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 Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 04:29 Post subject: Girl problems 3! Help me! |
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Ok guys, i'm a bit drunk and a bit pissed off but as it happens I got dumped tonight.
I seem to be able to pull rather attractive girls, but I can never keep them and it's beginning to annoy me. It always seems to be going great for about two weeks and then I suddenly get a call or text off them telling me that they think it would be better to call it off. For example, tonight I was out with a few friends enjoying myself and my girlfriend was in the same club. Then she texts me saying that she doesn't think we connect or some shit. I don't get it, is it because I didn't go up to her straight away? Should I be paying her constant attention? I would like to have a relationship that goes beyond the physical.
I know this is not the best place to ask for advice on girls but my friends are useless. This is the only forum I visit on a regular basis, so it's my best bet. Help me!
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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Jenni
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 04:51 Post subject: |
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That's probably the reason, they think you're out on the pull and ignoring them.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 05:26 Post subject: |
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Having a girldfriend is never a casual thing, like you seem to take it.
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The Rat
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 05:30 Post subject: |
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Your right hand will never leave you.
| kirkblitz wrote: | | You attack other people constantly for not loving blacks or asians or whatever. YOU are the most hateful of us all, you sit there and preach hate toward people who dont like diversity |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 05:42 Post subject: |
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yea but if thats the main reason then she wasnt worth being with anyway.
it is kinda shallow breaking up with you only cuz you didnt approach her there, sure it wasnt right to ignore her but it shows that she s not a girl for serious relationships.
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drakgon
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 05:45 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 07:17 Post subject: |
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 ur in uni, wtf u got a gf for? when i'm in uni im not gonna have a gf if i can help it  now - 30 ima be a slut as much as I can tbh. And she txt'd u whilst in the club? seems like SHE was the one on the pull to me. Life goes on, it was only 2 weeks and prolly just with her coz of her looks. |
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Godlikez*
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 16:27 Post subject: |
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i never had a girlfriend, so dont worry AM 
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 16:40 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 16:53 Post subject: |
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lolol
i like girl ok, not boys 
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 16:58 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 17:04 Post subject: |
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Make the girl feel special.
She may have told her friends about you since women usually discuss this more than men do..and you didnt say hi to her in the club.
Do you have eyes for other women, even though your with someone?
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jul 2005 21:10 Post subject: |
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Why bother with the drama man? Fuck her for real
She wants to play games and the attention thing, then fuck her, find another one of those smokin british girls, and get down on some new pussy. U'll feel better
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Jul 2005 20:00 Post subject: |
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Ok guys, well she invited me to her friends birthday party on wednesday. I've already said i'm going to go, but I was wondering if you think this is a good idea.
I mean, why would she invite me to this after having dumped me on the saturday?
I'll try to get a pic of her while i'm there aswell.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Jul 2005 21:02 Post subject: |
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See man, sounds like simple childish school girl shit
She thought she wanted something different, but she doesn't. Now she's lonely, bored or whatever and whats ur company again...all Im saying is, if u do take her ass back, play it like u don't give a fuck...make her work for you. If she calls and u come running, she has the power and will fuck ur head up more and more.
U know, when she calls to "talk" just be like, "yeah, I can't talk, going out with some friends, if u want, I might be home later so give me a call"...either she will drop u, in which case she didnt have all that strong of feelings for u in the first place, or she'll be all over ur dick cuz it shows ur confident and u don't need her
See what im saying? U have to play ur own game now
she played her's, now its ur time...and ur 19? heh, fuck dont worry boss, plenty of horney college girls out and about
Why not steal a couple of Prince William's? Or the Nazi HArry? lol j/k
But on that note, straight goods, I would love to compete with Prince William...not that I would have a shot mackin the same girl he is, but damn, atleast i could say I did it U guys ever see him at the clubs and shit? In our paper's, they make those 2 sound like nothing but party animals
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drakgon
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MAD_MAX333
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Jenni
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| Posted: Tue, 19th Jul 2005 08:56 Post subject: |
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It's quite simple. You've given her one and then went clubbing and ignored her. She feels used and is giving you a second chance.
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| Posted: Tue, 19th Jul 2005 16:00 Post subject: |
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| Jenni wrote: | | It's quite simple. You've given her one and then went clubbing and ignored her. She feels used and is giving you a second chance. |
Ok Jen.
