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Cohen




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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 09:29    Post subject: predicament.
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 09:37    Post subject:
I would chose the solution that would cause me the least amount of worrisomeness in the long run.


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Cohen




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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 09:41    Post subject:
iconized wrote:
I would chose the solution that would cause me the least amount of worrisomeness in the long run.


Exactly how I feel mate.. and that is to turn it down and stay how I am now.. But I think I Just need to read enough people saying the same thing lol


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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 09:57    Post subject:
Does the job offer any benefits like paid vacations or health care? You could do the job for a couple of years, earn some good money and gain some contacts to take back to the freelance world.


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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 10:19    Post subject:
Esel_Gesi wrote:
Does the job offer any benefits like paid vacations or health care? You could do the job for a couple of years, earn some good money and gain some contacts to take back to the freelance world.


Not really Sad thats another problem. It wont be anything to put in my portfolio which is something that I dont like either. But it does come with a good paid vacation (5 weeks a year)


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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 10:36    Post subject:
Try the job. Don't like it? Quit.
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 11:28    Post subject:
drop the bitch who obviously thinks money is everything ... and keep your current freelance position
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 11:35    Post subject:
id go for part time job and earn comfortably, because im a lazy bastard and always got lots of games to play :/
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 11:39    Post subject:
If you're happy with your current financial status, stick with it. There's also the fact that we're in a crisis at the moment, so you'll probably sell yourself cheap. If you don't have any kids, just lay back and enjoy life. You can always look for a fulltime job later if it becomes absolutely necessary.
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 11:43    Post subject:
to be honest, i thought the try it option was the best suggestion so far. i dunno what ur doing at the moment, but if whatever self employed work you do is something you can just pick up and start again relatively easily, then id just say take the job and see how it goes. if ur totally fucking miserable, then chuck it and go back to what ur doing now.


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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 13:35    Post subject:
What is the job?
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 13:39    Post subject:
I chose more free time and a fairly paid job where i can relax sometimes and watch movies/play games occasionally. I'm happy as fuck Smile
Unlike my brother who earns about 5 times more than me, but works even on weekends. Not to mention that everywhere we go together he gets job-related calls.
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 13:58    Post subject:
86k a year? jesus f christ, that's astronomical in the shithole I live in.

Though, if I were you, and I'm a damn lazy bastard, I'd stick to your current freelance job. The pay is fine, you enjoy it and you have more than enough of free time. Yeah, extra cash is never a bad thing, but money isn't everything.
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 17:57    Post subject: Re: predicament.
wgem wrote:

I guess the ultimate question comes to "full time job and earn a hell of a lot" or "part time job and earn comfortably"...


Or take the full-time job and then do the freelancing on the side. Cool Face

Would you have to be in the office for all hours for the proposed job btw? Imo after getting used to a work-at-home deal (which is fucking great), the slide back to the office hell with all its annoyances can be a real bitch.
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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 18:00    Post subject:
I would take the opportunity. What do you have to lose, you can always quit if you don't like it and want your 30 hours a week back. You may really enjoy it, and it may be a great experience.

And there is something to be said about stability in a job and finances. Not saying you don't already have this. But you could bank some cash for a rainy day.


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PostPosted: Tue, 8th Dec 2009 18:05    Post subject:
Thank god some people here have sense and have advised you to try the job and see if you like it.

You said yourself you're torn, so what's the problem with just giving it a month trial.


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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 16:30    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 16:59    Post subject:
wgem wrote:
I'm strongly plugging to say yes, which would mean I will be absent from the net for a good 5 months


Say YES!! Oh for the love of god, please say yes!



Very Happy Just messing mate. Personally, if you earn so much money only doing 10hrs a week - why rock the boat?
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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 19:01    Post subject:
And 60k is still bloody good for what, 20hrs worth of work? Wink
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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 19:07    Post subject:
no dude, I work 20 hours now I'd say. If I take this job I will be doing 9-6 every week day and every other saturday I will be away in a diff country.


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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 20:15    Post subject:
Look, man, deep inside you know what you wanna do. So stop waiting for more ppl to agree with you and just do whatever the fuck you want.
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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 20:35    Post subject:
shouldn't you go to the interview first?

shouldn't a position like this be competitive? as in they interview a few people before deciding?


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PostPosted: Wed, 9th Dec 2009 21:09    Post subject:
If you're questioning it, my guess is you already know the answer.
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PostPosted: Thu, 10th Dec 2009 16:17    Post subject:
remember the saying - do something you love and you'll never work a day in your life.
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PostPosted: Fri, 11th Dec 2009 00:46    Post subject:
Dude you are saying you earn quite a lot when you earn what? 40k a year.

It is a lot when you are 12 or 15. But face it, it is barely more, if it is more, than the starting wage for an engineer or some other degree job.

Of course you should take your 86k job. you have a secured job, probably (finally) a decent pension plan, health insurance, and the full range of benefits you dont have when doing your lazy ass job.

btw a 86k job is not a job they will give to a random dude immediately. You will not have to sign the minute you enter the bureau, do you have time to consider and negotiate.

btw whats the situation for the moment? and why the hell will you be absent 5 months? Will they lock you inside a bunker? Even when you have a 60h workweek (which is quite improbable), you have pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeenty of spare time.
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PostPosted: Fri, 11th Dec 2009 01:41    Post subject:
spankie wrote:
Dude you are saying you earn quite a lot when you earn what? 40k a year.

It is a lot when you are 12 or 15. But face it, it is barely more, if it is more, than the starting wage for an engineer or some other degree job.



40K is definitely a good wage, I earn 34k a year (admittedly I do fuck all for this) and this is easily enough to live off. Not only does this allow me to support all my living costs, but I can also afford to hire space in a private lab for the pursuit of personal projects.

Money has never been a big motivator for me, and if anything I'm averse to materialism. So I'm totally comfortable with this financially, and while it has been enabling in certain ways I feel little need to pursue a greater salary. I have other priorities of much greater importance to me, and if my 'job' was any more demanding it would interfere with that.


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PostPosted: Fri, 11th Dec 2009 02:19    Post subject:
What is life about?

It's about having the deepest, richest experience possible! Are you going to achieve that by working a well paid job? Most definitely NOT. If you're not deeply, deeply satisfied with your life. THEN MAKE CHANGES.

You always mention how well you earn but feel empty and not fullfilled at all.

Give up your attachments to the superficial bullshit that's been fed down your throat.

You seem to have enough time on your hands and still make a living.

Start TRAVELING. I feel that I have an obligation to see the world. The more of the world I can see, the more alive and integrated I become.

There is nothing stopping you!
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Predicament: If I make up a giant lie should I ever come back?
Answer: Sure, just change your nick and hope nobody figures it out Wink


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