I didn't see you telling people to fuck off with hoping you the best...
Didn't I?
Well, perhaps I didn't addressed in an ebonics style terminology that you could understand.
You know what, if that's true. then fuck you in return.. I'm done. I'm tired of when you get into a corner, resorting to calling people troglodyte is your comeback of why you are right. Your main argument isn't to explain why you think you are right, its always back into a corner and explain why the others cant understand you are right..It just makes you look LESS secure in your argument because you aren't backing up what you say to make it look better..your defacing the opposition in an attempt to make them look worse.
You can die with your dignity intact that you both dismissed everyone's appeal to your mortality, the satisfaction that you took what was your only mortal flaw, and rubbed it in peoples faces that you could care less that they asked how you was getting by with it.
So either way I can say its a good day:
I come to terms with the excitement that either I wont have to read your posts much longer
or
the excitement of in a few months you are still here, and of all the people to do it, can be called out for trying to play a pity card just so you could swat down the pity as it came in, in smug self satisfaction.
So I can say, with a bit of totally apathy for the anger it might cause..That in a few months either way is 'win win' for me.
edit:I hope this does not piss him off into a rage. I mean it would be a bit hypocritical to get upset at me for having a lack of empathy, for the guy that bitches at people for having empathy... I'm just following you teachings here.
I try really hard not to bring your intellect into the conversation, but sometimes you really make it impossible.
You cannot place words in my mouth and then act offended when I say that I did in fact stated the opposite.
You are implying that I welcomed any sort of concern for my condition, when in fact I did the exact opposite, and now you use that argument against me, an argument that you either misunderstood or distorted turned against me? That I won't admit!
You cannot place words in my mouth and then act offended when I say that I did in fact stated the opposite.
Nhiumewyn wrote:
If people are free to do as they wish, I am free to criticize and expose any stupid or illogical behavior that I come across.
So yes he can, by your own words.
Because you do criticize and expose any stupid or illogical behavior that you come across, so he's free to do as he wishes
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You cannot place words in my mouth and then act offended when I say that I did in fact stated the opposite.
Nhiumewyn wrote:
If people are free to do as they wish, I am free to criticize and expose any stupid or illogical behavior that I come across.
So yes he can, by your own words.
Because you do criticize and expose any stupid or illogical behavior that you come across, so he's free to do as he wishes
So now you cannot understand the difference between a critique and a blatant lie?
You dont have to admit anything.
I'm done with you. whatever it is/has been we are in disagreement about, I bow out, forfeit, concede the game to you. You win. Enjoy the victory.
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
Disclaimer: Post made by me are of my own creation. A delusional mind relayed in text form.
Good, now he's the martyr again. Thats just what the narcissist wants.
Also, after reading the thread, what a stupid f****** argument, really.
"Enlightenment is man's emergence from his self-imposed nonage. Nonage is the inability to use one's own understanding without another's guidance. This nonage is self-imposed if its cause lies not in lack of understanding but in indecision and lack of courage to use one's own mind without another's guidance. Dare to know! (Sapere aude.) "Have the courage to use your own understanding," is therefore the motto of the enlightenment."
Thanks for everyones input. I got what I needed to hear and de-rail (fisk) happened exactly as the way it should. And a good laugh at the drama that ensued.
I suspect that my whole separation and the division of assets got Rhon’s panties in a knot so he’s primed for a fight. (notice my using of the word “suspect” not that I know)
fisk wrote:
As long as you do not start identifying yourself with the deadbeats and keep it real, nothing bad will come from this.
Absolutely NOT! I know who and what I am.
My whole situation has given me more compassion for other people (mostly women) who are in this situation with a lot less. I can’t help but think of those in abusive relationships. No wonder why they can’t get it together to get into a place of their own fast -end up in a shelter. Thank God I got supportive people around me and a healthy attitude. Some people gotta do this and they are emotionally bankrupt.
KillerCrocker wrote:
You will handle this. Just keep doing what needs to be done. Situation is hardf but think of it as freedom or new start.
As above - seeing only Your contribution on forums, I can say that You will manage this.
You've earned so much. I can only dream to even have my own car right now(earning 400 euro is sooooo cool). You lost it but thats not Your foult exactly. If You were able to earn all of it once before ,You can do it again. Just try to rest.
