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 Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 04:09 Post subject: R U a Virgin? |
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Vote honest. 
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kumkss
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 04:14 Post subject: |
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Well, with some of these,,,,,,,,,,,,whatever.
Unless you are a girl? 
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Spun[k]
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 04:17 Post subject: |
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Does animals count? (not me asking..)
Sig too big.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 04:22 Post subject: |
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Im not a virgin...havent been for years
Although, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Sometimes I wish i was. Sex complicates things i find, sometimes. And plus, there would be no need to 'need' sex. Fuck, if i go a month without gettin laid, I get stressed. When I was kid, it was fun being able to focus on other things
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 04:41 Post subject: |
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kumkss
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 04:56 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Im not a virgin...havent been for years
Although, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Sometimes I wish i was. Sex complicates things i find, sometimes. And plus, there would be no need to 'need' sex. Fuck, if i go a month without gettin laid, I get stressed. When I was kid, it was fun being able to focus on other things |
i believe that sex is overrated. for me, at the beginning of my now nearly 3 years relation, was a primary goal (and also for my g/f.) we have make it everytime and everywhere we could. quite fun!! but with the time, one start to realice that it ain't so important in a stable relationship. trust, confidence and intimity are more important.
when i was a kid, aged 14, my two best friends died overuned by a car... they died virgin. and i didn't wanted to die virgin. sounds stupid, i know...
only at the age of 24, i've lost my virginity. i was waiting for the right person to come. and its still the person im with
lots of opportunities previous... but... didn't wanted it.
things change after you lose it... i think its a part of growing up, andd im happy that i was capable to wait for it. 
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WareZKing
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 20:00 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | Who wants to be some 40 yr old virgin right? |
"they feel like bags of sand"
"My fate to live and die in the shadows."
LUBE IS FOR PUSSIES
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mYslead
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 20:30 Post subject: |
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| WareZKing wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | Who wants to be some 40 yr old virgin right? |
"they feel like bags of sand" |
lmao
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_SiN_
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 20:33 Post subject: |
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Nope.
Watercooled 5950X | AORUS Master X570 | Asus RTX 3090 TUF Gaming OC | 64Gb RAM | 1Tb 970 Evo Plus + 2Tb 660p | etc etc
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 21:00 Post subject: |
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| mYslead wrote: | | WareZKing wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | Who wants to be some 40 yr old virgin right? |
"they feel like bags of sand" |
lmao |
OK I don't get this bag of sand thing
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Aug 2006 21:27 Post subject: |
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Didn't get laid until I was 21 or was it 20. Oh shit i dont know, that's fucked.
But I always thought I'd die a virgin, but at 20 or 21 whatever it was I had all my firsts in one night: kiss, etc. etc.
I dont get that much sex and I think sex is over-rated. I prefer the cuddling shit. I shoulda been born a woman I think most times. Even women are amazed at the lack of my sex sex drive. Still I have a mad drive for HJ's and BJ's. Too much pron as a kid I think, liking the handies and not the banging.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 03:45 Post subject: |
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I dont think sex is overrated. It is an important part of a stable relationship. Just the focus shouldnt be on sex. The focus should be on building a relationship - getting to know the person, building trust, sharing things, being together etc
I dont think its fair the shit virgin's have to take sometimes.
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 04:08 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | I dont think sex is overrated. It is an important part of a stable relationship. Just the focus shouldnt be on sex. The focus should be on building a relationship - getting to know the person, building trust, sharing things, being together etc
I dont think its fair the shit virgin's have to take sometimes. |
Overrated sex, I was thinking more in terms of the emphasis and ideals society places on it. It is really important when it comes to a relationship, it helps hold the couple together but it doesn’t keep them together. It is like what you said “focus shouldn't be on sex. The focus should be on building a relationship - getting to know the person, building trust, sharing things, being together etc. “
I don’t think there is anything wrong with being a virgin if you haven’t met the right person. I just find some people who wait too long (not because of a personal belief or religion) develop some sort of hang up about it, probably because of other peoples attitudes. I have never been with a virgin so I don’t really know but I had a girlfriend who was like this. Finally I sat her down one day and talked. Turns out her doctor tried to to a pap test on her @ 15 yrs and ripped her and gave her stitches. I think that doctor should of been reported. No one does pap tests on non-sexually active 15 yr olds. Then the fucktard told her she was going to have problems when she did decide to have sex. (I don’t think I would want to have sex after that too). Also had a guy friend who didn’t have sex for 5 yrs. He had to get viagre to do it with his girlfriend he was so nervous.
