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 Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:22 Post subject: Sleeping with someone who is taken... |
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Alrite soo... I started talking to a old friend a couple of weeks ago for the first time in years (known her for more than 10 years)..
Anyways...... we have been flirting harddd.. and I pretty much have the option of taking it to the next step with her 2moro night if I want.....
Now.. problem is .. she has a boyfriend of 5 years (whos the father of her kid) ...
I have always been "OMG HOW COULD PEOPLE DO THAT, WHAT WANKERS" .. but at the moment Im not thinking about that... part of me wants to .. :/
Oh and if I had a partner.. no way in hell I would.. I have had the offer a few times while with my ex.. but said hell no.
Thoughts ??
Could you do it ?? Would you do it ?? Have you done it ??
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:24 Post subject: |
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Nope, wouldn't do it. I never have and never will .. I find indiscretion abhorrent.
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:24 Post subject: |
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I would do it. It's just plain sex after all.
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:26 Post subject: |
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No.
Bros before hoes... There are many chicks around, so no need to possibly ruin a kids' and some other guys' life just because of some stupid and probably confused bitch.
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:27 Post subject: |
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| sabin1981 wrote: | | Nope, wouldn't do it. I never have and never will .. I find indiscretion abhorrent. |
QFT.
| Cohen wrote: | I'm a troll! well done, you caught me lying my ass off on a forum. I post pictures so that it makes you angry and that you wish you could have my awesome material things   |
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:31 Post subject: |
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If you have really known her for that long maybe she expects more than just sex, maybe she is looking for something more long term. In which case if you are not ready to offer her that I wouldn't do it.
But if she's just looking to sleep around with just anyone, then it's really all her fault. She will do it with someone else sooner or later, and her relationship is already doomed.
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Frant
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:34 Post subject: |
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| KaiKo wrote: | | sabin1981 wrote: | | Nope, wouldn't do it. I never have and never will .. I find indiscretion abhorrent. |
QFT. |
RFT. (Reposting For Truth)
Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn!
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tonizito
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:38 Post subject: |
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| Frant wrote: | | KaiKo wrote: | | sabin1981 wrote: | | Nope, wouldn't do it. I never have and never will .. I find indiscretion abhorrent. |
QFT. |
RFT. (Reposting For Truth) |
SSFT. (Something Something For Truth)
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:39 Post subject: |
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actually i forgot, some girl cheated on her boyfriend with me, i had no idea tho until after the event...
| Cohen wrote: | | I'm a troll! well done, you caught me lying my ass off on a forum. I post pictures so that it makes you angry and that you wish you could have my awesome material things |
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:42 Post subject: |
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| oxyeL wrote: | No.
Bros before hoes... There are many chicks around, so no need to possibly ruin a kids' and some other guys' life just because of some stupid and probably confused bitch. |
What he said.
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ixigia
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:51 Post subject: |
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No, plus they have also a kid..so double no :S
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:55 Post subject: |
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Fuck the kid instead
| chiv wrote: | | don't quote me on that |
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:56 Post subject: |
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| cirithungol wrote: | | Fuck the kid instead |
Ever type anything and regret it later?
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TSR69
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:57 Post subject: |
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You know that a lot of women who are not happy with their current relationship will look for another guy before breaking up.
Formerly known as iconized
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 17:59 Post subject: |
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Honestly, you shouldn't even need to ask this. Getting your leg over isn't worth potentially ruining some kid's life, as well as fella's life too.
| iconized wrote: | | You know that a lot of women who are not happy with their current relationship will look for another guy before breaking up. |
Sean Ambrose: You know women, mate. Like monkeys, they are - won't let go of one branch until they've got hold of the next.
(this isn't my real opinion, obviously, just thought it was a funny quote in relation)
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fisk
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 18:02 Post subject: |
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Pros about fucking her:
Sex for the epic win.
Cons about fucking her:
Likely commitment
Likely a lot of blowback from friends
Likely she will regret it and feel really bad, and you can't be friends with her anymore
Likely your friend will hate you forever
Likely her kid loses a stable father (or a mother)
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So guess what? The answer is FUCK NO.
You need to convince her to talk to him about their relationship issues and either A) Dump him or B) Recommit to their relationship.
After she dumps him, then MAYBE you could have your go.
Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
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TSR69
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 18:04 Post subject: |
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Hmm sabin there is a difference between breaking up a nice relationship/family as an outsider or getting involved with a woman who is unhappy about her current relationship. Personally I would do neither. If I like/love the girl I couldn't stand her going back to the other.
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 18:06 Post subject: |
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No, there's no difference.. and if you're willing to destroy a relationship, and quite possibly the life of a child too, just to get your dick wet; then you're no better than she is. If she's unhappy with her relationship; let HER deal with it - it's none of your fucking concern. Be a friend and talk to her, don't bed her just because you're a dog in heat.
Talk to her, if you like her and she likes you, then it's up to her to end the relationship. I wouldn't get involved anyhow... like I said; I detest indiscretion.
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 18:16 Post subject: |
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You can do whatever you want, but you will need to face the consequences as well. No one else can decide for you whether it'd be worth it or not.
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ixigia
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TSR69
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| Posted: Fri, 20th May 2011 18:48 Post subject: |
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Post pictures of the woman.
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