WTF is wrong with woman these days... or i'm just born to run across the wrong ones.
So after running in to many wrong ones (fucking cheats), some mentioned before somewhere in this section, i decided to go on some kind of sabath thingy. 2,5 years i kept myself from that shit (my aim was 3) and was completely happy.
Last friday it got suddenly disturbed by the cutest 20 year old girl, blue eyes, blond hair, big tits and perfectly fine ass, she was not from around and was visiting some friends to celebrate Carnaval. It was like instant fireworks and i had the best 3 days since about 2,5 years. I had the best talks and laughs and connected better than ever... she was with me for the full 3 days.
Untill last night, laying in bed together after a seriously good fuck thinking shit might go well for once, she suddenly says, "i'm a bad girl". So i'm like, "Yes you are".
"No i'm a bad BAD girl", she says and i'm like OMFG wtf now.
Turns out she has a relation what she failed to tell me. Say WHAT?!?!?!
She likes me very much she says but she will stay in her current relation because ........the other guy........ lives........closer.......by. Say WHAT?!?!?!?! ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS
So i'm that guy that HATES cheating going on a sabath for almost 3 years and the first girl i run across i'm her cheat. OMFG
So now i'm pretty pissed... felt things i didnt fell for a long time and my whole fucking sabath thingy i had going is gone. FUCK
Yes, women are bad because you go to bed with a woman because she is sexy.
It has nothing to do with you being shallow.
You didn't really bother to ask her, or talk to her either - did you? "Met her last friday", so that is what? 3 days ago. And you're wondering why she sees little value in sexual relations?
People who spend three days looking for "serious" relationships get what they deserve.
This is what FB is for. Go tell her BF that you have just been screwing her, but tell him not to worry, as he lives closer to her.
So evil xD
Though sadly there isn't much to do really, with the sentence "i like you but i prefer the other one because he lives closer" she demonstrated that she isn't worth your time.
Just let it slide and find another one, the bad luck will go away sooner or later!
@Fisk
Well i did ask that on the first day but she later told me she didnt wanted to ruin the moment.
For the rest you don't really get my story it seems cause where do i say i try to find a serious relationship in 3 days? Seriously read before you come with comments like that
@Newty
Yes! That is what FB is for but i'm not lowering myself to that crap.
sabbath? wtf is that, ILL NEVER STOP FUCKING, EVER. As a matter of fact, you my friend are fucking lucky, u got a hot chick, banged her in 3 days, and shes gone, no fucking drama there, u enjoyed now ur free, the fuck u so pissed of about?
Btw shes not from around there, goes to a carnival, of course shes gonna fuck & run.
a serious relationship should be hinted by very long and deep connections, where you share and get to know things about someone so intimate and common that you actually know that you choose right. Girl goes for a carnival for 3 days, has fun with you and u bang her, theres nothing deep there, the only thing that went deep was ur pe...
I say enjoy who you are, you are fun, you are nice, have fun but have self respect dont close up in a sabbath, in this example, u should have known something was off, thats when u switch to Fun Time. IF things ever went further and more serious THEN you could have thought about it. but ffs, if u had bad luck, just keep having fun, meeting people, (dont be a douche, going around looking for sex chances) enjoy who people are, that way you can learn, have fun, if the sex comes, well enjoy it, dont be used, and you will learn what you like, what u want, whos good, whos bad, the tendencies, the signs, and in some moment you will know what to look for or find someone and u will have experience. OR like me, you will have met a lot of people, learned how to deal with people, and left an impression in them and suddenly, new people who know old people who know you will start vouching for you and you will have your chance to meet someone good. for once....
then....
dont screw it up they are HARD to come by
if you fail, like you just did with this chick, u misjudged, just live and learn, start over you didnt lose anything more than 3 days, know u know better and keep it up, enjoy and learn.
@Fisk
Well i did ask that on the first day but she later told me she didnt wanted to ruin the moment.
For the rest you don't really get my story it seems cause where do i say i try to find a serious relationship in 3 days? Seriously read before you come with comments like that
Well, this is the parts I read, where you basically go "I run into the wrong women", but this time I might have found her... but not really, because I thought I would just get to know her for 3 days then bang her and be surprised when I didn't bother to look at her personality beyond the surface.
Lathieza wrote:
i'm just born to run across the wrong ones.
So after running in to many wrong ones (fucking cheats)
i had the best 3 days since about 2,5 years. I had the best talks and laughs and connected better than ever... she was with me for the full 3 days.
thinking shit might go well for once
Turns out she has a relation
If you just want shallow sex, and don't care about it then fine. Don't act all Mr-Mchurtypants because you had casual sex and didn't really get to know the girl first.
Or did you want something more? Which is it? Stop lying to yourself.
This is a very neat comment. My sabath thingy had some other reasons also... lost company, being bankrupt still 6 months (total 3 year) before i'm "clean". And thats only a couple of the reasons for my break.
Anyway, like i said, i only needed a good rant.
I'm not putting my head down. Not even close. Normally carnaval would have ended for me yesterday because lack of funds but today i already made my arrangements so i'm out in a bit again. Now the beast is out!
