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| Mister_s wrote: | | Cheating is probably the worse thing you can do to someone you love. You're basically saying "you're not enough, I need more". If you get such a feeling that often, you should end the relationship and move on. |
Well i gotta say something here. You all have oppinions, and these oppinions come from the things youve learned and mostly from the oppinion others (society). Very few people ever reflect their oppinions, because they just unconciously overtake them from others and think they must be right.
But our society isnt perfect in many ways, for example priests that are not allowed to have woman. And i also believe that its not mans nature to surpress his feelings and fuck his whole life only one woman.
Oppinions are welcome, everyone interprets the world in a different way, but dont expect that your truth is the truth of everyone.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 09:23 Post subject: |
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I would never even think about cheating on my Kasia. wtf is wrong with some people. masturbate Your stupid dicks if You feel too much need
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:11 Post subject: |
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Opinions yada yada. Here are some facts:
You are ready to break your girlfriends heart for your own enjoyment over and over. She is apparently to weak to leave you and you make use of her trust and just fuck with it.
You don't care for her feelings and you don't really care if you hurt her, as long as your dick is happy. Saying that she is ok with it is nothing but a VERY VERY cheap abuse like "She forgave me after I hit her. She knows I love her. It's ok, the swollen eye is almost back to normal." Of course physical damage is much worse than psychological, right? 
I guess that is the very definition of an egoistic asshole, but I'll leave that up to you, if that is just an opinion, or the direct image that evolves when reading what you do.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:17 Post subject: |
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In name of all the people that get cheated upon: Fuck you! you are hurting someone you need to stop that shit. It is time you start thinking of what you are doing to others in stead of your egoistical reasoning you might employ to feel better about your self. It is unfortunate you have low emphatic feelings as you seem incapable of imagining what hurt others are feeling. This is about being a decent human being and clearly you are not.
Per Ardua Ad Astra
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:19 Post subject: |
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well, to be fair, he atleast tells her the truth and doesnt hide it.
if she chooses to stay with him and forget it, thats her problem.
he s still a scumbag though.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 19:56 Post subject: |
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Betrayal is worse, IMO, than cheating. If he tells her the truth, it's not betrayal. Under certain circumstances, I could forgive cheating, but not betrayal.
About monogamy, well, I've been questioning it. When I was younger, on my first relationship, I was sure I'd never want or need another woman. Had other girlfriends after her and now I'm not sure anymore. After a couple of years with someone, it seems impossible not to have any interest in any other girl. The things some people do to get over it without cheating don't seem to be enough, either. I didn't cheat, and I'm not planning to, but monogamy seems wrong.
Now cheating in games... that too is wrong, IMO. And I'm sure about it.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 20:09 Post subject: |
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So you can "betray" someone, as long as you turn it into "cheating" by being honest about it? Makes no sense to me.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 20:16 Post subject: |
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Well if you cheat and hide it, it's betrayal. I don't see the betrayal if you're not lying.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 20:19 Post subject: |
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Because it's a betrayal of trust and promise? It's not "cheating" if you have an open relationship, so therefore there's no betrayal, but the majority relationships aren't "open" -- therefore any indiscretion is most certainly betrayal. I'm fairly certain Phil would be whining bitterly if his missus starting shagging other guys...
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 21:28 Post subject: |
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Well I know how it can be seen as betrayal, it's just not the way I feel about it. The sex is not the main issue, in my opinion, it's the lies that hurt the most.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 22:01 Post subject: |
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This is why "a date with rosy palms" is the best 
1 and 2 are still amazing.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 23:47 Post subject: Re: Sex |
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| Ankh wrote: |
Tbh You should change your nick to DrPhil2003 and not just Phil2003. |
DrSonofJasonPhil2003?
Mmh i thought betrayal is if you have more then one time sex with another girl.
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| Posted: Fri, 27th Jul 2012 23:50 Post subject: |
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Idk doctor but cheating is cheating.
