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| nerrd wrote: | | AnimalMother wrote: | Nerrd was making the usual physical threats he resorts to when he gets into an argument, I picked him up on it, told him how pathetic it was. That was the start of 'it'. 
Pretty similar to what you see in this thread. |
LOL, picked me up on it. You are pathetic. You always run your fucking mouth of, not only at me, but you flame others as well. All I'm saying that you would never attempt anything close to that in RL, because some asshole like me would punch your lights out. And thats it. No threats whatsoever. Since you are such peace loving hippie as you claim to be, you should behave like one, not a stuck up wanker you play around here. |
The social dynamics of a forum are completely different to those in real life. Everyone acts different on a forum.
Not many people walk into the middle of a pub and yell out a conversation topic. To which other people call out answers, while the mass of people in the pub listen in, a few maybe add their own opinion to the mix, some open up a huge book called wiki to add some new information etc. Fights would break out all the time between people with wildly different opinions.
In real life I hang out with people who I like and respect, I don't waste time on people like you and you don't waste time on people like me. We're too different. But I still tell people if I think they're wrong, except because I like and respect them i'm more diplomatic about it.
So no, I don't walk up to a stranger and tell them their opinion is stupid because they won't bother to tell me their opinion in the first place.
If you're that idiotic that you think the internet and real life social interactions are the same well maybe you should stick to real life and beating people up when you lose a discusssion. Because the internet doesn't work that way.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 00:29 Post subject: |
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Like I said, a stuck up wanker.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 00:35 Post subject: |
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| nerrd wrote: | | Like I said, a stuck up wanker. |
Ok, and I think you're a dumbass thug.
Are we done?
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 00:39 Post subject: |
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| ELIZ wrote: | AM finally lost his nerve  |
page one, darling, page one! This is page 3.
YOU'RE SO SLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 00:42 Post subject: |
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nerrd you make it sound that if a girl plays footsies with some guy she's gonna end up sucking his cock in the bathroom.
If she's smart, harmless flirting remains harmless. 
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 00:45 Post subject: |
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Since this is a lame internet brawl i figured I'd see who would win via google fight.
nerrd - 5,140 results
AnimalMother - 17,300 results
Winner = AnimalMother
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 00:48 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | | ELIZ wrote: | | AM finally lost his nerve |
Actually, I got bored. |
 and i just made some popcorn!
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 01:11 Post subject: |
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LOL.
About time you showed up. Commence spamming. I'm out.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 01:12 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 01:13 Post subject: |
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i'll make a thread just for you and AM if you want?
cockcockcockcockcockcockcockcockcockcockcockcock
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 01:17 Post subject: |
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I think that the girl is a human [yes thats right] therefore she has the right to choose her partner. And even if it was my best friend, I would accept her choice. If it was my thing he would try to take, then I would consider kicking his face, but just because its my property and the property is not alive thing and cant make decisions.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 03:04 Post subject: |
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nerrd
what the fuck?
defining words? Christ. Flirting is just stimulating the other person verbally. It may or may not lead anywhere. If one person is with another, they can still flirt. it won't lead to a thing unless its what they want it. if they decide to go further then hell, you're no longer number 1.
That's when flirting is wrong.
Harmless flirting is when you're flirting for the hell of it. It's another version of small talk. Sure it may be erotic, but as long as it doesn't get physical, what the fuck is the problem?
It doesn't get emotional. It doesn't get physical. It's just verbal. It’s not cheating.
It's up to the people whether it'll go further or not. There's nothing wrong with flirting unless it's flirting with intent to get something out of it. Other than that it's just harmless.
God.
People are people. Sex is just like eating or drinking or sleeping. It's fucking normal. Natural. Flirting is normal. With a partner it may be 10x better cause at the end of the night you'll get something out of it and the sex might be better since you’re frickin’ hornier than ever before. But with a stranger why is it wrong when it leads to nothing.
If the girl loves you. If she thinks you’re the only one for her. And obviously never thought of cheating on you. Why can’t she flirt with the opposite sex? Why can’t she pretend to want another man and then still come back to you? She loves you. She knows what not to do. If she doesn’t want to lose you... she won’t do anything foolish.
