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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 03:20 Post subject: |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 03:22 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: |
One day we will be reading about injurious and his collection of women in his basement. LOL. How many do you have? 
Attend a lecture, smart girls go to lectures. I meet 2 of my boyfriends tho a job. Probably school is your best bet.
I don't know about meeting people at bars. I never had luck. I could get pretty lucky with the drinks some nights. You walk up to the drink line up and ask the guy in front me "Is this the drink lineup"
him: "yes"
Me: "is it moving"
him "not bad"
Usually, when he gets to the front he buys you a drink. They insist on it too, even if you say no. It is weird, I don't understand why you would buy someone a drink and not ask to dance or at least chat them up after. Maybe they were looking for really drunk girls, easy pickup or something. |
Or maybe they were just being nice?  |
I am sure they were being nice. But usually if a guy buys a girl a drink he gets her hopes up. It is suppose to be one of those stupid signals.
I think guys have to make themselves more obvious and take more risks. I did see one guy once and I haven’t forgot him. Man in white shirt is what I call him. We must of must of eye contact like 50 times. He caught me looking at him first and I got really embarrassed and he started laughing at me. We didn’t even dance with anybody, basically just sat there staring at each other from across the room, for 3 hrs. Then my friend puked and we left. Probably a good thing too. well maybe. |
Why didnt you make a move?
Ive done the "hi, how ya doin? can I buy you a drink" routine so many fuckin times. Its far more exciting if a girl walks up to you and initates things.
Personally, I dont do that anymore. Well, not lately. I wait to be hit on. If I dont get hit on, I enjoy the night and party with my boys. It shows confidence and self assurance if a woman is willing to come hit on a guy...imo |
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 04:47 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: |
Or maybe they were just being nice? |
I am sure they were being nice. But usually if a guy buys a girl a drink he gets her hopes up. It is suppose to be one of those stupid signals.
I think guys have to make themselves more obvious and take more risks. I did see one guy once and I haven’t forgot him. Man in white shirt is what I call him. We must of must of eye contact like 50 times. He caught me looking at him first and I got really embarrassed and he started laughing at me. We didn’t even dance with anybody, basically just sat there staring at each other from across the room, for 3 hrs. Then my friend puked and we left. Probably a good thing too. well maybe. |
Why didnt you make a move?
Ive done the "hi, how ya doin? can I buy you a drink" routine so many fuckin times. Its far more exciting if a girl walks up to you and initates things.
Personally, I dont do that anymore. Well, not lately. I wait to be hit on. If I dont get hit on, I enjoy the night and party with my boys. It shows confidence and self assurance if a woman is willing to come hit on a guy...imo |
Maybe some guys would think like you do, but a women can give them the wrong idea sometimes when she is the forward one. Ohh the rejection would be horrible.
I didn’t make the first move because felt really uncomfortable with it. I had the whole butterfly thing going on and how are you suppose talk to someone when you feel like that. I don’t know, the guy made me nervous.
I can totally understand where you are coming from tho about the girl approaching you. It is more unique definitely and you do beat to your own drum.
I think it is the guys job to hit on the women. If I was to end up with that guy I would find it conformable that he was attracted to me in the first place. I wasn’t some afterthought. KInda like Meh, ya shes ok, I will go for it, she came onto me and I have nothing better to do.
A guy got his gum stick in my hair and tried to chew it out. I thought he was hitting on me and went for it on the dance floor cuz the guy was hot. I didn’t know about the gum. (He was my good guys friend best friend) The next day at work I was the laughing stock. Everybody kept asking me if I wanted some gum. I can totally laugh at it now. I see the guy all the time too. He works for the Coast Guard now. His last 3 girlfriends were models.
I guess I am confident and self assured in a different way.
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 06:30 Post subject: |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 07:26 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: |
I am sure they were being nice. But usually if a guy buys a girl a drink he gets her hopes up. It is suppose to be one of those stupid signals.
I think guys have to make themselves more obvious and take more risks. I did see one guy once and I haven’t forgot him. Man in white shirt is what I call him. We must of must of eye contact like 50 times. He caught me looking at him first and I got really embarrassed and he started laughing at me. We didn’t even dance with anybody, basically just sat there staring at each other from across the room, for 3 hrs. Then my friend puked and we left. Probably a good thing too. well maybe. |
Why didnt you make a move?
Ive done the "hi, how ya doin? can I buy you a drink" routine so many fuckin times. Its far more exciting if a girl walks up to you and initates things.
Personally, I dont do that anymore. Well, not lately. I wait to be hit on. If I dont get hit on, I enjoy the night and party with my boys. It shows confidence and self assurance if a woman is willing to come hit on a guy...imo |
Maybe some guys would think like you do, but a women can give them the wrong idea sometimes when she is the forward one. Ohh the rejection would be horrible.
I didn’t make the first move because felt really uncomfortable with it. I had the whole butterfly thing going on and how are you suppose talk to someone when you feel like that. I don’t know, the guy made me nervous.
I can totally understand where you are coming from tho about the girl approaching you. It is more unique definitely and you do beat to your own drum.
I think it is the guys job to hit on the women. If I was to end up with that guy I would find it conformable that he was attracted to me in the first place. I wasn’t some afterthought. KInda like Meh, ya shes ok, I will go for it, she came onto me and I have nothing better to do.
