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 Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 06:12 Post subject: Breaking up |
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Wow ive never broken up with someone that came back after some days to talk willing to change. We broke up some week or so she called me today to talk
ITS FUCKING HARD, i mean she may want to change, accept etc, but im just UGHHHH getting mad at everything she says when in doubt or when shes sensitive, i would just make her feel worst. and i had to talk to her over 1 hour on the phone, she was crying being condescending to me and understanding, she almost convinced me, until i thought about how it will go back to the same thing....
in the end i told her to let time pass, lets see, well see, learn from this, grow from it, maybe u will apreciate me later and we can go back better than ever. BIIIG mistake, now im really confused.
why? im also being a sleazeball since an ex of mine has found me on my phone after i broke up with my gf and we are chating but no love shit or drama, just catching up, neither she is into me, i think im tolerating talking to her since she has a psyco ex that i know because he was the BF of another one of my ex of mine and i had to meet him since he was pestering me, i almost killed this fucking cunt but he was a wuzz. and hes gone completely psyco on herand its hilarious, LOL karma is a bitch.
but i really feel guilty and i dont know how to hide this if my new ex ever came back. i guess ill have to keep this skeleton in my closet, i dont want to destroy that person internally, that would make me feel it all my life.
talk about a double faced cunt... ugh, lesson for life at least im not planing or doing any shit.
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fisk
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 06:26 Post subject: |
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Wait. So she said things that were hurtful to you and you left her?
Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 06:35 Post subject: |
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No it was a grave situation of trust, she didnt trust anything i said or did and it affected her image of me, in the end i wasnt doing anything bad and i was explaining everything to make her feel safe etc, but i went too far to even prohibiting me from my friends or pressuring me into chatting in work hours. etc it was a mess, i decided that it was too much, i couldnt do anything else for her and i decided to break up before we end up enemies
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 07:33 Post subject: |
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Someone was pussywhipped.
Congratz
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garus
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 11:04 Post subject: |
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tonizito
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 12:41 Post subject: |
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People don't change. 
Especially people that say "but... but... I'll change!" 
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 14:33 Post subject: |
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Dont worry im not thinking about going back, i know how it is because i had done the whole "Continue?" thing over and over and i was out of coins.
Im just shocked about how fucking hard this is, ive always been dumped or cheated on but this time it required a mature decision and wow its hard because of what comes after that.
Fuck but i made it, she was calm in the end, sort of! Now i just gotta pray that i didnt create a stalking monster HEH!
Now about my ex thats talking to me.... shes still a bitch so theres no danger there, just hope it doesnt become a gossip... fuck it, time to focus on Red Dead Redemption and Dark Souls. at long last... the time has come.
This whatsapp thing is gonna kill her, since she can see im always online, wow shes really hurt, i pity her but its necessary.
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ixigia
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 15:26 Post subject: |
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She won't give up so easily 
She may begin expressing her anger and frustration by using verbal abuse, vandalization and even use threats like hurting you if you do not do what she wants. She'll become a creepy stalker hoping that by maintaining contact she can convince her former partner to take her back.
*RUN!!!*
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 18:36 Post subject: |
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Invasor
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 20:27 Post subject: |
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It's time to meet new bitchez man! Or maybe even someone who isnt a bitch!
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ixigia
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 20:44 Post subject: |
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| Invasor wrote: | | It's time to meet new bitchez man! Or maybe even someone who isnt a bitch! |
This
but remember:
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tonizito
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 20:46 Post subject: |
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Dammit ixi
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Sat, 7th Jul 2012 22:34 Post subject: |
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| Lopin18 wrote: | That may apply in your country....
but i live in the caribbean, its hot here, we all horny, so we all fucking then  |
Hahah arggh you won! Now I'm jelly |
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| Posted: Sun, 8th Jul 2012 00:46 Post subject: |
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Yeah i wasnt too good to her, i made that one suffer a lot thats why i kind of let the dumping and running to someone else go slowly with time because in a way i would have done the same, and i almost wanted to do the same now.. still a cheating bitch but hey, im almost inmoral here for what i wished for a second here.... and that made me feel really bad about myself, but i know better and i decided what i should have decided. but i did go to her and it feels wrong for pride, but i did want to hear what i was at that time and hear from her what she thought, i already knew it but i guess i needed it, i know im a better person today and i liked seeing karma on the works. i didnt like how she is now so even as a dreamer i cant accept her today.