God. Like I said. You make it sound that if she plays footsies with some guy, winks at him couple of times she'll suck his cock in the bathroom at the end of the night.
Where the hell are you from?
People flirt all the damn time. God. In school. At work. It means nothing to them. Nothing happens. It cheers some people up sometimes. It brings some people down. But it’s not a fucking tornado that will destroy a home.
Unless you have absolutely no trust in your partner and will question them until you get the answer you want. And 99% of the time the answer you want isn’t really the answer you want because it’s the answer that will ruin the relationship.
So what the fuck?
Have trust in your partner for fucks sake. Know that she won’t cheat on you. Know who she really is. Flirting with others means nothing then. You'll know she wont cheat on you. You won't doubt her. And that's it.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 03:47 Post subject: |
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OK. You're right. I'm wrong. I'm sorry.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 04:12 Post subject: |
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No. Seriously, nerrd.
I don't see what's wrong with it.
You're older. You're more experienced. You know more than me.
I'm only 21. I know what I know from what I've seen/learned/experienced. If it doesn't go to the next stage (bedroom or motel room/touching etc) then it's not hurting anyone. And it's not considered wrong. It's innocent. It's harmless.
We're at different stages of life here. You have your love = everything bit (I think). So do i, it's how i've been raised, but the environment that surrounds me focuses more on sex. Sex plays a key role in relationships. Only thenafter an emotional bond is created. It becomes love over time. It's not even real love. You two become attached. Become best of friends. Soul mates and what not. But it can still end. It'll hurt but the same feelings can be replaced with another person.
Which is fucked up in my opinion. I still have the first person I ever really liked liked on my thoughts and what not. Y’know.
But from what I’ve seen. If flirting doesn’t lead to kissing/touched/fucking/physical cheating it’s not really hurting anyone. It might hurt emotionally but if the emotional (love) bond isn’t broken, and the physical seal isn’t breached... there’s really nothing to worry about. Jealousy might get the best of you and it might get crazy. Everyone gets jealous though. The other guy might look better than you and you’ll start second guessing why she’s with you/why she’s spending time with you. Why she talks to him a lot. Spends less time with you. Etc.
It's why I think it's important not just to have a healthy physical relationship (to keep your partner coming back) but also a healthy social / verbal / emotional relationship.
You can talk about things. Clear things up. Gain stronger trust. Etc. You won’t get jealous. And it won’t/shouldn’t hurt what you have.
Then again i could be dead wrong. I can't keep a woman by my side for a long time. Even if it gets serious. So, yeah. You have your lady for 8 years. So you know more than me in every sense.
I'm sorry if I've offended you.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 04:47 Post subject: |
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You didn't offend me at any point, and I appreciate you trying to explain your point of view in a polite way, even though I acted like an asshole in the other part of this thread. I just have a different opinion about this whole subject. But like I and others have said before, there are many types of relationships, mine is (and always were) very monogamous, even when it comes to "harmless flirting".
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 04:51 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | Sometimes tho if you have a really aggressive flirting guy that doesn’t take the hint and you are in a situation where you can’t be rude or made a scene. You just kinda go along with it to a degree. |
If i was a girl I would signal one of my friends over at this point to help me out in letting the guy know that it's not going to happen. You can find ways to not go along with it and still not make a scene. |
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 04:59 Post subject: |
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flirt |fl?rt| |fl?rt| |fl??t|
verb
1 [ intrans. ] behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions : it amused him to flirt with her.
• ( flirt with) experiment with or show a superficial interest in (an idea, activity, or movement) without committing oneself to it seriously : a painter who had flirted briefly with Cubism.
• ( flirt with) deliberately expose oneself to (danger or difficulty) : the need of some individuals to flirt with death.
2 [ trans. ] (of a bird) wave or open and shut (its wings or tail) with a quick flicking motion.
• [ intrans. ] move back and forth with a flicking or fluttering motion : the lark was flirting around the site.
noun
a person who habitually flirts.
