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SycoShaman
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Well dude, lemme say one thing....women are fucked up
I WAS married for a good 5 years - recently, about 3 months go, I went to bed with my wife, like any other day - talked the normal shit, I love you - were gunna be together forever etc
The next day, i was having a beer with my buddy on his bday and I get a call on my cell from my ex saying she moved out but that she still loves me and wants to be with me when she works her shit out....shit she created in her fucked up little head. Then we got back together, and 3 days later she did the same shit.
I would have prefered that she told me she was cheating on me or didnt love me or something like that - then I could rationalize it....but nope, the bitch wasnt cheating she's just FUBAR
And I havent heard from her since....i was with her for 7 years total - 2 dating 5 married
So dont worry dude, ur really young and women will fuck with ur head all ur life
drop her and find a next one that wont play games......then again, it seems they all like to play head games but hey, that old saying is true
U cant live with em and u cant live without em
The price of love/feelings my friend - heartbreak
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jul 2005 18:57 Post subject: |
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wow SycoShaman that is fucked up... You are defo right about woman fucking with ur head.
Thanks for the advice ppl
i will prob use something along the lines of...
| Quote: | | "my friend mentioned you have a boyfriend, I didn't realise & the last thing I would want to do is get in between you and him if you love each other. Just remember I'll always be here for you if you need me. Hope you know that I like you <name>, and have done for some time." |
and if i said "I'd tap dat azz!" to her she would either say "what?" or slap me
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 5th Jul 2005 19:53 Post subject: |
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| Twista wrote: | wow SycoShaman that is fucked up... You are defo right about woman fucking with ur head.
Thanks for the advice ppl
i will prob use something along the lines of...
| Quote: | | "my friend mentioned you have a boyfriend, I didn't realise & the last thing I would want to do is get in between you and him if you love each other. Just remember I'll always be here for you if you need me. Hope you know that I like you <name>, and have done for some time." |
and if i said "I'd tap dat azz!" to her she would either say "what?" or slap me |
that may work dude but honestly, from personal experience...the nice guy act doesnt usually go over to well...she'll think ur sweet and all and a nice guy...but thats when things go wrong, when ur too nice of a guy, it somehow conveys lack of dominance (i dunno how or why) and from what Ive learned...all women, well, 99 percent, want a man to take control.
U said ur 16 so I assume this girl is around the same age? She doesnt have a clue what love is...remember, girls ALWAYS "love" the guy who pops their cherry first...that may be the case
Fuck, im in my late 20's and I have yet to get a grasp on this whole love thing dude
Honestly, just go for her
If she shoots u down, find a next one
If not, then u'll have ur girl
Who gives a flying fuck about her boyfriend - unless he's a boy of yours then dont do it - Bro's before Hoes dude
I basically cut off my boys when I got married - suffice to say I had alot of apologizing to do when shit went down 3 months go
Honestly tho, it may be difficult to understand cuz of ur age (thats not a shot at u man, its a fact) but the worst that can happen is nothing right? U might feel shitty for a while, but it goes away and u'll find a next chick - I promise
U might as well go for her and see what happens
All's fair in love and war right? 
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 02:57 Post subject: |
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Trust me Sycoman the sentence "Just remember I'll always be here for you if you need me. Hope you know that I like you <name>, and have done for some time." shows confidence and emotional maturity (which girls like) if said in the right way (confident way).
I think what Sycoman is trying to say is that girls don't like emotional push-overs. When in a relationship, be nice, but throw in a few boundaries now and again to show that u dont take shit (& will therefore be a good breadwinner).
Good luck, tell us how u get on. Oh, & remember, there's gonna be a hell of a lot more 'fit' girls to come.
btw Sycoman... thats really shitty mate. Especially after 7 yrs. Don't wanna bring up old wounds but are u sure she ain't left ya for another bloke? Disappearing acts usually involve this.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 06:16 Post subject: |
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| CobbMk2 wrote: | Trust me Sycoman the sentence "Just remember I'll always be here for you if you need me. Hope you know that I like you <name>, and have done for some time." shows confidence and emotional maturity (which girls like) if said in the right way (confident way).
I think what Sycoman is trying to say is that girls don't like emotional push-overs. When in a relationship, be nice, but throw in a few boundaries now and again to show that u dont take shit (& will therefore be a good breadwinner).
