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 Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 01:50 Post subject: Girlfriend ? |
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Ok so after reading all the pages from our dead user timechange01 with his problem i gotta ask you guys to help me too . How the hell are you people able to make GF guys ? My mates are already started to call me gay or shit like that , im too fucking shy to do something like this, is there a special technique ? If it is i'd like to hear it from you guys, also i'd like to hear how you made your GF .
Thanks in advance .
Trolls may fuck off .
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 01:58 Post subject: |
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Believe me when I tell you I suck at making new friends, meeting people, talking to girls etc.
So, my ex actually kinda hit on me
And my current gf, well, I was kinda down because some shit had gone down in my life and she was like the only person that I enjoyed being around. Met her at this youth-club kinda thingie near our school. She was working there.
I mainly hung around the bar while the rest of the people I was there with were all over the place, she was tending the bar, started talking and well that's it basically.
But then again I am not the best person to talk to in such a situation but Syco might be able to give you a few pointers, he seems to have some knowledge 
@Syco:
No, I am still not pimping you out because I'm not demanding they give me money for that but that doesn't mean I wouldn't appreciate donations ;D
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b0se
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 02:05 Post subject: |
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| b0se wrote: | | AnimalMother wrote: | The secret can ultimately be distilled into two simple tenants:
1. Confidence
2. An utter lack of fear with regards to failure. If you have no relationship with a girl, what have you got to lose by asking her out?
I've recently set up dates with three women through facebook of all things, just by obeying these simple rules of behaviour.
If you want more details, just ask more specific questions.  |
I did what you said in the above post and i was refused, and now i fear that . |
You should never fear that if you have learned from your mistake. Something was wrong, maybe the girl you picked, or maybe your approach.
Identify the problem and you will never have to fear making that same mistake again.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 02:31 Post subject: |
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My best advice is start of slow, find girls you can talk to and with whom you're comfortable with. This way you'll learn so much of how women communicate with you intimately and ways to handle their mood swings, the way they test you etc
Like all things practice makes perfect, so just keep talking to women and slowly try and find the one that attracts you physically and mentally.
Dont mess with God, he can impregnate your girlfriend/wife without taking his pants off!
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 02:42 Post subject: |
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just keep in mind that not every girl you like will like you back, suck that fact up and get on with it.
girls aren't going to bite you, they'll only laugh at you if you act fearful and nervous. talk normal and if you like her start throwing some stealthy flirts, if she likes you back she'll do the same and then there's your chance take it, if not, try your luck with another one.
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 02:50 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: | just keep in mind that not every girl you like will like you back, suck that fact up and get on with it.
girls aren't going to bite you, they'll only laugh at you if you act fearful and nervous. talk normal and if you like her start throwing some stealthy flirts, if she likes you back she'll do the same and then there's your chance take it, if not, try your luck with another one. |
LOL, right as per usual. It's actually getting a bit annoying, you're not supposed to be profound, you're supposed to be the chaotic Juba dancing for our entertainment!
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 02:57 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:00 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: | | AnimalMother wrote: | | FireMaster wrote: | just keep in mind that not every girl you like will like you back, suck that fact up and get on with it.
girls aren't going to bite you, they'll only laugh at you if you act fearful and nervous. talk normal and if you like her start throwing some stealthy flirts, if she likes you back she'll do the same and then there's your chance take it, if not, try your luck with another one. |
LOL, right as per usual. It's actually getting a bit annoying, you're not supposed to be profound, you're supposed to be the chaotic Juba dancing for our entertainment! |
 that's what happens when I drink, I get wiser  |
wait a minute. Not sure about that but did FireMaster just admit to being Juba? Or is that old news? (I mean, I suppose we knew all along but him admitting to that fact? )
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:03 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:07 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: | | AnimalMother wrote: | | FireMaster wrote: | just keep in mind that not every girl you like will like you back, suck that fact up and get on with it.
