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 Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:01 Post subject: Friends taking advantage of you |
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What the hell is up with friends that when you do them a favor, they try to take advantage of the situation.
Friend 1: He bought a RROD xbox 360 and I fixed it and modded it for him and he borrowed 10 games from me along with a wireless controller which had my rechargeable batteries and I repeatedly told him not to lose the damn batteries,... I get the controller back with some shit dead non-rechargeable batteries. And its not like its some random dude, I know him quite well. He literally fucking lost the batteries...
Friend 2: I told her I would help her study for a chem exam because shes taking her final on January 27th because she went to Europe & so she missed the class final exam which was right before Christmas. Now shes like trying to force me to come to school and help her study for that shit.
First I wanted to meet somewhere besides school because she lives like 10 minutes away from school while I live an hour away. But after arguing I finally agreed to meet at school. It costs me about $5 and 1 hour train ride just to get there not to mention I have very limited number of days of vacation left. Classes begin on the 28th
I said fine but we would have to get all of it done in 1 day which means she better start reviewing right now and ask me very specific questions and Im not gonna fucking summarize our entire semester for her. But shes like no and trying to force me to goto school 4 days in a row to help her so I told her no we would have to get it done in 1 day and This is exactly what she wrote to me just now:
"you do realize that pretty much the ENTIRE statement was complain complain cant no no.
its not a joke you can just shrug off here. I will fail the class if i don't pass the final. i need some SERIOUS help. And i need more than 1 day of help. ... See Morei need HELP. Seriouse multiple days of help."
Are people fucking retarded?? Like who the hell is gonna take out 4 days out of their vacation to pay and goto school to teach her chemistry. And its not like I know the stuff by heart, I had to study my ass off for my exams and she expects that if I tutor her that shel magically acquire all the information
Put yourself in my shoes and you would feel the same way
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:10 Post subject: |
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TL;DR but seeing its you i am not surprised.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:12 Post subject: |
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I can't see this topic getting past page 5. You will need to do better, TC.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:26 Post subject: |
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For friend one... just let him buy some new batteries...
The girl you can just fuck in the butt 
Empty again 
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:33 Post subject: |
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Don't ask for help, and never give any either.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:37 Post subject: |
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| inz wrote: | | Don't ask for help, and never give any either. |
Doesn't work that way and you know it
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 17:40 Post subject: |
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tell her to suck ya balls, and then not a problem 
and once shes finished, just fist her in the butt!!
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 18:30 Post subject: Re: Friends taking advantage of you |
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| timechange01 wrote: | | Are people fucking retarded?? Like who the hell is gonna take out 4 days out of their vacation to pay and goto school to teach her chemistry. And its not like I know the stuff by heart, I had to study my ass off for my exams and she expects that if I tutor her that shel magically acquire all the information |
tell her this and stfu. if she complains again, tell her she's gonna fail. if she hasn't got the discipline to study, she pays the price. god you are such a pussy.
EDIT: oh i forgot to say, that's all true unless you actually want to be her friend (not just bang her) and she actually geniunely needs help. then you buckle up and help out, cause you know, you're sposed to care how her life ends up.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 18:45 Post subject: |
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Lol hes buying me new rechargeable batteries but its not about the batteries man. What bothers me is the fact that people shit on you when youre doing them a favor
And i cant just tell the girl to stfu shes a friend.... but sometimes these people just have unreasonable exceptions from me which is pretty unfair
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 18:47 Post subject: Re: Friends taking advantage of you |
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| FriendlyBus wrote: | | timechange01 wrote: | | Are people fucking retarded?? Like who the hell is gonna take out 4 days out of their vacation to pay and goto school to teach her chemistry. And its not like I know the stuff by heart, I had to study my ass off for my exams and she expects that if I tutor her that shel magically acquire all the information |
tell her this and stfu. if she complains again, tell her she's gonna fail. if she hasn't got the discipline to study, she pays the price. god you are such a pussy.
