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| Posted: Mon, 4th Jul 2016 16:04 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 4th Jul 2016 16:11 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 4th Jul 2016 16:32 Post subject: |
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According to Alain de Botton one should approach his partner with understanding and love as if they were a kid. Can we also use these tactics to improve our relationships with adults? 
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Nalo
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| Nalo wrote: | Most of the time children respond well to decisions if they are explained properly, the reasons why they can or cannot do something. I feel that would be a better way to approach behaviour and it fosters a relationship built on trust. Not manipulation. My parenting style is not in agreement with the article.
 Spoiler: | Everyone has limits of patience and sometimes you just have to say NO!  |
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Screaming “Don’t make me turn this car around!” never works. That’s what Zollman calls a noncredible threat—kids see through it, because they know it means you’ll suffer too. So pick punishments that benefit you. Like: “Stop punching your sister or we’re going to Grandma’s instead of the movies.” |
this! Don`t (never!) make threats you can`t fulfill.
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