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| Posted: Sat, 28th Jul 2012 00:19 Post subject: |
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| Mister_s wrote: | | Cheating is probably the worse thing you can do to someone you love. You're basically saying "you're not enough, I need more". If you get such a feeling that often, you should end the relationship and move on. |
That's how girls think yes, not necessarily true. A new girl with a new smell and hormones take over, it's imprinted in men to 'spread the seeds' on as many flowers as they can, doesn't mean they don't love the person which they are in a relationship with.
Like the wife of the basketball player Kirilenko let's him sleep with another woman once a year  because she says it's impossible to resist the temptations as in Russia women are all over (rich) athletes. |
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| Posted: Sat, 28th Jul 2012 02:41 Post subject: |
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| madmax17 wrote: | | Mister_s wrote: | | Cheating is probably the worse thing you can do to someone you love. You're basically saying "you're not enough, I need more". If you get such a feeling that often, you should end the relationship and move on. |
That's how girls think yes, not necessarily true. A new girl with a new smell and hormones take over, it's imprinted in men to 'spread the seeds' on as many flowers as they can, doesn't mean they don't love the person which they are in a relationship with. |
Thankfully, most humans are evolved past those primal instincts.
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| Posted: Sat, 28th Jul 2012 03:30 Post subject: |
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...SJU...ÅTTA...NIO...TIO...
Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn!
"The sky was the color of a TV tuned to a dead station" - Neuromancer
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| Posted: Sat, 28th Jul 2012 09:33 Post subject: |
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| Mister_s wrote: | | madmax17 wrote: | | Mister_s wrote: | | Cheating is probably the worse thing you can do to someone you love. You're basically saying "you're not enough, I need more". If you get such a feeling that often, you should end the relationship and move on. |
That's how girls think yes, not necessarily true. A new girl with a new smell and hormones take over, it's imprinted in men to 'spread the seeds' on as many flowers as they can, doesn't mean they don't love the person which they are in a relationship with. |
Thankfully, most humans are evolved past those primal instincts. |
Not really, we're still animals by all accounts. |
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| Posted: Sat, 28th Jul 2012 13:54 Post subject: |
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Aye, but that's all I was saying... we may have certain instincts, but what differentiates us from animals is that we can actually control them and aren't controlled by them. We don't have to act on our atavistic tendencies, we've evolved past that.. and the excuse "I couldn't help myself" it's just bupkiss. Everyone has a choice in their actions unless they're fundamentally broken -- sure, the urge to fuck everything on two legs might be strong in some people, but the choice to ACT on that urge is still there. A dog doesn't have that choice, it wants to hump what it wants to hump and it will do it until prevented whereas some people have little to no self-control but that's just that; some people, which is why I said "please don't speak for everybody"
Admittedly this is a very simplistic post but I think you understand my meaning at least.
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| Posted: Sun, 29th Jul 2012 10:23 Post subject: |
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I bet if this group came to your room one night and all of them wanting to be satisfied,
http://www.youtube.com/embed/EOzxvVjJOOw
any man would have a very very very hard time saying no:)
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| Posted: Sun, 29th Jul 2012 11:06 Post subject: |
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I would say no.
I love my Kasia and why would I fuck some random girls
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
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| Posted: Sun, 29th Jul 2012 11:28 Post subject: |
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| KillerCrocker wrote: | I would say no.
I love my Kasia and why would I fuck some random girls |
Apparently we men are animals wanting to spread our seed and thus we want to fuck anything with tits, vagina and ass.
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| Posted: Sun, 29th Jul 2012 12:39 Post subject: |
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| Mister_s wrote: | | KillerCrocker wrote: | I would say no.
I love my Kasia and why would I fuck some random girls |
Apparently we men are animals wanting to spread our seed and thus we want to fuck anything with tits, vagina and ass. |
+1 I'd say no. My brain is in my skull, not my pants.
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