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i was a little unclear in my initial post on some things i guess. that caused some misinterpretations here.
after the attempt to kiss her failed, it was me who stopped having fun, it was me who turned a little numb, she just kept flirting with me as if nothing had happened.
thinking of it now, i guess it wasn't a clear "No" from her side...but i just took it like that. MISTAKE!
as jean pointed out, there's different kinds of girls... and i think fisk hit the nail on the head here.
yes she was playing and testing...and i did bad. but that doesn't mean much.
i held her hand all the time, when i released her, she took it back. it's not like she didn't show interest.
the fact that she didn't want to kiss, doesn't automatically mean she wasn't honest about her feelings.
i'm gonna let some time pass...and i'll try again. i don't feel fucked over at all.
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 19:56 Post subject: |
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There's a fucking ban button?
DUDE! Screenshot please! Please!
I always thought it was something like where you type a username then time and then click submit and it'll ban someone.
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Grees
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 20:02 Post subject: |
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Drop down your pants in front of her.
If she kicks ya in the nuts, she dislikes you
If she bends down and do the naughty thing, she likes you.
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Griffon
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 20:11 Post subject: |
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| Grees wrote: | Drop down your pants in front of her.
If she kicks ya in the nuts, she dislikes you
If she bends down and do the naughty thing, she likes you. |
Ouchhhhhhhhhhhh... Weird0 don't listen to the guy if you want your nuts to be... to be.
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 20:13 Post subject: |
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| Griffon wrote: | | don't listen to the guy |
i don't.
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Grees
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 20:15 Post subject: |
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 20:29 Post subject: |
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Bottom line .. if a girl laps up all your attention but doesn’t share any physical tenderness & intimacy with you .. she is fucking with your head ..
Just like a guy who fucks around with a girl who cares about him .. but treats her like shit emotionally ..
Weirdo.. I work on the premise that if you cross the line of friendship into the realm of intimacy .. you don’t have to say sorry any more .. you don’t have to be polite any more because you have crossed into a much deeper realm where you share a mutual understanding of respect & affection .
If a girl you just shagged expects you to say please .. fucked up situation Imo
Women don’t have to be tender & intimate .. with all guys .. only the ones who they have accepted love from .
Men don’t have to be warm, kind, attentive ect .. to all women .. only the ones who are physically tender & intimate with him .
Don’t let women walk all over you .. they wont respect you for it .. if anything they will think less of you for it
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 23:25 Post subject: |
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| ChinUp wrote: | if you know anything about women you know they will milk men for attention .. screw them around emotionally .. without any intention of actually backing up there advances ..
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This is definitely true, really pisses me off. Especially when a girl is really leading you on, then you find out she has a boyfriend.
One time I was dancing with this girl, flirting with her etc. Then when it was time to leave I asked for her number, then she tells me she has a boyfriend. I asked her what the fuck she was doing with me for most of the night then, and she said she was having fun. Bitch.
I even slept with this one girl, exchanged numbers, etc. She was really hot, and I was hoping for a relationship. Then the morning after, she wakes me up at about 7am and tell me to get out quickly because her boyfriend is coming back in a couple of hours. I was pissed off.
One club I went to had the right idea, you wear stickers saying whether you're taken or not. Red for stop, green for go, amber for maybe!
What i'm getting at, is don't get too emotionally involved just from one night of fun. I learned that the hard way. Really, you should be able to come away from that night without being worried if the girl is going to call, or be worried about ruining your chances by trying to kiss her.
It can backfire sometimes, and you'll miss chances that you could have taken, but generally it works in the positive. One night I was flirting with this girl, the usual. But I didn't try it on, just got her number and that was it.
Then I started getting calls from her mates asking me if i'm gay for not getting it on with an obviously up for it girl. I mean, wtf!
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 00:08 Post subject: |
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@ChinUp:
First of all, i agree "sorry" was not the right thing to say.
WE didn't cross the line to intimacy. I did.
We weren't friends before, we just knew each other a little bit.
| ChinUp wrote: | | If a girl you just shagged expects you to say please .. fucked up situation Imo |
i don't see the connection to my story here.
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anyways, i just talked to someone who knows her for a long time.
he told me this girl never had a relationship. she knows many guys, she mostly hangs out with guys, also with him, but she never gets intimate.
he told me he experienced the exact same thing as me...it starts promising but ends nowhere.
i just wonder what she gets out of it.
and if she likes what she does or just can't do better.
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 09:10 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 17:24 Post subject: |
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I'd say she's got frightened.
If what the fellow says is true then she's a modern say cockroach and you're an open kitchen with the lights off.
She runs around does her thing, but when the lights come up and she's exposed for what she is then runs and hides. 
I'd say chill with her. Ask her out. If she never had a relationship someone should show her it ain't as bad as she thinks it is. Or maybe she had a few relationships that ended with a whiskey bottle on the floor, her tied up to the bed and some fellow with a monster for a cock made her bum-bum feel all tingly-like.
Anyway. Seeing how the things aren’t back to where they’ve been I’d say go up to her and talk to her, y’know? Throw in your weird0 charm at her. Make her beg for more wine before you continue into the bedroom. Make her call out your name followed by someone else’s name that you never met in your life. Then toss her out on the street and come back here and say; waldo, you’re been absolutely right… she’s one crazy bitch!
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 20:07 Post subject: |
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| weird0 wrote: | | ChinUp wrote: | | If a girl you just shagged expects you to say please .. fucked up situation Imo |
i don't see the connection to my story here. |
sorry .. polite .. please … being formal in an informal situation ..
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anyways, i just talked to someone who knows her for a long time.
he told me this girl never had a relationship. she knows many guys, she mostly hangs out with guys, also with him, but she never gets intimate.
he told me he experienced the exact same thing as me...it starts promising but ends nowhere.
i just wonder what she gets out of it.
and if she likes what she does or just can't do better. |
you lucky sob .. this one you simply have to educate .. she will listen if you are doing her a favor .. the only way you can do her a favor is if you don’t want anything for it .. or you care ..
see the hook .. let her know you cared ... & it hurt when she pulled away because she gave you the impression .. she wanted to share with you emotionally ..
this way she learns that she hurt you .. she learns how she hurt you & others & you give her emotional comfort because you must care & that feels good .. good enough to want to shag that person ..
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Nov 2005 20:17 Post subject: |
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Then again if she were a bi-dyke 
Mmmm... a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow  
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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