EDIT: oh i forgot to say, that's all true unless you actually want to be her friend (not just bang her) and she actually geniunely needs help. then you buckle up and help out, cause you know, you're sposed to care how her life ends up. |
If you ruin your vacation for some "friend" who finds bigger priorities than the study and start demanding shit from you then you're and idiot.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 19:00 Post subject: |
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Listen to the voice in your head, don't resist it. Kill them all.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 19:07 Post subject: |
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^ solution to all your problems above. Highly recommended
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 20:46 Post subject: |
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lol@ppltakingtc01forealz
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 20:53 Post subject: |
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fuck her in teh butt
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 20:54 Post subject: |
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| timechange01 wrote: | | And i cant just tell the girl to stfu shes a friend.... but sometimes these people just have unreasonable exceptions from me which is pretty unfair |
she is effectively telling you to stfu and work, so she only deserves it back. say it nicely if you must, but she won't learn unless you're serious or/and emotionally convincing. she knew this exam was coming and she fucked off to europe for a while and is now robbing you of the vacation time SHE wasted.
even if you decide to help, lay down the law and TELL HER this is not happening again, for HER own good. chrrrrisstttttttt.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 20:56 Post subject: |
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| xTerro wrote: | | lol@ppltakingtc01forealz |
taking tc01 for realz is more entertaining than posting that.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 21:06 Post subject: |
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Everyone uses everyone, it's nothing special. Some people are users, some obey. I only have 4-5 true friends and that's alot. Probably ~90% of the people I call "friend" I need for something once in a while for whatever reason. Maybe those people think I'm a dick, I wouldn't know.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 21:43 Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | I see you're still waiting on that spine donor. |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 22:09 Post subject: |
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The batteries? Get over it, you lose shit all the time, he loses your shit. Be pissed and ask new batteries and you will get them.
dude, i used to be quite good at making exams @ uni, so people asked me to help them. But i cannot understand how you can fuck up that 'powerplay'.
The way i used to do it was like this 'man, there is a soccer game on tele. Come over with questions and beer and i will explain shit'. or
if it is close, 'make me some food and i will come over for diner and explain'. or
'Can you pick me up and give me a ride home after i explain shit' or
'can you go to the copy center to copy your notes and then i will come pick them up and explain some things'.
There were were 1-2 people who would consult me for some exams, and those people would even suggest to do something for me in return, thats how it is supposed to be with friends. Next time you need help, they help you and the other way around. Some stupid slutty girl i knew wanted my syllabus, and well she had to drive 1h to come get it, i am not her little slave. Oh boy she was pissed to see how my syllabus was still blank and no additional notes, "well yeah, that is how i study, but you can still take it home, i passed it the first time". She never asked again 
I mean, you need to get payed, thats the way it worked. I really do not understand how you can lose your massif emotional power by travelling hours and paying to help someone you do not want to help?
If she acts like such a bitch my answer would be 'make me do it' or 'you wish' or 'you need help, not me' or 'i do 1h free, the others will cost you a dinner each hour'... If she is not willing to come over to the source of help, how the fuck will she even have the determination to study and pass an exam?
And she is a friend, oh plzz, my friends call me to hang out at their place when they know i have a shit day at work, not to force me to do shit. Or they call me to ask if i want to use a ticket to a basket match they can spare. Yeah those friends can ask me a lot of stuff and i'd do it without even asking why or how. But even those friends would not go that far as to demand me to travel an hour to explain them shit  oh plz, go on ebay and find some spine
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Jan 2010 23:57 Post subject: |
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| tainted4ever wrote: | | fuck her in teh butt |
qft! |
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Jan 2010 07:57 Post subject: |
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| Newty182 wrote: | | I can't see this topic getting past page 5. You will need to do better, TC. |
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Jan 2010 08:28 Post subject: |
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Women are fucking stupid.
If there were more then butch women on nForce (Sorry, meant gayfohump) this topic would divide by zero.
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