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ClaudeFTW
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 Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 12:27 Post subject: How exactly, |
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in the name of fuck does someone not talk to you because you are too kind?
What THE SHIT.
If I'm a douche, I'm a douche, if I act properly, I'm too kind?
What is wrong with THE FUCKING WOMEN?!
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 12:29 Post subject: |
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I guess some women just look for guys who act like douche bags.
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 12:48 Post subject: |
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Ah, a woman's mind. If a man acts like a dick, he's a dick. If a man acts kind/loving, he probably has a hidden agenda, so he's a dick. If a woman does that, she doesn't trust you. Either you're truly a conniving dick, or she isn't worth the ffort.
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 13:03 Post subject: |
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spankie
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 14:06 Post subject: Re: How exactly, |
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| Radicalus wrote: | | ClaudeFTW wrote: | in the name of fuck does someone not talk to you because you are too kind?
What THE SHIT.
If I'm a douche, I'm a douche, if I act properly, I'm too kind?
What is wrong with THE FUCKING WOMEN?! |
Got stuck in the friend zone? 
Anyway, people so immature, like you're talking about are not deserving of your attention. |
Story goes like this.
I meet this great chick, right? We go out, I'm buying her drinks, we're kissing, everything goes well for a couple of days. We decide to go out again. We begin talking and she keeps telling me I'm a great guy and I'm the kindest person she knows and that she's grateful she met me.
But then she drops the friendzone bomb. Took it as well as I could.
And now she barely talks to me.
And that's what pisses me off the most, if she keeps telling me I'm a great guy, she should at least have the decency of telling me in my face if I she doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
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spankie
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 17:25 Post subject: |
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| spankie wrote: | well, at least you kissed her.
Anywayz, Romania huh, nice chicks. PICS pls  |
Yeah, nice chicks with a seriously messed up wardrobe - unless in a better city like Cluj or Timisoara(where I live, baby). Damn it, every spring, when the skirt season starts, just walking down the street is a pleasure, man!
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 17:31 Post subject: Re: How exactly, |
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| ClaudeFTW wrote: | | Radicalus wrote: | | ClaudeFTW wrote: | in the name of fuck does someone not talk to you because you are too kind?
What THE SHIT.
If I'm a douche, I'm a douche, if I act properly, I'm too kind?
What is wrong with THE FUCKING WOMEN?! |
Got stuck in the friend zone?
Anyway, people so immature, like you're talking about are not deserving of your attention. |
Story goes like this.
I meet this great chick, right? We go out, I'm buying her drinks, we're kissing, everything goes well for a couple of days. We decide to go out again. We begin talking and she keeps telling me I'm a great guy and I'm the kindest person she knows and that she's grateful she met me.
But then she drops the friendzone bomb. Took it as well as I could.
And now she barely talks to me.
And that's what pisses me off the most, if she keeps telling me I'm a great guy, she should at least have the decency of telling me in my face if I she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. |
Look, I'll just say it as I see it, because sometimes it's just better to be harsh:
She gave you a chance, but finds you uninteresting now, but doesn't want to hurt you, that's the reason she communicates the way she does. Why she lost interest might be because of many reasons - another man, need for thrills, you're not bad boy enough .. etc. But fact is, she lost interest, and forcing it now wouldn't hook you up with her emotionally, even if you would get the chance to sleep with her.
Trying to understand it is a tricky thing, because obviously you try and find fault in your behaviour and fix it, but that imho is the wrong thing to do - this is not your fault, she's simply not in to what you represent. First off, you shouldn't contemplate so much about things you can no longer change, second of all, if you're looking for a relationship and not just dicking around, then long term, it's simply best to be who you really are and accept the chance of failure, than to be a gamer, who chicks will want to fuck, but will never get to know.
Best thing to do is go back on the hunt again, find another girl, god knows, there are many great looking ones in Romania, you just have to find one that is mature as well.
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ixigia
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 18:33 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 18:52 Post subject: |
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Actually, that's just the first tome...
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 18:53 Post subject: Re: How exactly, |
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| Radicalus wrote: | | ClaudeFTW wrote: | | Radicalus wrote: |
Got stuck in the friend zone?
Anyway, people so immature, like you're talking about are not deserving of your attention. |
Story goes like this.
I meet this great chick, right? We go out, I'm buying her drinks, we're kissing, everything goes well for a couple of days. We decide to go out again. We begin talking and she keeps telling me I'm a great guy and I'm the kindest person she knows and that she's grateful she met me.
But then she drops the friendzone bomb. Took it as well as I could.
And now she barely talks to me.
And that's what pisses me off the most, if she keeps telling me I'm a great guy, she should at least have the decency of telling me in my face if I she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. |
Look, I'll just say it as I see it, because sometimes it's just better to be harsh:
She gave you a chance, but finds you uninteresting now, but doesn't want to hurt you, that's the reason she communicates the way she does. Why she lost interest might be because of many reasons - another man, need for thrills, you're not bad boy enough .. etc. But fact is, she lost interest, and forcing it now wouldn't hook you up with her emotionally, even if you would get the chance to sleep with her.
Trying to understand it is a tricky thing, because obviously you try and find fault in your behaviour and fix it, but that imho is the wrong thing to do - this is not your fault, she's simply not in to what you represent. First off, you shouldn't contemplate so much about things you can no longer change, second of all, if you're looking for a relationship and not just dicking around, then long term, it's simply best to be who you really are and accept the chance of failure, than to be a gamer, who chicks will want to fuck, but will never get to know.
Best thing to do is go back on the hunt again, find another girl, god knows, there are many great looking ones in Romania, you just have to find one that is mature as well. |
Thanks, you've actually been helpful.