Dude, casual sex is fine. But if you want something more than that, get to know the girl proper first, and don't just look at the face and follow your dick. ^^
I have a thing against cheating people. Thats it. And like i said, first new contact, i'm the cheat. Just needed a rant.
Well the only reason you have to feel bad about it is if you knew, or felt that something was awry and didn't care. And I guess that's the part you're not telling us, that you had a feeling or knew she was taken and didn't care.
But if you didn't know, then fuck man - just don't kid yourself. You wanted to fuck someone and obviously didn't care much about who she was, if she was together with someone, etc. (since it was 3 days after knowing her). So it shouldn't really matter.
Ive been cheated over 10 times, all serious relationships which i wanted to keep, i just set my mind into "fuck them, im the one who can be proud and keep going with a clean sheet, at least i know better now, fuck em oh yes, and i refined my experience & sexual skills now im finesse lvl 5 someone else is gonna enjoy it" and started over
I can feel your pain, but never let yourself down for a bump on the road, learn from it.
Oh and thats tough, im still young and still working in offices, hopefully some day i can progress into independence, but i cant imagine how hard it would be to have to take a step down... :S hope you can restart and do it better this time around.
@Fisk
No i really didnt know otherwise i wouldnt have done it. Like i said, i despise cheaters and i don't want or need to be part of it. You might be right with some pointers though which i might not admit.
Anyway i cant bother about the girl anymore i was just pissed at the moment since it was a bit shocking and fresh so i needed the rant. Ranting feels gooooood from time to time.
So today i was going out again and it seems there is something in the air or so. Ended up with some girl but i didnt take her home this time. Could have. if i wanted to but that didnt feel right at this moment. And i'm also not the taking advantage kinda guy. She's a enfant doctor, so thats pretty cool (never had a doctor before). I have her number so i might give her a call in the next couple of days. And no, i didnt tell her about the above girl.
@lopin
Cheated on 10 times... wow thats just sick dude. I thought i had a pretty hard time with my 4 times. Or was this all the same woman? Still sucks anyway
And no, i'm not restarting again. I'm not allowed for 10 years or so because of that . Soon i'll start looking for a job again, will be hard. Havent worked under a boss since i was 17. Ah well, time will tell.
I have a thing against cheating people. Thats it. And like i said, first new contact, i'm the cheat. Just needed a rant.
You wanna bitch about this, totally understandable.
Just my 2 bits...
maybe its time to change your perspective a bit. You don't like cheaters, then take the time to find out what the girl is really like. Wait 3 months before you sleep with them you can find out all sorts of goodies, like if they have a huge herpes explosion on their mouth, if they are stupid, flacky, sleep around. Better yet. Lie, steal, disrespect your stuff, or CHEAT.
Don't beat yourself up that she cheated with you. That is her bad shit, not yours. Crappy it happened tho.
Amongst all the replies on here I believe garus' first post summed it up nicely.
You need to spend more time getting to know the woman to really figure out if she just likes sausage from all over the world or if she's looking for that special one.
Either way, you dumped ya load so I'd look at it positively overall
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Heh, if it was the same women i would have killed her LOL, nah never forgive cheating, one time is enough, off they go.
But yeah, people are very insecure, so it isnt uncommon to get cheated on... and then theres the whores who think they can fuck everyone and not care about themselves until they are 30 and need to get married.
Just my 2 bits...
maybe its time to change your perspective a bit. You don't like cheaters, then take the time to find out what the girl is really like. Wait 3 months before you sleep with them you can find out all sorts of goodies, like if they have a huge herpes explosion on their mouth, if they are stupid, flacky, sleep around. Better yet. Lie, steal, disrespect your stuff, or CHEAT.
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Is that some kind of joke or are you 15 years old?
Just my 2 bits...
maybe its time to change your perspective a bit. You don't like cheaters, then take the time to find out what the girl is really like. Wait 3 months before you sleep with them you can find out all sorts of goodies, like if they have a huge herpes explosion on their mouth, if they are stupid, flacky, sleep around. Better yet. Lie, steal, disrespect your stuff, or CHEAT.
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Is that some kind of joke or are you 15 years old?
I can understand that giving a "candidate" 3 months before you sleep with them, gives a better insight of that person. And to be fair it is good advice and i can see this work for some people but on the other side... good sex is also a big factor for me.
And to be honest, 3 months still doesnt learn you everything about a person. What if they cheat in the 4th month. You can never tell for sure.
I can understand that giving a "candidate" 3 months before you sleep with them, gives a better insight of that person. And to be fair it is good advice and i can see this work for some people but on the other side... good sex is also a big factor for me.
And to be honest, 3 months still doesnt learn you everything about a person. What if they cheat in the 4th month. You can never tell for sure.
But yeah, safe sex for sure for the first months
Whatever works right? and it really doesn't matter if you are the kind of person who can easily let things go and not get pissed off. Some people take sex wayyy to seriously and then get pissed off cuz it doesn't go their way. Its those people that should be a bit more careful.
I just threw out 3 months, usually it takes me 3 months before I really start to fucking hate a person. You never really know a person, people change all the time. There are no guarantees
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