Now i just got off the phone with my current ex, shes really hurt, holy, she really wants to talk, i have gone through that and im being soft, ill talk to her on tuesday but i still want to stay apart, thing is i dont know yet if i wanna cleanly break it off forever, or ill be convinced by her.
Oh boy, i guess this will be a life lesson for me.
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 06:30 Post subject: |
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Today i went to my Ex to finish talking, everything smooth, all clear, she feels im not it, i feel shes not it. Good, lets see what happens forward, i only told her to learn, etc that i think shes great etc... all good, maybe someday we go back.
But then it struck me...."Hey, do you have any guys that are bothering u... a lil too much?"
Well... guess fucking what, remember i said that stalking ex of my Ex-Ex was stalking my Ex-Ex-Ex? and that the fucking cunt had an Facebook account that he used to stalk me too?
THE FUCKIGN CUNT, he was flirting my ex, since March, she ignored and talked back roughly to him and he just got more intense, a LOT, then she blocked him. I read the messages and the fucking guy is nuts, serious fucking issues here.
Just what i needed, a nutjob stalking all my exes and women. And yes, my Ex-Ex-Ex is a real bitch, its back to the hunting grounds.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 06:55 Post subject: |
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Mmm... call the police?
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 14:02 Post subject: |
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Yeah im trying to reach my Ex-Ex to see if she ever opened a warrant or case against him, my Ex-Ex-Ex was gonna do it so im waiting for her to tell me too. I dont like this guy this is getting out of hand.
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 15:51 Post subject: |
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You should sell you story to a TV company its beats any soap opera!
But seriously why do you carry on having contact with these girls? It seems best to steer clear and move on completely. If this were my son that would be my advice to him.
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 15:58 Post subject: |
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Actually it's fight club all over. Lopin is chasing his second personality, that is just like him and dates his ex's. For the girls, he just comes back together with them. His jealous secondary ego though, sees that as another person imitating him.
True story.
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 17:31 Post subject: |
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| Reg67 wrote: | You should sell you story to a TV company its beats any soap opera!
But seriously why do you carry on having contact with these girls? It seems best to steer clear and move on completely. If this were my son that would be my advice to him. |
Yeah i know, but im the kind of person who likes to talk and get into the bottom of stuff to see whats up and what works.
My current ex is good, but she has to learn how to avoid jealousy and doubt and control them, since shes imagining shit up. At least she accepts her problem and is more composed. But its months away from me going back to her.
On the other hand my Ex-Ex-Ex, i always had a thing for her, i was capable of forgiving what she did because i know i pushed her hard and its been 6 years, but now she's changed, shes insensitive, selfish, moody and it just took 1 day to decide that wasnt what i wanted, but i did wanted to help her, i wanted to believe that maybe its her mood right now, but no, thats all her, it isnt good for me.
So thats cleared up, im single and i dont have anyone i wanna be with right now. But i do wanna fuck this guy up for being a danger to women.
PumpAction: LOL that was good and it actually seems truth xD
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jul 2012 17:43 Post subject: |
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Yeah i will, if she would have been good i would have stayed, but it isnt pretty. I do want to have the guys info and open cases on hand in case he goes after my current ex, because i do think shes good, but the trust thing is too damaged right now but you never know, at least it didnt end badly and i can go around meeting people now and having fun again.
Oh, and i wont get into HER mess, i think she actually won herself that because of how she is today. I tried to help her and i did my sharing, if i have to help and protect someone, it would be my current ex, she doesnt deserve this cunt harrasing her but my past exes? well i dont know maybe they did choose that nutjob once, now they are paying a high price.
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