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WaldoJ
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why won't you just move in for the kill? going slow doesn't lead anywhere. it's just slow, and painful. 
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Karmeck
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Thu, 18th Sep 2008 20:49 Post subject: |
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Point is, if you stay at a distance you'll only become the best friend. She'll tell you things. Hug you. Kiss you on the cheek. Make you like her more and more while she just treats you as a friend. You may like it. The attention the affection (that will lead nowhere) but in the end, at the end of the tunnel where the light is all bright and shiny you're going to find out that just because you're afraid of rejection you'll be forced to listen to her tell you about the guy she dates, this and that, this and that. Life isn't like the movies where when you take your time it's going to be prefect and last forever and be this magical adventure that is magnificent. Life you have to move in and get what you want. You can't expect it to fall on your lap. It doesn't work that way and when it does happen it'll fuck you up. Cause then you're being used. And you'll end up liking this abusive chick, and she'll end up liking you until she gets her fix and then she'll throw you aside for some next guy.
Trust me. Waiting is all fun and games if you're already are in a relationship. It can be grand holding out on the bedroom games and just teasing each other. But waiting to see if you can be with her, that just will bury you. Trust me on that.
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Thu, 18th Sep 2008 21:18 Post subject: |
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Fuck this chick in the ass already. Geez.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Thu, 18th Sep 2008 21:19 Post subject: |
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nouse likes it dirty! GO MAN GO!
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Thu, 18th Sep 2008 21:27 Post subject: |
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hahaha i don't think she can gag. she seems like a slut 
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Thu, 18th Sep 2008 22:16 Post subject: |
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I told you, get to know ppl around here and by that way you sneak closer to her.
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WaldoJ
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and i tell you that won't work. girls need to know if you like like em. otherwise they won't do squat. what you're doing is the typical best friend stuff.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 19th Sep 2008 04:03 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | | and i tell you that won't work. girls need to know if you like like em. otherwise they won't do squat. what you're doing is the typical best friend stuff. |
true
but alot of girls like it when your subtle about it. Little comments, giving them that certain look every so often (not that I wanna fuck you look), finding reasons to be close to them etc
If you come on too strong, you'll fuck yourself over |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Fri, 19th Sep 2008 04:18 Post subject: |
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yah but you just act all purdy and cute and cuddly you won't get anywhere either. best thing to do is to be up front and all luvy dubby when they accept you.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 19th Sep 2008 04:37 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | | yah but you just act all purdy and cute and cuddly you won't get anywhere either. best thing to do is to be up front and all luvy dubby when they accept you. |
Being subtle and slick doesnt mean you have to be soft dude. |
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Fri, 19th Sep 2008 14:21 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | WaldoJ wrote: | | and i tell you that won't work. girls need to know if you like like em. otherwise they won't do squat. what you're doing is the typical best friend stuff. |
true
but alot of girls like it when your subtle about it. Little comments, giving them that certain look every so often (not that I wanna fuck you look), finding reasons to be close to them etc
If you come on too strong, you'll fuck yourself over |
Thats what Im doing, giving her a look now and then and today she asked me why I was so happy and I said it was be cause she was there.
I will be there as well
So today it was only her and me walking to school as the other girl was sick ( the one being an ass to me now and then but she van be sweet as well). During the walk we start singing on different songs just having a having time walking. We also listened to some recored stuff on her mobile. Tomorrow she will go out dancing and I will be there as well and the one taking me is.....the other guy, the one I was jealous on. Nothing is sure yet we still need to find a ride to get there, but either both of us go or non of us is.
I also loaned her a movie The quiet she might watch it or she might not. Now some time after I don't think it is her kinda movie but any way. Just hope she wont thing Im weird for liking it,
Apparently she likes my signing and took one of the songs i sang and sang it for her mother, and her mother now consider me "a funny guy".
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Sep 2008 11:16 Post subject: |
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| Karmeck wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | WaldoJ wrote: | | and i tell you that won't work. girls need to know if you like like em. otherwise they won't do squat. what you're doing is the typical best friend stuff. |
true
but alot of girls like it when your subtle about it. Little comments, giving them that certain look every so often (not that I wanna fuck you look), finding reasons to be close to them etc
If you come on too strong, you'll fuck yourself over |
Thats what Im doing, giving her a look now and then and today she asked me why I was so happy and I said it was be cause she was there.