A guy got his gum stick in my hair and tried to chew it out. I thought he was hitting on me and went for it on the dance floor cuz the guy was hot. I didn’t know about the gum. (He was my good guys friend best friend) The next day at work I was the laughing stock. Everybody kept asking me if I wanted some gum. I can totally laugh at it now. I see the guy all the time too. He works for the Coast Guard now. His last 3 girlfriends were models.
I guess I am confident and self assured in a different way. |
Fair enough
The gum thing is classic 
Still, you should try makin the first move every now and again. You might meet someone who respects a woman who can be forward and classy
As for rejection, meh, who cares? whats the worst someone can say? fuck off or call you some kinda name...meh, no worries you move on and find a next person
You know how many dirty looks and "im gunna kill you freak" looks ive gotten when trying to break the ice at a bar or something? cant count em...but thats the whole fun part. sometimes the reactions are fuckin priceless and as long as your cool about things, its not embarassing.
See, my friends and I, we play games at the bar. Its childish i know, but fuck, we're kids at heart. Anyway, we take turns hitting on the hottest woman in the club (if we want to fight, the boyfriend part doesnt matter) with the cornyest lines. Like one nite it would be my turn, the next nite it someone elses etc Ive been slapped so many times I find it hilarious maybe you dont? |
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X_Dror
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 11:36 Post subject: |
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YUCK! Mark, how can you even thing about 13-16 girls?! :puke:
They are so dumb it's impossible to even talk to them.
When they see someone older than them they just throw themselves on him and that's so cheap, it's just.... mehhhhh.
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 11:55 Post subject: |
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| X_Dror wrote: | YUCK! Mark, how can you even thing about 13-16 girls?! :puke:
They are so dumb it's impossible to even talk to them.
When they see someone older than them they just throw themselves on him and that's so cheap, it's just.... mehhhhh. |
Just thinking... There's a rare kind of them that's less dumb than the mainstream.
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 13:07 Post subject: |
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deelix
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Godlikez*
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 19:42 Post subject: |
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| Godlikez* wrote: | | its probably because your ugly. |
Have you seen me?
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deelix
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 19:44 Post subject: |
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| mark322 wrote: | | Godlikez* wrote: | | its probably because your ugly. |
Have you seen me? |
I have <3
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 20:35 Post subject: |
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My girlfriend thinks you
1. Have a big nose (she asked me not to put that bit in cause it was mean :\)
2. Have long hair (this is not a good thing)
3. Are too young to try facial hair.. really.. thats not a good look.
So in a constructive sense you may want to shave and get a haircut, im sure the nose thing is a matter of opinion, personally I didn't notice.. I do agree with the hair and "beard" thing too..
Anyway, I don't see what your rush is, you already said that by the time you hit College/Uni you will find yourself the perfect woman, so why are you kicking your own balls about it now? Seems stupid to me. Women are evil in the most, better off waiting until your sure you can find a sane one..
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 20:42 Post subject: |
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Wow, you guys need to judge in " The next super model" or whatever reality show.
Tell your girlfriend that I realy appreciate her opinion.
My hair is a bit different now (Still long), don't think that I'm gonna cut it till the army. I'll get myself shaved and about my nose.. Well.. I'm OK with it.
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X_Dror
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 20:44 Post subject: |
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Damn!
And i thought you are the one in your avatar mark.
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deelix
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 22:44 Post subject: |
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Syn... that was so cruel! 
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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deelix
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 22:51 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 22:53 Post subject: |
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Well some girls like facial hair. Anyway you probaly have more *luck* when you shave.
You just gotto look like you want to look. Girls like confidence, if you think you look great with facial hair, girls will notice your attitude and be attracted to it.
Also it's no shame to lose your virginity at 18-21.
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 22:59 Post subject: |
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| Double-=V=- wrote: | Well some girls like facial hair. Anyway you probaly have more *luck* when you shave.
You just gotto look like you want to look. Girls like confidence, if you think you look great with facial hair, girls will notice your attitude and be attracted to it.
Also it's no shame to lose your virginity at 18-21. |
I agree in some respects, you still have to look good, regardless of your confidence, it helps a LOT to be confident but you need to get a girl to look at you, which takes some kind of attraction.
The facial hair might not look so bad if it was neatened up a little, or if the under nose hair was removed and the beard was cleaned up a little.. Seriously I'm not trying to be an ass, this isn't a "I iz teh best lookingzor" thing, I genuinely want to help.. if I thought you where too ugly to pull I would have said it by now  ! "give up, you will be a virgin till you die.."
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deelix
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 23:01 Post subject: |
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A friend of mine didn't get any girls, after he became emo and got long hair he got teh chix. wtf.
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 23:01 Post subject: |
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| [sYn] wrote: | | People moan too much about love at a young age, its not important, and the sooner people realise that the better.. Concentrate on getting a good education, setting yourself up with a good future, then find yourself a nice girl to share it with.. Sure have some sex along the way but don't make it your number 1 priority cause your only going to end up boning your life.. |
My life isn't boring, thank you very much! GRRRR!
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here. |
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Tue, 18th Jul 2006 23:03 Post subject: |
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Oh, another GF comment..
"If a guy was really confident but looked utterly ridiculous it would turn me off even more"
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