I'll just have to wait and see what she says to me on wednesday.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Tue, 19th Jul 2005 23:55 Post subject: |
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i say go there, slap her as hard as you can , then call the police and go to jail... why would u ignor the girl in the club dude??? lol that whole bro before hoes deal is stupid and overrated...
no offence to jen
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 20th Jul 2005 00:00 Post subject: |
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| MAD_MAX333 wrote: | i say go there, slap her as hard as you can , then call the police and go to jail... why would u ignor the girl in the club dude??? lol that whole bro before hoes deal is stupid and overrated...
no offence to jen |
Whoa whoa Max...Bro's Before Hoe's is something u should live by till the end.
I basically cut off enough of my closest boy's when i hooked up with my wife...and when she ended up fuckin me over, they took me back no question's asked...well, they were mad but realized that everyone makes that mistake once...girls come and go, boys are for life.
And I can't lie, if I went out to a club with my buddy's on a boy's nite out, I wouldnt chill with my gf either...don't get me wrong, I'd go say hi, give her a kiss and all that stuff but, like i said, if its a boys nite out, then I'm chillin with my buds |
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| Posted: Wed, 20th Jul 2005 00:18 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | MAD_MAX333 wrote: | i say go there, slap her as hard as you can , then call the police and go to jail... why would u ignor the girl in the club dude??? lol that whole bro before hoes deal is stupid and overrated...
no offence to jen |
Whoa whoa Max...Bro's Before Hoe's is something u should live by till the end.
I basically cut off enough of my closest boy's when i hooked up with my wife...and when she ended up fuckin me over, they took me back no question's asked...well, they were mad but realized that everyone makes that mistake once...girls come and go, boys are for life.
And I can't lie, if I went out to a club with my buddy's on a boy's nite out, I wouldnt chill with my gf either...don't get me wrong, I'd go say hi, give her a kiss and all that stuff but, like i said, if its a boys nite out, then I'm chillin with my buds |
See, thats what I did. After I got in the club, I went and said hi to my mates, then went up to her about 5-10 mins later and gave her a kiss and that. Then I went back with my mates and chilled. I hadn't expected her to be in there, I knew she was going out, but not where and i'd arranged a night with the lads.
The she sent me the text about an hour later. All my mates started slaggin her off then, as they tend to do. Thats why I came on here for advice.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 20th Jul 2005 00:26 Post subject: |
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If thats what u did, then she is way to fuckin immature seriously...its not like ur cheating or whatever
and if she doesnt trust you, then the relationship isnt worth the hassle in the first place.
For instance, Im going to a Pearl Jam concert with my bud right? We want to go get all fucked up, mosh and go nuts right? we've never seen pearl jam and its one of our fav bands....anyway, his girl calls me up saying she wants to come cuz she doesn't trust me or him when it comes to cheating...she thinks that im gunna get him laid or something...I told him, fuck that. She isn't into the music and she doesnt want him to mosh etc etc...she's way to much of an attention seeker really.
If ur girl can't trust u to chill with ur buddies, then how is the relatonship going to develop right? Everything u do has to been done with her? Yet she can go out with her friends? And if she was hurt that u weren't chilling with her, why didnt she come say something in the club to you? Like, since were here together come dance with me or some shit like that....Im tellin u man, immaturity and its just gunna stress the fuck outta you. It all goes back to being played with...not worth it in my view
but hey, what do I know right?
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| Posted: Wed, 20th Jul 2005 01:21 Post subject: |
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They way i see it, you should have approached her right away. Not wait 5-10 mins. Then say hi to her and her friends, tell her that you're out with your friends and gonna chill with them. And tell her if she wanna hook up later tonight she should sms you or something.
She probaly thought you would spent some more time with her and you didn't so she got pissed.
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Wed, 20th Jul 2005 02:39 Post subject: |
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yah wtf.. i understand its a guys night out but that doesn't mean total shut down of the GF.. u nod to ur friends, head over to her, kiss her, say hi, explain ur going to be chilling with ur boys and if she needs anything just message you and later tonight u can chill...
not go to ur boys, after 10 mins go kiss her and go right back to ur boys... lol oh boy..she shouldn't break up with u though, i mean being angry sure, but doesn't look like she was that into u
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