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SupaHonn




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PostPosted: Sat, 20th Apr 2013 07:22    Post subject:
WOW! I didn't check out this website in years. Back in the days when the Nicole thing was going on. Nice to see you have matured. I remember the chart you made from the lecture hall back in the days. That was rich!
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PostPosted: Sat, 20th Apr 2013 07:42    Post subject:
SupaHonn wrote:
WOW! I didn't check out this website in years. Back in the days when the Nicole thing was going on. Nice to see you have matured. I remember the chart you made from the lecture hall back in the days. That was rich!


Lol I remember those events like they happened just yesterday. Everything is still fresh in my memory. Shes still in Michigan, she shows up on my facebook whenever I search for my coworker "nick." ALthough me and nicky aren't facebook friends, she still shows up as the second result Laughing

Its ironic that you brought up this thread today. Today was Gina's first date with that Carl moron. Apparently he was very charming (even more so than me according to her)... pshhh I find that hard to believe. Theres no fucking way he did better than me on their first date than I did on my first date with Gina. She was basically in love with me at the end of our first date. She came all the way over to my home and spent the night the very next day Laughing and became obsessed with me and forced me into a relationship. No fucking way this carl guy was more charming than me

But according to Gina, "its just different with Carl." Maybe they connect on a deeper level or something. On my first date with Gina, I was just trying to see how far I could get. Didn't really care about her as a person (at the time) to be honest.

Whatever, its all in the past now. Im not trying to win her back or anything. She can go fuck herself

More details: Apparently Carl guy took her to dinner and it was really romantic. Whereas I took her to a hooka bar and got her drunk. This Carl guy is fucking lame



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readonly




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PostPosted: Fri, 26th Apr 2013 01:07    Post subject:
you sound like a bitch from ur last post. First of all drop contact immediately, you shouldn't know how romantic Carl is or who the fuck Carl is. Stop talking to her and remove her from all social media and delete her number. Do not give her the satisfaction of trying to make you jealous which it sounds like she is. "No way Carl is more charming than me" what are you 5 years old? Is Carl black? If so hes prolly got a big fucken dick and she is getting blasted right now. Also she obviously cheated on you in the beginning and that's why she felt guilty and left you.
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PostPosted: Fri, 28th Jun 2013 22:27    Post subject:
I feel as though I should post an update on this since a lot of time has passed since this situation..

To summarize:
January 16: met this girl named Gina, she became obsessed with me and showered me with attention and affection for 2 months

March 25: She random breaks up with me and says she never wants to get back together with me ever again. But we decide to remain friends, and still spoke everyday

April 5: She meets a new guy on dating site named Carl who she has a lot in common with apparently. I apparently absolutely NOTHING in common with her which was actually true, she was definitely right Laughing

April 6: I told her that I was insulted and hurt that she moved on so quickly. She drove to my home directly from work quite late at night and we had dinner at a diner to discuss the situation. She told me that we had nothing in common and that all we ever did was just have sex and I didn't really take her out to eat or spend time trying to get to know her better or anything. All of this was true. And then she asked me what do I know about her which came as a surprise to me because I honestly didn't know her at all lol. At the end of that dinner we were still on friendly terms and before I said bye the last thing I ever said to her was "I have a feeling this will be the last time I ever see you" and she told me to stop being dramatic. This actually was the last time I ever saw Gina Laughing

My best friend (that naked chick Laughing) told me that the real reason I was sad wasn't because I missed Gina. It was an ego thing. I was just sad that I didn't get to dump her first. And over the last few months I found out how she really felt about me. It wasn't that she didn't care or anything like that, whatever she felt for me was real but it was more like some crazy high school crush. Whereas what she saw with Carl was a real foundation for a long term relationship and I completely understand that now because thats how I felt about that crazy psych ward Betty chick from back in 2009

I stopped speaking to her daily and we would say hello to eachother via text once every 2 weeks or so. I still consider her a friend, I dont like the idea of having enemies. In June I got back in the dating game and met a really lovely young lady named Lindsay. The day before my date (June 13) with Lindsay I got a strange text from Gina:

Gina: "You could totally come get me and we could hook up Wink hahaha"

To which I dismissed as a joke and then I get another text a few hours later..

Gina: "Btw, only half kidding about the hookin up lol"

To which I said yes I know shes kidding because shes with that Carl guy. And thats when she told me about how they are not together and that theyve only seen eachother in person only 6 times in the past few months! I only dated her for 2 months and saw her every single day. And I put in almost 0 effort because she would always drive to my home. So they never actually got together and Carl has never met her family or friends lol normally this would make me jump up and down for joy but at this point I moved on completely. She also asked me if I was currently seeing anybody and I said no but I do have a date the following day.

And so my date took place and I took her to a hookah bar ofcourse lol and it went exceptionally well Very Happy And then the following day I get another text from Gina...