Yea I feel for the shit virgins have to go through but I feel sorry for the married guys who aren’t getting it. Married, so they aren’t suppose to cheat right? But yet some of them maybe get it 2 or 3 times a year. Imagine being married with kids (so you can’t leave without hurting them) and no sex. Cheating of course is wrong but sometimes you can’t blame them because sex is a basic human need. These are not some guys playing the field.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 05:02 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | I dont think sex is overrated. It is an important part of a stable relationship. Just the focus shouldnt be on sex. The focus should be on building a relationship - getting to know the person, building trust, sharing things, being together etc
I dont think its fair the shit virgin's have to take sometimes. |
Overrated sex, I was thinking more in terms of the emphasis and ideals society places on it. It is really important when it comes to a relationship, it helps hold the couple together but it doesn’t keep them together. It is like what you said “focus shouldn't be on sex. The focus should be on building a relationship - getting to know the person, building trust, sharing things, being together etc. “
I don’t think there is anything wrong with being a virgin if you haven’t met the right person. I just find some people who wait too long (not because of a personal belief or religion) develop some sort of hang up about it, probably because of other peoples attitudes. I have never been with a virgin so I don’t really know but I had a girlfriend who was like this. Finally I sat her down one day and talked. Turns out her doctor tried to to a pap test on her @ 15 yrs and ripped her and gave her stitches. I think that doctor should of been reported. No one does pap tests on non-sexually active 15 yr olds. Then the fucktard told her she was going to have problems when she did decide to have sex. (I don’t think I would want to have sex after that too). Also had a guy friend who didn’t have sex for 5 yrs. He had to get viagre to do it with his girlfriend he was so nervous.
Yea I feel for the shit virgins have to go through but I feel sorry for the married guys who aren’t getting it. Married, so they aren’t suppose to cheat right? But yet some of them maybe get it 2 or 3 times a year. Imagine being married with kids (so you can’t leave without hurting them) and no sex. Cheating of course is wrong but sometimes you can’t blame them because sex is a basic human need. These are not some guys playing the field. |
She ripped? Ouch
Reminds me of one of my friends. The first time he had sex he tore his foreskin. DIdnt have sex for a few years because of it.
I can understand people being nervous. Virgin or not. Fuck, I get nervous the first time im with a girl im really into.
I dont wanna suck and you dont want to do something the person isnt into.
Ive had a few girls give me the "wtf are doing" look while have sex because i bit their neck or something. |
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 05:16 Post subject: |
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@syco
Yes she did rip a bit. She had huge hang ups over it. I still blame the doctor. In terms of sex there are huge ways around this.
See, tearing of the foreskin is why I believe in circumcision. I have guy friend who have told me about that too. You can end up with a small infection that can be quite painful. When you get old too the foreskin shrinks and it tears. In the hospital some guys end up having to get it done at 70 yrs.
You know what I think people should do the first time. Is just get it over with. Just do it, nothing special, a 3 min thing just to get it outta the way. Then they would be more relaxed the next time. Things could be more relaxed. You know?
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Ive had a few girls give me the "wtf are doing" look while have sex because i bit their neck or something. |
Maybe you both didn’t know each other enough before you did it.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 05:24 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | @syco
Yes she did rip a bit. She had huge hang ups over it. I still blame the doctor. In terms of sex there are huge ways around this.
See, tearing of the foreskin is why I believe in circumcision. I have guy friend who have told me about that too. You can end up with a small infection that can be quite painful. When you get old too the foreskin shrinks and it tears. In the hospital some guys end up having to get it done at 70 yrs.
You know what I think people should do the first time. Is just get it over with. Just do it, nothing special, a 3 min thing just to get it outta the way. Then they would be more relaxed the next time. Things could be more relaxed. You know?
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Ive had a few girls give me the "wtf are doing" look while have sex because i bit their neck or something. |
Maybe you both didn’t know each other enough before you did it. |
I dont think they were into it to be honest. Which sucked for me...
Im not cut and Ive never had it rip. The first time I had sex it hurt because of the thing that 'rips' the first time the skin goes all the way back like that.
All I know being cut probably sucks. Less sensation, less pleasure.
And this crap about cut guys being cleaner...bullshit. Unless you deliberatly dont wash yourself, guys with foreskin are just as clean as cut guys. |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 06:47 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | @syco
Yes she did rip a bit. She had huge hang ups over it. I still blame the doctor. In terms of sex there are huge ways around this.
See, tearing of the foreskin is why I believe in circumcision. I have guy friend who have told me about that too. You can end up with a small infection that can be quite painful. When you get old too the foreskin shrinks and it tears. In the hospital some guys end up having to get it done at 70 yrs.
You know what I think people should do the first time. Is just get it over with. Just do it, nothing special, a 3 min thing just to get it outta the way. Then they would be more relaxed the next time. Things could be more relaxed. You know?
Maybe you both didn’t know each other enough before you did it. |
I dont think they were into it to be honest. Which sucked for me...
Im not cut and Ive never had it rip. The first time I had sex it hurt because of the thing that 'rips' the first time the skin goes all the way back like that.
All I know being cut probably sucks. Less sensation, less pleasure.
And this crap about cut guys being cleaner...bullshit. Unless you deliberatly dont wash yourself, guys with foreskin are just as clean as cut guys. |
Yes you are right about being clean but a lot of guys are lazy. Too lazy to take the 1 min it takes to clean themselves. Some of them just don't know either. |
Thats like not brushing your teeth.
It takes 2 seconds in the shower you know?
And if you dont know enough to clean your pecker, you shouldnt have one |
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Spun[k]
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 15:42 Post subject: |
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meh i lost my virginity when i was like.. 18 ?
Sex is great.. but foreplay is more fun imho.... ^_^
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 15:53 Post subject: |
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Fri, 4th Aug 2006 15:59 Post subject: |
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I wish.. but sadly no, haven't been for a long time.
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