Good luck, tell us how u get on. Oh, & remember, there's gonna be a hell of a lot more 'fit' girls to come.
btw Sycoman... thats really shitty mate. Especially after 7 yrs. Don't wanna bring up old wounds but are u sure she ain't left ya for another bloke? Disappearing acts usually involve this. |
No for real, trust me she didnt
in my opinion she's manic depressive and or bi-polar
i freaked cuz i always told her, break up with me if u feel the need to cheat and same went for me...cuz obviously there is lack of trust and problems in the relationship
and trust me, she wasnt the prettiest girl ya know? lol
See, i went from being shallow to actually having some depth once i matured, and she wasnt close to any of my previous gf's but there was something about her....turns out that something was mental illness 
Like most women....
Wanna know the funny part? I dated hot girls who pulled shit like that, head games and the like and i got fed up...found me an ugly but fun girl, and she did the samething....
lol
If u cant laugh at urself, who can u laugh at right? |
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 06:27 Post subject: |
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If you're having girl problems I feel bad for ya son, I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
Well, thats a lie, but who cares.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 06:41 Post subject: |
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lol I was waiting for that
women are half the battle in life, other is money lol
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Griffon
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 06:45 Post subject: |
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You're in the wrong forum to ask for girl help Twista...
About Hitman: Movie (2007)
Vin Diesel is a hardcore gamer, and absolutely loves the Hitman series. For that reason I have faith that he wont destroy the movie.
Response: Well, Uwe Boll probably loved the Alone in the Dark games.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 06:47 Post subject: |
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| Griffon wrote: | | You're in the wrong forum to ask for girl help Twista... |
seems so....  |
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Griffon
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 08:03 Post subject: |
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"the one" as in Jet Li or Neo ?
About Hitman: Movie (2007)
Vin Diesel is a hardcore gamer, and absolutely loves the Hitman series. For that reason I have faith that he wont destroy the movie.
Response: Well, Uwe Boll probably loved the Alone in the Dark games.
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 09:31 Post subject: |
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ppffftttt please, i'm 21 nd feel liek i'v found the one
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 09:46 Post subject: |
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| MAD_MAX333 wrote: | | ppffftttt please, i'm 21 nd feel liek i'v found the one |
careful dude
when u finally give ur heart to em, they'll more inclined to break it than to embrace it
Nothing is finite |
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 10:20 Post subject: |
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ahh lord... people stop being so negative.. if we are obth totally in love after almost 2 years... and i can't see anything wrong in the future and our future plans match PERFECTLY... then i don't see a reason to fear... if we break up , then we break up, i'll be depressed for a long time but i'll live... i'm just saying being young doesn't mean u wont find love or anything... sure teenage love andi mean LOVE is pretty much crap.. but its not totally unheard of.
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 10:51 Post subject: |
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| MAD_MAX333 wrote: | | ahh lord... people stop being so negative.. if we are obth totally in love after almost 2 years... and i can't see anything wrong in the future and our future plans match PERFECTLY... then i don't see a reason to fear... if we break up , then we break up, i'll be depressed for a long time but i'll live... i'm just saying being young doesn't mean u wont find love or anything... sure teenage love andi mean LOVE is pretty much crap.. but its not totally unheard of. |
*agrees*
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 11:04 Post subject: |
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It just has to be LOVE, I’ve been infatuated before. but I knew it wasn't love... you know its love when u get into it... I’ve had only on other long term relationship ( more than 5 months I mean) and I knew I didn't love her...
I think in today's society, finding "love" and a true "marriage" is damn near impossible. i got lucky, but with the media and the state of family like it is, its hard to have happy families and faithful partners, which is very sucky.
just because u have had bad experiences here and there shouldn't stop you from trying to find a special someone... maybe not for marriage or kids or something, but just like being single can be great, so can having someone out there who loves you and cares for you and is there to pick u up when u fall of ur horse....
its all about what kind of a person you are in life and how you approach relationships... I’m the romantic caring type, I got stepped over in my past relationship, BADLY... i was the perfect gentleman and I got raped, but it didn't deter me from trying again...
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 6th Jul 2005 23:21 Post subject: |
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| MAD_MAX333 wrote: | It just has to be LOVE, I’ve been infatuated before. but I knew it wasn't love... you know its love when u get into it... I’ve had only on other long term relationship ( more than 5 months I mean) and I knew I didn't love her...