Gina: "Wanna hear something weird?"
Me: "Always lol"
Gina: "I had a sex dream about you last night"

lol I thought it was funny. SHe eventually asked me how my date went and I told her and then she asked to see a picture of her and I sent her a pic and then I didn't hear from her for a few days. And then she randomly texted me that she has a date and that shes nervous. I told her not to be nervous and then after the date she complained that he was rude. Haven't spoken to her in about 2 weeks and have no desire/reason to. At this point I really couldn't care less whats going on with her Laughing do I even consider her a friend anymore?

Anyways so to sum up, I met a new girl. My heart has been fully repaired lol Smile



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PostPosted: Fri, 28th Jun 2013 22:51    Post subject:
Thought that you had derped out and hooked up with the gina chick again, Everything Went Better Than Expected


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PostPosted: Sat, 29th Jun 2013 00:38    Post subject:
Haha me too, then I kept reading and went all aww that sounds great for Timechange Very Happy

He really changed!

Laughing

You're doing the right thing, keeping contact with her is fine of course, but without exaggerating..especially now that your love life has been fixed again after all those troubles. Razz
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PostPosted: Sat, 29th Jun 2013 01:39    Post subject:
Haha thanks! Honestly if that texting situation happened a few weeks before I met Lindsay, I might have gone back to Gina. But Im quite happy with Lindsay, and I already told her about all the crazy Gina stuff so the same issues will not get repeated Very Happy Very Happy



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PostPosted: Sun, 30th Jun 2013 00:35    Post subject:
I'm looking forward to the future Lindsay thread. Very Happy


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PostPosted: Sun, 30th Jun 2013 01:26    Post subject:
Though i think we all know what happens if the date girl doesn't work out Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sun, 30th Jun 2013 08:45    Post subject:
There's a lot of derp stuff in this topic >.< but dear lord - if a girl goes too fast in a relationship, it's pretty much a given that it will crash and burn unless you have the very rare chance of actually being compatible when the drunken crush is over. All the stuff that took you ages to figure out, was already painfully clear from the first post you made. This was a very inexperienced girl who had a strong crush on you but felt unhappy because, over time, her subconscious told her you were being a dick and only stayed with her because of your ego - she only realised it properly later, but good for her for getting out of there.

If you want to know why you shouldn't date teenage girls, it's because they have no clue what they want or how a relationship works and it's a nightmare for a guy. They feel an emotion but don't understand what it means - they feel a pang of unhappiness but can't trace it and fix it. Instead they'll just do rash things - cheat on you, ditch you, bitch at you, etc. just in case it might fix what they feel and sometimes it does but it's like having a tiny scratch on your car and repainting it completely in a different colour - it's not efficient.

Basically, don't date young inexperienced girls - leave those to assholes and idiots so they learn how it feels to be badly treated, give them the experience to appreciate a proper relationship and once they had their early 20's, they make for great girlfriends.
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timechange01
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PostPosted: Sun, 30th Jun 2013 09:44    Post subject:
Its fine Im not sad about it at all. In fact, I feel like I learned from this whole experience so Im glad it happened. The random texting about her date happened again tonight regarding a new one:



Notice the timestamps..June 17 was another time she randomly started complaining about a date she just had. Why is she telling me this? what is the point. I discuss absolutely nothing about my love-life with her after that one day when she asked how my date with that lindsay girl went which was over 2 weeks ago. I haven't really spoken to gina about anything at all really but yet she feels the need to complain about her dates...? And its not like she doesn't have friends, she actually has a very close group of friends. Not to worry though, not a single part of me wants to get back together with her, for sex or anything. Im actually enjoying living the single life for the first time ever Smile



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PostPosted: Sun, 30th Jun 2013 11:36    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:

Notice the timestamps..June 17 was another time she randomly started complaining about a date she just had. Why is she telling me this? what is the point. I discuss absolutely nothing about my love-life with her after that one day when she asked how my date with that lindsay girl went which was over 2 weeks ago. I haven't really spoken to gina about anything at all really but yet she feels the need to complain about her dates...? And its not like she doesn't have friends, she actually has a very close group of friends. Not to worry though, not a single part of me wants to get back together with her, for sex or anything. Im actually enjoying living the single life for the first time ever Smile


Again, very obvious. You and her went through the hole "dating" thing so she feels like you have that in common - hence why she talks to you when it involves guys she's dating - because you two have been there and she thinks you can relate to it. Also, maybe part of her misses some elements from the relationship you two had - we tend to cherry pick the best bits after a while and forget the bad parts and end up missing our ex only for us to get reminded of WHY it went wrong the moment you get back together.
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PostPosted: Tue, 23rd Jul 2013 01:32    Post subject:
yep, you should definitely sell the rights to hollywood. been a good 2 hour reading material right here. congrats:)


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