DERIVATIVES
flirtation |-?t? sh ?n| |fl?r?te???n| |-?te??(?)n| noun
flirtatious |-?t? sh ?s| |fl?r?te???s| |-?te???s| adjective
flirtatiously |-?t? sh ?sl?| |fl?r?te???sli| |-?te???sli| adverb
flirtatiousness |-?t? sh ?sn?s| |fl?r?te???sn?s| |-?te???sn?s| noun
flirty |?fl?rdi| ( flirtier |?fl?rdi?r|, flirtiest |?fl?rdi1st|).
ORIGIN mid 16th cent.: apparently symbolic, the elements fl- and -irt both suggesting sudden movement; compare with flick and spurt . The original verb senses were [give someone a sharp blow] and [sneer at] ; the earliest noun senses were [joke, gibe] and [flighty girl] (defined by Dr. Johnson as [a pert young hussey] ), with a notion originally of cheeky behavior, later of playfully amorous behavior.
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I don’t think flirting is a big deal really. It is so embarrassing because whenever the family goes out for dinner my dad flirts with the waitress. Trust me it is harmless and means nothing.
When I worked in retail I was hit on and flirted with everyday (by guys buying christmas presents for their girlfriend/wifes no doubt) I never acted on it and neither did they. I was nice but I don’t think I really flirted back. I never really comfortable with it, it made me feel stupid.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 05:39 Post subject: |
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| Esel_Gesi wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | Sometimes tho if you have a really aggressive flirting guy that doesn’t take the hint and you are in a situation where you can’t be rude or made a scene. You just kinda go along with it to a degree. |
If i was a girl I would signal one of my friends over at this point to help me out in letting the guy know that it's not going to happen. You can find ways to not go along with it and still not make a scene. |
You are right, usually you can just excuse yourself. I think guys are really aware about stuff like that. I think the majority people their 30’s pretty much stop flirting all together now.
Yea a good friend would help you out but you have to work out the signal part a head of time. Really though, you should be able to take care of yourself because the next time your girlfriend might be there to help you.
I was thinking of one experience I had at 21 when I was working in an office with a manager in his 40's. I really needed the job and they were laying off people right left and centre and I wasn’t going to rock the boat by complaining (the real reason is because I wasn’t aggressive enough to tell him to fuck the hell off. He was always touching and saying things to me and a friend who is still one of my best friends today. He would come up behind me and start rubbing his hands up and down my arms (bare arms) He said some really explicit stuff to me too. He would touch your butt too.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 06:04 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | Esel_Gesi wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | Sometimes tho if you have a really aggressive flirting guy that doesn’t take the hint and you are in a situation where you can’t be rude or made a scene. You just kinda go along with it to a degree. |
If i was a girl I would signal one of my friends over at this point to help me out in letting the guy know that it's not going to happen. You can find ways to not go along with it and still not make a scene. |
I was thinking of one experience I had at 21 when I was working in an office with a manager in his 40's. I really needed the job and they were laying off people right left and centre and I wasn’t going to rock the boat by complaining (the real reason is because I wasn’t aggressive enough to tell him to fuck the hell off. He was always touching and saying things to me and a friend who is still one of my best friends today. He would come up behind me and start rubbing his hands up and down my arms (bare arms) He said some really explicit stuff to me too. He would touch your butt too. |
Damn. You couldn't have filed some sort of sexual harassment complaint or something? |
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 06:21 Post subject: |
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@Esel
The guy totally crossed the line but like I said I didn't agressively tell him off or even seriously talk about how much it bothered me. My girlfriend did tho, it stopped for a bit and then started again. She kinda took care of the problem for the both of us.
(same friend that does the horse recue)
After we both quit we found out he had some girl pinned in his office and another guy had to pull him off her. I don't know, it is second hand info. She filed a complaint.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 06:41 Post subject: |
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Crazy. If i saw something like that happening to some of my female coworkers I would file a complaint or at least encourage them to do everything they can to make it stop. Employers being aggressive like that shouldn't be tolerated.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Dec 2006 18:52 Post subject: |
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Some guys are naturally flirty, same with girls. It doesn't mean he is going to stab you in the back the first time he gets a chance with your bird.
Every heard of a ladies man?
I have too agree with AnimalMother that people using violence over something so trivail are just a bunch of idiots. Violence has its place, but in situations like that? You'd end up with no friends.
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