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 Posted: Thu, 25th Feb 2010 19:36 Post subject: Boy meets Girl. And then another Girl |
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Once upon a time there was a boy who was madly in love with a girl and she was madly in love with him.
But one day she felt she didn't love him anymore and so she told him.
All was good for her and she moved to another town.
The boy on the other hand was devastated. He saw his world, his future shatter and fall down in pieces.
He thought about killing himself, alot.
The boy tried to mend things with her but for her it was over and for him the damage was done.
He tried going on with life but things felt bland and dull. He went to a doctor but even the pills didn't help.
Now, one day, the boy meets another girl and falls in love. Suddenly everything is good again, life is bright and good.
Then the boy tried getting back in touch with the other girl. He realized he couldn't be mad at her, hasn't been the whole time.
Sad is what he was, because of her but she didn't do it to hurt him but because it was what she felt was right to do.
So the boy is happy again with his new girl but still has contact to the other one. His current girl knows of that and doesn't object to it.
Every once in a while the boy and the other girl meet or talk on the phone or something.
All is good until one day the boy realizes something.
He loves his girl more than anything and does not want any other girl but still his heart tells him he still feels something for the other girl.
The boy would never be unfaithful to his girl but still feels bad that he has feelings for the other girl.
He is sure the other girl has no feelings what so ever for him anymore. At least nothing that goes further than very good friends, like siblings perhaps.
But yet he feels bad for it. He knows he can't tell any of the two.
His girl would probably hate him for it and the other girl would think it's awkward and cease the contact.
He does not want any of those things.
What is he to do?
So, I thought about ending this with something stupid, like “And the question he asks himself is: Do water melons feel pain when their seeds are spit out?” but I decided against it.
I'll probably get a lot of stupid answers to this and a lot of answers I won't like.
To be honest, this is less a real question but more me having the urge to tell this to somebody and where better to do this than the anonymity of the internet?
Because I know that bringing personal feelings and problems to NFOHump is stupid for there is next to no empathy around this board.
Like I said because I'll probably won't like most of the answers I'll get, I probably won't post in this thread again.
Do with it as you see fit.
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Feb 2010 20:01 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Feb 2010 20:03 Post subject: |
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...and that's exactly why one should cut off any form of contact from an ex gf, especially if it was her who ended the relationship. far from eye, far from heart, like the old saying goes (except if the relationship was ended on good/mutual terms, which it obviously wasn't in your case)
like you said yourself, the only way to get over the old one is getting a new one - but re-establishing contact to your ex is like shooting yourself in the foot.
i've been there before too, and while it always feels great to have a chat and mentally dig around in your past, it just prevents you from moving on. and at the same time, no other girl will be ex aequo to her because the things in life one cherishes the most are those one can never have (again).
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Feb 2010 20:10 Post subject: |
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Its like upgrading your pc, i wouldnt be overly concerned about it, just move on..
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Epsilon
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Feb 2010 21:44 Post subject: |
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posting in a timechange thread... oh wai-
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Lutzifer
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Feb 2010 22:29 Post subject: |
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love is a weird thing. Try not to go into a new relationship when you still have feelings for somebody else. At least as long as that is not just some form of platonic love for the person you used to love.
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 00:07 Post subject: |
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Heh contact with old girlfriends, they could never forgive me to keep in contact with me.
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Lutzifer
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 00:20 Post subject: |
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| Reklis wrote: | | Epsilon wrote: | posting in a timechange thread... oh wai-
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that's unnecessarily evil. I thought made a sort of well written thread ;p
@Lutzier:
It is some sort of platonic love.
Like I said by now she's like a sister to me but more but less than "I want a romantic relationship again". If that makes any sense at all.
I don't know, it's more of some sort of echo that comes up every once in a while.
Which, if it happns at all, never happens when I'm talking to her/ meeting her but always after.
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maybe your interactions with her are too much like a relationship still? Sometimes people who have been in a relationship still act like they are, although they are not. Like an inappropriate closeness (physically or emotionally). This can trigger old feelings and make you wish for the things of the past. |
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 00:23 Post subject: |
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Move on.
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 00:28 Post subject: |
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I once drove above the speedlimit
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 00:29 Post subject: |
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You are just remembering the good times. Even in your post here you defend her for leaving you.
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Horrordee
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 01:07 Post subject: |
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I was expecting amateur 3 way pix. MFF! Damn it!
/me dissapointed.
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Horrordee
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 12:18 Post subject: |
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The grass is always greener. Man up and break off contact with your ex!
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Feb 2010 12:27 Post subject: |
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| Horrordee wrote: | | The grass is always greener. Man up and break off contact with your ex! |
I think the first sentence misses some vital |
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