, everyone kinda faded away. I figured out, fuck those people if they won't even message me, if I dont bombard them with calls and messages first. And it is as I was expecting. Almost nobody will remember about me, if I don't call first, if You know what I mean

Now, everyone is a dick and a fucktard. Maybe I have too high requirements but even best friends from past seems to be stupid fucks.
I never was to social and that is fine with me as long as I have my gf, that old friend I've been talking about and guys at work.



generally - People are dicks and it's never as in tv shows or movies.

edit: It's like ixigia says. past 20s. After school, it is hard to actually keep track with "friends" and they forget about You


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