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WaldoJ
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Parties come and go, friendship takes time to build. If you think, that you can always have time for yourself and just toss your friends aside whenever you have fun and you don't want to be bothered with them then your friend list will soon turn to 0.
Seriously. I would've gone after him. Even if this hot girl was macking on my ear telling me all the sweet things she'd do to me to the room upstairs, I would drop everything and go look for him.
Friends are important. You work hard to keep them your friends. There's trust. Respect. Etc. It takes time to develop.
Like I said, parties come and go, but friends either stay or leave. Takes more effort to get a friend back than it takes to go to another party.
No matter how stupid your friend may act, he's still your friend. You should orginizle your friend list and see who's your friend and who's not, then you can decide for who you should stay the party and let them wander the streets and for who you should put your jacket on amd go looking for them. 
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 04:36 Post subject: |
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You were so hitting on her. Not much of a friend are ya?
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 04:36 Post subject: |
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| KnightRider2006 wrote: | | You were so hitting on her. Not much of a friend are ya? |
that too.
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 12:28 Post subject: |
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I didn't hit on her because I knew he liked her. He just got upset because we tried to make him go dance with her...
I have a few friends, and what makes them real friends to me is if I do something wrong or if they feel upset they tell me in the face what's wrong. I don't bite.
I went upstairs and called him twice on his cellphone then he turned his off and later I get the message he was walking home. He didn't even tell us he was leaving he just said I need to go get some fresh air. He could of been anywhere when I got that short message from him..
Oh btw. it's like the second time I go out and party with him, so we don't really have lots to do with each other.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 14:44 Post subject: |
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he just needed to be alone. tomorrow hell turn around
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Jenni
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 14:54 Post subject: |
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If he's such an immature idiot then no he's not worth going after. I mean c'mon they weren't even going out.
Christ tell him to learn some social skills.
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 15:15 Post subject: |
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| Jenni wrote: | If he's such an immature idiot then no he's not worth going after. I mean c'mon they weren't even going out.
Christ tell him to learn some social skills. |
Yeah, he just wrote "I'm sorry" on ICQ and explained that he would of cried if he would of stayed any longer because he was unable to make a move on her, not because of me or anything else. -.-
Trying to teach him some social skills, but it's quite difficult with him.
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Jenni
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| Posted: Sun, 17th Dec 2006 15:19 Post subject: |
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Just tell him to turn the other cheek.
Just watch she's not the type to turn friends against one another.
Some women are like that.
If she is, just drop her like a hot potato.
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Bigperm
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Dec 2006 20:24 Post subject: |
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IF he was a true friend, it doenst matter what happens, you should have went after him, especially if he was drunk. I have had too many friends walk home, in a totally safe area, to end up coming home, beat the shit up. I have left girls at the bar that were coming home with me, to make sure my friend is ok. Becasue, when people are drunk, or under the influence, they do stupid things. And good friends are more important than some silly girl.
Also, bros before hoes, its a unwriten rule between friends. If he got mad, or jelous, then back the fuck off and stop cock blocking.
Maybe has no social skills like you thought. But from you first post, it seems like you were quite impressed with how you made her laugh etc.
| Jenni wrote: | | I drunk. I don't fucking care! |
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Dec 2006 20:33 Post subject: |
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Naw, I was rather impressed that he got pissed by it. Tbh i tried to make him stay and he wanted to fight me if I wouldn't let him go. Talked to him on ICQ the next day and he said it's okay he just wanted to be alone. I asked if it would of been better if I had followed him and he said no, he wanted to be alone. Furthermore he told me it wasn't my fault. Also he would of been pissed at me if I let that girl walk to her car alone, he knows how afraid she is to do stuff alone and it was his Idea to pick her up.
Also I didn't CB I even left them alone for a while and stuff like that.
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Jenni
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Dec 2006 20:49 Post subject: |
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I agree with Eliz. When a woman is concerned tempers will fly. Best just to let him get on with it. If and it's a big if he does get a kicking on the way home, theres no one to blame but himself.
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Dec 2006 21:12 Post subject: Re: Some people -.- |
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| Klinge wrote: | Well, I have this friend of mine and we went to the club today, he brought a girl he really likes (he is a victim of oneitis) well and I talked to her , made her laugh, just joked around with her a little. He got jealous and left after I told him to dance with her and she asked him like 3 times. The thing is she ain't in to him. I talked to her later and found out that he didn't even tell her he liked her and she thought they are just "friends". Well now crybaby ran home without telling anybody just writing an sms that I got at about 3-4 a.m. that he's walking home.
I mean c'mon wtf is he thinking? Should I have followed him?
What I did was stay there and party on, I am a friend of his and I know you sometimes need some time for yourself and I don't know how it would of helped him if I went looking for him. It's no dangerous area around here or so. Well enough bitching about him. Am I an asshole now? I don't think so, I never did anything wrong did I?
P.S. If you find any mistakes go ahead and keep 'em I'm drunk, so I'm in a generous mood  |
Don't listen to Jenni, she's a girl. It has nothing to do with protecting crap. You just don't leave your friend alone when you go out.
You shouldn't have joked so much. Just keep talk to the girl to a minimum because he didn't knew her so well. If it was his girlfriend you can joke/talk to her as much as you like.
But in this situation you should keep conversation between you three, or between you and your friend.
Cause now you were kinda competiting with him. Even if you didn't mean this, he sees it like that.
He probaly felt jealous and left. You should always follow him if you are a friend.
Even when he isn't your friend you shouldn't stay with the girl he brought with him.
You are not an asshole cause you didn't hit on her, but it not friendly to let your friend walk home alone. Even if he left for some stupid reason....
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| Posted: Mon, 18th Dec 2006 21:19 Post subject: Re: Some people -.- |
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| Double-=V=- wrote: |
Don't listen to Jenni, she's a girl. It has nothing to do with protecting crap. You just don't leave your friend alone when you go out.
You shouldn't have joked so much. Just keep talk to the girl to a minimum because he didn't knew her so well. If it was his girlfriend you can joke/talk to her as much as you like.
But in this situation you should keep conversation between you three, or between you and your friend.
Cause now you were kinda competiting with him. Even if you didn't mean this, he sees it like that.
He probaly felt jealous and left. You should always follow him if you are a friend.
Even when he isn't your friend you shouldn't stay with the girl he brought with him.
You are not an asshole cause you didn't hit on her, but it not friendly to let your friend walk home alone. Even if he left for some stupid reason.... |
The thing is he knew her for quite a while and she told him at least once already that she doesn't like him the way he likes her.
It's settled again, he apologized and all was fine again. He knows now that she doesn't like him etc. And he's okay with it. He has grown on it I think, at least a little.
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