I have been contemplating the same thing for the better part of my afternoon and I came to pretty much the same conclusion.
The fact that she was genuinely interested in the first place is what gives me hope she's not just another pitzi, and the part where she's not afraid to talk about this stuff is what further solidifies my opinion over her in this regard.
Maybe I'm just too nice and I can't quite figure it out yet.
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 18:54 Post subject: |
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I don't think you can ever understand them enough. They simply make too many choices on an emotional basis. I mean, I have never seen a man make a conscious choice of fucking themselves, just so they can act in spite of someone, but I have seen many women do that already.
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spankie
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 19:20 Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | If I'm a douche, I'm a douche, if I act properly, I'm too kind? |
| iconized wrote: | | I guess some women just look for guys who act like douche bags. |
good luck with that black and white way of thinking. no normal woman (except if she has srs issues) is into douchebags and being too kind is in most cases a ticket straight into the friend zone. mix it up ffs, try being nice while at the same time trolling her a bit, one step forward, 2 steps back, like you would play with a kitten and a ball of wool - never let the damn kitten get a hold of the ball until sexy time.
and wtf is it with buying girls drinks? i've never done that in my entire life and i'm neither a pauper nor a player by any means. actually, in the emanzipated female society of today, if a girl gives you shit cause you don't buy her a drink is a wonderful gtfo criterion, especially when looking for something serious and not just a striaght one time fuck.
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| Posted: Wed, 26th Oct 2011 21:29 Post subject: Re: How exactly, |
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| ClaudeFTW wrote: | | Radicalus wrote: | | ClaudeFTW wrote: |
Story goes like this.
I meet this great chick, right? We go out, I'm buying her drinks, we're kissing, everything goes well for a couple of days. We decide to go out again. We begin talking and she keeps telling me I'm a great guy and I'm the kindest person she knows and that she's grateful she met me.
But then she drops the friendzone bomb. Took it as well as I could.
And now she barely talks to me.
And that's what pisses me off the most, if she keeps telling me I'm a great guy, she should at least have the decency of telling me in my face if I she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. |
Look, I'll just say it as I see it, because sometimes it's just better to be harsh:
She gave you a chance, but finds you uninteresting now, but doesn't want to hurt you, that's the reason she communicates the way she does. Why she lost interest might be because of many reasons - another man, need for thrills, you're not bad boy enough .. etc. But fact is, she lost interest, and forcing it now wouldn't hook you up with her emotionally, even if you would get the chance to sleep with her.
Trying to understand it is a tricky thing, because obviously you try and find fault in your behaviour and fix it, but that imho is the wrong thing to do - this is not your fault, she's simply not in to what you represent. First off, you shouldn't contemplate so much about things you can no longer change, second of all, if you're looking for a relationship and not just dicking around, then long term, it's simply best to be who you really are and accept the chance of failure, than to be a gamer, who chicks will want to fuck, but will never get to know.
Best thing to do is go back on the hunt again, find another girl, god knows, there are many great looking ones in Romania, you just have to find one that is mature as well. |
Thanks, you've actually been helpful.
I have been contemplating the same thing for the better part of my afternoon and I came to pretty much the same conclusion.
The fact that she was genuinely interested in the first place is what gives me hope she's not just another pitzi, and the part where she's not afraid to talk about this stuff is what further solidifies my opinion over her in this regard.
Maybe I'm just too nice and I can't quite figure it out yet. |
Sounds like she's in love with some jerk and wants a way out, so she gave you a chance but it didn't work (yet?) so she's going for the next idiot available until it works.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 02:49 Post subject: |
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I can never be friendzoned, when some bitch tells me to stay as friends (which they care barely vocally express due to fear) I tell them to get the fuck out for good.
You can never be friends with someone you once loved, You'll always act weird around each other. Better to cut the shit, disappear and forget.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 03:12 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 04:15 Post subject: |
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fuck bitchs! i learned along time ago dont be nice to a woman as they are gold digging whores!
as soon as you be nice they will pounce as its a sign of weakness to them... be a nasty cunt smack that bitch up" good old prodigy style :face and they will love you for it!
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 08:02 Post subject: |
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I have to side with don't buy girls drinks. They can buy their own bloody drinks. Maybe 1 and if she offers to buy you one back maybe she has some class. Soo many drink hoes and tire biters in bars, clubs, the odds are stalked against you.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 08:51 Post subject: |
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| iconized wrote: | | I guess some women just look for guys who act like douche bags. |
This, needs to be engraved on a stone.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 15:03 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: | | You can never be friends with someone you once loved, You'll always act weird around each other. Better to cut the shit, disappear and forget. |
You forgot "and hide the body"  |
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Mon, 31st Oct 2011 20:29 Post subject: |
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So, I've been progressively ignoring her even more with each passing day, and seemingly, she's now taking any chance she can to walk home with me(she's living something like three stations down the street from where I live), or talk to me during breaks and today she went as far as trying to guilt me into feeling bad I didn't invite her at my usual Sunday evening beer with my friends.
I guess having a "look at all the fucks I give" attitude pays off.
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| Posted: Mon, 31st Oct 2011 21:57 Post subject: |
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You might be back in the game - if that's what you want, but there's no guarantee she won't find you uninteresting again, if she thinks she "has" you once more.
I'd try and play this from the cocky tease angle - if I decided I'd still like to pursue that skirt.
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| Posted: Tue, 1st Nov 2011 06:59 Post subject: |
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Here's a thought. Unattractive guys get stuck in the friend zone? Seems straight forward to me.
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