It's something I have to bitch about, because it sucks. My GF and myself live together, and everything is peachy, but now, she went home for part of summer, 3 weeks ago, and I had to stay here in this city, to work, and gather some funds to risk hiring two more people at my company. I'm really happy about work stuff, but everyday, when I stop work, and when I usually spend my time with my GF, I am bored now. I tried watching movies, playing games, fapping to porn, all that. It doesn't work anymore. Shit. What do I do? Can't leave the city, I work saturdays and sundays too She can't come either, because her parents are renovating, and she's managing the whole thing, her being an architect and all.
I never had this before, because either we weren't apart for so long, or I didn't have GF before this one, and when I felt like it, just went out to a retro-club, and hooked up with someone.
This is fucking pain I'm talking about here. What do you guys do, to solve these kinds of problems. Like I said, fapping won't do anymore, and gaming only works for like 20 minutes.
I hang out with my friends, when we find time, but since we got out of college, all of us have been hard working workaholics.
EDIT: perhaps I should try out some kinky porn stuff, but I never found that too much fun before.
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you _could_ try to pick up the phone and talk to her, or maybe even skype with her?
Obviously, we do skype, a lot, but it's not the same, you can't do things over skype, and I don't mean just sexually. You can't do things together, and men like doing things together. Like going to lasertag together, or cooking together, you know, good stuff.
Would you please stop bitching? Compared to me you are in the kiddy's league... 3 weeks... My GF is >2000km away from where I am and we managed this for 6 years now
I spend thousands on phone bills... really ... at least 5000-6000€
Radicalus --Don't listen to them. They are just jealous.
Don't worry this will all pass. Maybe something to think about is being too dependent on her. I don't know if this is the case but I was too much like that in the past. Now I always make sure I have part of my own life too. I love it when the other half goes away. LOVE IT. I do the happy dance and everything.
Radicalus --Don't listen to them. They are just jealous.
Yes, I am. That's why this doesn't belong in the bitching session.. You don't win millions at the lottery, then come here to cry about not knowing how to spend the money, trying to disguise it as a "problem".
Radicalus --Don't listen to them. They are just jealous.
Yes, I am. That's why this doesn't belong in the bitching session.. You don't win millions at the lottery, then come here to cry about not knowing how to spend the money, trying to disguise it as a "problem".
+1
I thought he 'accidentally' killed his gf and dumped the body in the river so now he misses her, what a disappointing thread.
Radicalus --Don't listen to them. They are just jealous.
Don't worry this will all pass. Maybe something to think about is being too dependent on her. I don't know if this is the case but I was too much like that in the past. Now I always make sure I have part of my own life too. I love it when the other half goes away. LOVE IT. I do the happy dance and everything.
Thing is, we're very independent, when near each other, and I basically follow the philosophy, that couples are happiest, when they don't force each other's hobbies on each others and the likes. We spend a lot of time doing our own thing, and doing what we both like together, this way, neither of us has to spend time with the other, just to please the other. This means, we spend probably less time doing things together, than many other couples, but the time we do spend together is memorable and always epic. I wish I could dance, when she leaves, but instead, my work has gone out of focus.
I know some think this thread doesn't deliver, that's not a problem for me, I just wanted to see how others handled situations of this nature, I'm not here to martyr myself, and dish for pity, neither am I here to brag, I just wanted opinions, sorry if that didn't come across.
We aren't even half serious I can relate very well to that. All the time that I am able to spend with my GF is just pure awesome... It's like a tv show... the life in between, when we do not see each other is like huge shallow break with the same advertisements running over and over again.
With her it's like my life is actually moving forward. At least I'm lucky to at least work in a sector that interests me and that I'm actually working quite a lot to keep my focus away. But when you return to an empty home it's always the same: Try to numd down the senses by browsing on nfohump, playing videogames and watching... documentaries :>
Would you please stop bitching? Compared to me you are in the kiddy's league... 3 weeks... My GF is >2000km away from where I am and we managed this for 6 years now
I spend thousands on phone bills... really ... at least 5000-6000€
And, she's keeping happy by boinking everything that is a big sorta hunky hot husky male, wherever she is..
Guarantee it, esp. if she aaalways says how much she is missing you, or if she states she feels bad for being away from you..
While she was away you should have done some manly things like spending some time in the great outdoors to do some fishing or hunting. Or go with some friends to a stripper bar. Or do the stuff you always wanted to do but can't since your gf is there 24/7. Come on she is not your mother or is she?
Skype and MSN kept the bills low My monthly phone bill (just mobile) was ~80-110€ a month... but since I have the new contract it's just 70€ max
still a bad deal tho :/ I dont call much, and if im under 120 min a month and under 90 sms I dont have to pay anything. My grandmother her their first bill from them after 6 months; 30 NOK I use my phone a little, but largest bill iv gotten is around 12€ for a month.
They earn their money trough expensive technical support and as an ISP they aren't cheap :/
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She can't come either, because her parents are renovating, and she's managing the whole thing, her being an architect and all.
I can relate very well to that. All the time that I am able to spend with my GF is just pure awesome... It's like a tv show... the life in between, when we do not see each other is like huge shallow break with the same advertisements running over and over again.
Skype 
My monthly phone bill (just mobile) was ~80-110€ a month... but since I have the new contract it's just 70€ max 