Just be patient. I didn’t get my new car until I was 38. It needs a good cleaning and wash right now but it’s too cold. I didn’t lose anything. A bigger house, I posted pictures of it in the VIP. Posting those pictures was like an act of goodbye. but I will get something else that will be just right for me. Smaller but it will be just me.
sausje wrote:
I have a spare room here pistol
Nah but gl, kinda stupid that they refuse someone like that.
Is it that hard to find a proper place then over there? Or are there enough but they purely don't want you somehow? :\
I explain my situation by answering their questions and it sounds too good I and think they think I’m full of shit. There are a lot of scam artists here, addiction, deadbeats who talk a good talk. I have proof, but I’m not getting to the point where I show them ..partly because I don’t go around showing financial statement to just anybody as personal protection ...it has to be serious first.
fisk wrote:
Mister_s wrote:
So how does it work if you rent a house for the first time in your life? What's your reference in that case? Here in the Netherlands, it's pretty much "we're OK with it if you can pay". They don't even ask whether you have a steady income or not. This of course is the other extreme, which I think is also weird.
The references does not necessarily need to come from previous places you've rented an apt. at. References can be from previous employers, student corridor rentals, etc. - basically they want a reference where someone tells you/verifies that you're not a total junkie/unemployed douchebag.
Basically the only people who have troubles getting references are people that you don't want renting an apartment.
Why is she a wonderful person, because she is a women or because you actually have evidence and insight into the nature of her character and the integrity of her intellect?
You think this comment was necessary? He was giving her a compliment..
I wonder if he would have complimented her in the same manner hadn't she been a women.
Regardless, I find it a particular disgusting indulgence in futility these displays of courtesy and chivalry for the mere sake of satisfying a misandristic social code.
Nhiumewyn wrote:
sausje wrote:
Nhiumewyn wrote:
The compliment thrown by TSR69 was equally pointless.
So complementing someone (without knowing anything) just to cheer up a person that is sad is a wrong thing to do?
Why would anyone compliment others without a reason that justifies such compliment?
My compliment is totally justified. You just don’t see it. As I said before TSR69 and I have been on this board for years. Thats numerous PM’s in personal discussions that you have not been privileged to over 6 or 7 years. Soooo... he is not some haphazard mishap throwing out complements all willy nilly.
Just got a bit annoyed with what seemed a:
"Hmm whats going in in this thread...wait!.This thread does not concern me, or about me but compliments and praise are being given! So no compliments shall be given in here without being ridiculed, especially to a...FEMALE!" type reply.
Not that I was being a knight in shining armor type, more a "my hypocrite buzzer is going off here"
let it be a thread about HIM, and someone referring to how much they respect him, I'm rather sure he wouldn't have told them "that's off topic, please keep your opinions of how awesome I am to yourself please its off topic, useless, and it has no place in the thread".
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
Disclaimer: Post made by me are of my own creation. A delusional mind relayed in text form.
I got a response to an email. They didn't leave a number. But I'm pretty happy. 56 yr old couple looking for someone for their basement suit. $650. In the area I am currently in so it's great for work. Place is available next weekend for showing.
Ron how can you believe in anarchy where everything depends on social respect and kindness rather than a controlled environment, whilst you don't even value common courtesy and kindness on a fucking forum board.
Not replying will mean that you agree with me and that you are in fact retarded.
Now he'll just make a sock account and respond. You should put a constraint on that like so: "Not replying from the Nhiumewyn account would mean that you agree with me and that you are in fact retarded."
Hey, what did I miss? Miss Pistolshrimp going through life changing events, Ronnie getting banned (temp or perm?).......?
(the manifestation of how weird this thread ended up)
I wish you the best shrimpess, but from what I've seen you'll definitely a fighter and survivor and can and will get any of these things sorted out. You just need some moral support to get you some extra energy...
About ronnie... this was worse than his usual antics. This time it was all about insulting people showing support and friendliness.
I can only guess he's become bitter after having alienated the entire forum, suffering from pancreatic cancer. And when someone showed some empathy he slapped them in the face. :/
Maybe it's my phone voice. I made a call, and the person didn't seem interested. I'm trying to set up a time to meet and view tomorrow. There was a lot of hesitation on his part. Finally he just said he would call me back after he talks to his wife. I think it was a brush off. He didn't ask for a call back number. I assume he will call back on the number I called from. My cel.
People are weird.
...anyway the person I am with right now was laughing at me and said that my voice sounds too young.
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Thats just what the narcissist wants.
but I will get something else that will be just right for me. Smaller but it will be just me.