girls aren't going to bite you, they'll only laugh at you if you act fearful and nervous. talk normal and if you like her start throwing some stealthy flirts, if she likes you back she'll do the same and then there's your chance take it, if not, try your luck with another one. |
LOL, right as per usual. It's actually getting a bit annoying, you're not supposed to be profound, you're supposed to be the chaotic Juba dancing for our entertainment! |
that's what happens when I drink, I get wiser |
You need the GABA, alcohol isn't the best way to go about getting it. I recommend Phenibut, you'll love it.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:10 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:15 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:27 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 03:42 Post subject: |
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well cocaine doesn't really solve any neuromodulator deficiencies, it just gives a dopamine boost, and after doing it on a regular basis the brain relies on cocaine instead of releasing its own shit, so you didn't have any deficiency and you ended up with one.
not saying that phenibut is a drug
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 08:53 Post subject: |
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@bose
What AM said initially is what it boils down to. Confidence and don't be afraid of rejection. A lot of guys think you need tons of money or brad pitt looks and such to get the girl you want (cuz the girl you want is always the most attractive in your eyes).
There's no special trick cause every woman is different.
U gotta recognize the kinda girl your going after to be able to get your foot in the door. And that dude, takes experience (talking to women, being rejected, one nighters etc). Gotta hit the cycle (baseball term, means hitting every type of hit - single, double, triple etc).
Most guys, it boils down to rejection. Or lack of confidence/insecurity. They either think "she's to hot for me" or "what if she says no?". a) how physically attractive a woman is makes little to no difference. Its her personality and attitude thats gunna determine if you succeed.
b) best thing to boost you 'immunity' to rejection...turn it around on her.
Example - Your in a bar. You see a hottie (whether she is alone or with friends, makes no difference...dunno why guys think it does), you approach her (no cheesy fucking lines, thats the worst...something funny works, but no "I just came over to say your the most purdy woman I have ever seen" deal....gay and doesn't work) and she rejects you. Smile and say something witty. Say she says something like...fuck..um..."Yeah right. No thanks" in a bitchy tone...smile and be like "Hey, I was just trying to strike up a conversation with you. You look like an interesting person (be ready to back that up if you say it tho). No need to be rude/a bitch. Not every guy that wants to talk is hittin on you, you know?", smile and walk away. Thats it.
Obviously, don't use those words verbatim. But something along those lines that fits the situation (every attempt is unique man).
I've done similar things and then later on had the girls hit on me, end up taking her home/back to her place and she/they would say that they reject every guy right off the bat and its how he handles it.
Remember, hot women get hit on ALL THE TIME. So you have to stand out and give them something to think about.
But again, it comes down to confidence and no being afraid of being rejected dude. The first few times you will be freaked. But it will get easier and easier till it rolls of your shoulder like nothing.
@Rek
I was joking that time about the pimpin thing man But thanks having confidence in me bro.
Like I've said dozens of time, i can only speak from personal experience and trust me...I've got shot down a lot of times. And I've shot down a lot of girls. Its the way the game is played you know? And thats what the courting ritual is...a game. U play the game right, you pass go and collect 200 bucks you know? Then roll the dice again.
edited for typos...
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 08:54 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: | just keep in mind that not every girl you like will like you back, suck that fact up and get on with it.
girls aren't going to bite you, they'll only laugh at you if you act fearful and nervous. talk normal and if you like her start throwing some stealthy flirts, if she likes you back she'll do the same and then there's your chance take it, if not, try your luck with another one. |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 08:56 Post subject: |
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@AM
Dude, is Absinthe legal in the UK? Real Absinthe (the wormwood stuff)...shit that makes you hallucinate?
Its illegal in Canada/US....but I have cousins on my mom's side that could ship me a bottle...I wonder if its legal to import as a gift (just one or maybe 2 bottles)..?
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 09:08 Post subject: |
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Can the person sending it or the person receiving get booked tho?
Cause I might be going to Sweden end of this year or next year (visit Angela's family) but fuck...its a family thing and yes, we are going to travel by ourselves but I know she won't be into drinking anything that makes her hallucinate. And I'm not gunna drink it while I'm drinking with her, in europe, by ourselves (its not like the GTA where I know tons of people and the area's etc).
Its more something to do with the boys while playing cards or betting on videogames and shit you know?
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 10th Jul 2009 09:22 Post subject: |
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| VGAdeadcafe wrote: | Ontopic :
I agree with what AM says, it also takes some luck
Anyway, you aren't a man till you can take rejection in the face, then smile and shrug your shoulders. Break the barrier. |
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