I will be there as well
So today it was only her and me walking to school as the other girl was sick ( the one being an ass to me now and then but she van be sweet as well). During the walk we start singing on different songs just having a having time walking. We also listened to some recored stuff on her mobile. Tomorrow she will go out dancing and I will be there as well and the one taking me is.....the other guy, the one I was jealous on. Nothing is sure yet we still need to find a ride to get there, but either both of us go or non of us is.
I also loaned her a movie The quiet she might watch it or she might not. Now some time after I don't think it is her kinda movie but any way. Just hope she wont thing Im weird for liking it,
Apparently she likes my signing and took one of the songs i sang and sang it for her mother, and her mother now consider me "a funny guy". |
yeah man 
Just make sure she's knows your interested in her in an intimate/romantic way. Make sure she's not confusing your niceness and stuff with being a friend. Cause that has happened to me before. A woman takes what you do the wrong way and then one night your sitting alone watching a movie and she looks at you and says " you know, your a really good friend"....its like a knife through your heart you know.
Do what you do, but make sure she knows you want to be with her intimatly, not just as friends. |
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Tue, 23rd Sep 2008 16:55 Post subject: |
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awww shit
a ex-colleague from highschool and friend crashed and died this morning
fuck , he was only 20 .. jesus i really wasnt expecting this .. motherfucker
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| Posted: Tue, 23rd Sep 2008 20:30 Post subject: |
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| Hierofan wrote: | awww shit
a ex-colleague from highschool and friend crashed and died this morning
fuck , he was only 20 .. jesus i really wasnt expecting this .. motherfucker |
Ouch, death sucks.
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MannyK
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Wed, 24th Sep 2008 16:09 Post subject: |
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| MannyK wrote: | i'm giving up on the girl i told before.. she is kinda strange now  |
Do tell, in what way.
I might have over played it
Monday
So it was like this, I don't have the most mature kind of humor but she seems to like it, but on Monday I must have said something wrong. On the way home she told me I should start thinking on what I say and that I needed to mature. So I took up on this, I felt kinda hurt, we talked about it on msn, I admit what she said made me sad but it was good that she said it. We started talking about something else and the msn session ends well.
Tuesday
Well how does one mature and think about what he says? Well I figure I would shut up and so I did, not long before she started saying she regreted it and want me to be my self again but I don't. Having some fun as she doesn`t know English that good, talking to the Lethian boy about how much I like her and how cute I think she is while she is sitting right next to me, that was kinda fun.
Wednesday
I took it a step further and was almost completely quiet, on the way to school she tried everything to get me to loosen up, tickle me, just being sweet, and offed me a hug as she felt kinda bad about what she said (man why did I turn that down). She tried to get me talk during the day and I was moving away from her all day. All was fine until it was time to go home and I started to think I might have over played it., she was clearly not happy and she stayed like that all the way to the station.
When I got home I got a message on my mobile that she was sorry for the way she acted on the way home, I send back a sorry for the way I acted the whole day. We talked some more on msn, I once again stated that I'm sorry and that I just acted childish. I asked her if she wanna tell me why she was so unhappy on the way home, she said it was be cause of me, I promised her to act more happy tomorrow.
Mixed feelings after this, feels good that she cares about how I behaved the 2 other days and feel bad that I overplayed it and made her feel bad.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Sep 2008 03:37 Post subject: |
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| Lutzifer wrote: | | ALWAYS go for the hug! |
hmmm....sometimes. Because sometimes you go for a hug or a kiss on the cheek and you get the dreaded "your a really good friend".... I hate that. Ive had that happen a few times to me. Its like fuck, just kick me in the balls why dont ya? |
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Sun, 28th Sep 2008 19:47 Post subject: |
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Well the other guy is written off for now as he got a new girl friend. He is actually a really nice guy and I wish them all of luck, tho i hear from her ex that she is a bitch.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 19:50 Post subject: |
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Not overplaying it, just having some fun.
Monday:
On the way home we get in to a discussion on why you ask ppl how they feel, I say it is only to be nice and that you most of the time don't really care how they feel all you do is trying to be nice. She did not really like that view of the world. Argued not really fighting bust still an argue. Later I send her an sms saying Im sorry ensuring her that I care for her and a bunsh of other ppl, she say it is cool and I end it back with a ":) hug".