I think in today's society, finding "love" and a true "marriage" is damn near impossible. i got lucky, but with the media and the state of family like it is, its hard to have happy families and faithful partners, which is very sucky.
just because u have had bad experiences here and there shouldn't stop you from trying to find a special someone... maybe not for marriage or kids or something, but just like being single can be great, so can having someone out there who loves you and cares for you and is there to pick u up when u fall of ur horse....
its all about what kind of a person you are in life and how you approach relationships... I’m the romantic caring type, I got stepped over in my past relationship, BADLY... i was the perfect gentleman and I got raped, but it didn't deter me from trying again... |
Well, I thought/think it was love...it was love...well, lol, atleast on my part
Wanna hear the funny thing that happened yesterday? Still, give me ur opinion Max
I've been gettin phone calls for like 2 weeks now from a long distance number (my ex lives with her mom who is long distance from my house). A couple of times I have heard what sounded like her sister in the backround, but no one ever says anything, just like someone is listening. Anyway, I disregard shit like that.
Anyway, i finally checked my email, like 1st time in a month, and there were a couple of emails from her. I'm thinking she wants to get back together....but here's my dilema
Recently, I've hooked up again, with my first "love". U know that girl in primary school that u loved so much cuz she was smokin hot and fun to be around but never got a chance to get with her? Well, yeah, recently ive started talking to her, we fooled around once still. But, do to certain things, I dunno how she feels right. She may be into me or may not be.
So, should i take back - if thats the eventuallity - my exwfie, a girl whom i don't think I could ever fully trust or respect or possibly go for the girl who I might end up marrying one day (if I get the chance i would in a second - she's fuckin smokin and i love being with her ) but not knowing if it will work out in the end.
What does anyone reading this think? Based on information from pervious posts and from these one.
Please, no stupid replies as I am seriously asking for a lickle bit of help...my friends are divided 50/50 on this so I thought I'd take my dilema somewhere else right.
And to top it off, my father is having heart surgery today....fuck man, when it rains it poors ya know? Wanna carry my bag of bricks for a while? lol
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2005 00:03 Post subject: |
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i think it should be pretty easy... your exwife ( or was it gf) had her chance.. and you guys are not together anymore... so something went wrong there... doesn't matter who did what or for what... obviously SOMETHING went wrong... then ew girl hasn't had a shot yet, so i would go with the new girl which u like alot... see how things turn out...
if the new girldoesn't work out, seems like ur exwife is waiting around anyway so you might even have a shot of getting back with her if the new girl doesn't work out.... i'm all for giving new and old loves a shot, however you have to assess the situation and in this point i would go with the new girl.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2005 01:10 Post subject: |
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| MAD_MAX333 wrote: | i think it should be pretty easy... your exwife ( or was it gf) had her chance.. and you guys are not together anymore... so something went wrong there... doesn't matter who did what or for what... obviously SOMETHING went wrong... then ew girl hasn't had a shot yet, so i would go with the new girl which u like alot... see how things turn out...
if the new girldoesn't work out, seems like ur exwife is waiting around anyway so you might even have a shot of getting back with her if the new girl doesn't work out.... i'm all for giving new and old loves a shot, however you have to assess the situation and in this point i would go with the new girl. |
Yeah, thats what I've been thinking and thats what i assumed u'd say
I dunno, its like I know what to do, but I can't do it. All im still attached to his the companion ship really, we lived together for 6 years - u know, comin home to my wife and sleeping with her and all that stuff. I miss that the most, but at the same time, I don't really want my ex back, cuz I can do better on every level but I guess it's just so familiar ya know? even now, its hard to let go...easier and doesnt piss me off to much anymore, but still
thanks for answering still bud |
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2005 23:19 Post subject: |
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Hmm in my oppinion, which prob dont count anyway go with the new girl she is hotttttttttt.
Your ex is wack (in a bad way), she left you for no reason. She may do that again...
btw me and the girl are just freinds now, i couldnt TAKE her shit.
Thx for all your help sorry i couldnt repay you by helping you out.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2005 23:49 Post subject: |
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lol its all good and yeah man, ex is fucked up
but so is the next one right? lol
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| Posted: Fri, 8th Jul 2005 01:08 Post subject: |
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OMG no wonder she dosent want me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Her BF is a good lookin guy and is like 18.
Fuck man
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| Posted: Fri, 8th Jul 2005 01:27 Post subject: |
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I'll tell you what I tell to my buddies all the time.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. You just need the right bait :D
What are you fishing with by the way?
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 8th Jul 2005 19:05 Post subject: |
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The bait i got is long...i mean good
Man, whoever said I am venegeful is right
ex wife wants to get back together and shit right? like i said above
Well, saw her this afternoon and trust me....In the eye and out the door ya know? My turn for fun and games
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