Tuesday:
For some reason I get the idea to test to seem pist (just being quiet not looking at her) again, I guess it is because I like her then she try to make me happy. And right I am, don't take long before she notice and try to make me happy again, telling jokes and saying my hair looks nice. It's nice to she she care.
I turn it off later and start being nice again. Later on the day, we are suppose to wright a story, teacher ask us to get out of the classroom as he talk to some of the other students. Me and her go to a room on the other floor and have just a really nice time, you know like on a tv show there they zoom out from the window with us talking and then credits. In real nothing happen in there she just relaxed stated singing and we just talking about the story she is writing just having a nice time. Nice time walking home making jokes and talking some about having a period, the other girl was there as well but she was kinda down to day and not in the way.
Now to take the next step, but how? Just asking her out is like saying it right out that I really like her.
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WaldoJ
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | Lutzifer wrote: | | ALWAYS go for the hug! |
hmmm....sometimes. Because sometimes you go for a hug or a kiss on the cheek and you get the dreaded "your a really good friend".... I hate that. Ive had that happen a few times to me. Its like fuck, just kick me in the balls why dont ya? |
lol i'm the best hugger around. got me laid cause im such a good hugger. kisser not so much. i loathe kissing. arrrgh. everytime i make out i feel like i'm 9 and i'm forced to kiss a girl cause of a dare and it just makes me feel awful. I hate kissing soooooooooo much. It bothers me so much. But hugging. I fucking own that shit. Girls luv good hugs. Y'know. They fuckin love em!
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 06:50 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | Lutzifer wrote: | | ALWAYS go for the hug! |
hmmm....sometimes. Because sometimes you go for a hug or a kiss on the cheek and you get the dreaded "your a really good friend".... I hate that. Ive had that happen a few times to me. Its like fuck, just kick me in the balls why dont ya? |
lol i'm the best hugger around. got me laid cause im such a good hugger. kisser not so much. i loathe kissing. arrrgh. everytime i make out i feel like i'm 9 and i'm forced to kiss a girl cause of a dare and it just makes me feel awful. I hate kissing soooooooooo much. It bothers me so much. But hugging. I fucking own that shit. Girls luv good hugs. Y'know. They fuckin love em! |
not me bro. I love kissing. Holding a woman in your arms that you care about alot and passionately kissing her is just....heaven.
lol Ive had times where ive been with a chick and she was such a good kisser (and by the way she was kissing me I could tell she was really into me), I got so hard I was ready to blow my load. Had to take a break so I wouldnt shoot the minute she started playing with my cock lol
There's nothing more romantic than a passionate kiss.
And Im not talking sucking face wear your tounge is in her mouth going crazy and shit. Just gentle, slow, passionate kisses...of course with tounge, but slowly. You tease the womans tounge etc....kissing rocks man...in tandem with hugging of course.
But its got to be a full body hug. Where shes pressed right up on you. and you can feel every inch of her body.
Thats why when I wanna have sex for a long time, I minimize the kissing. Kissing just makes the juices flow you know? lol |
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SycoShaman
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yeah, ive changed my view on that. i enjoy kissing now. Really erotic to me. I used to hate it but when I said that I think I was with a chick who couldnt kiss at all.
Since then tho, ive been with some women who have almost made me cum in my pants just by kissing me
Thats why I always say, opinions and ideas are always subject to change
If Im with a bad kisser, Im sure I'll hate kissing again lol 
As for being breathed on, I like it. That means i know she's close. I love being close to my girl when Im sleeping. Whether she's hugging me or im hugging her.
And as for morning breath, I could care less. No one has perfect smelling breath in the morning. And it ruins the mood when both people wake up wanting to fuck but one says "one moment, I need to brush my teeth"...that just ruins it.
Its one thing if they smell like something shit in their mouth, but on the whole, morning breathe doesnt bother me at all.
I like waking up, pulling my girl on top of me and gettin freaky with her.
There's nothing better than morning sex....well, for a guy anyway. Still, most of the women ive been with also enjoy waking up and fucking.
Personally, its one of my favourite things
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