Ok, I'll write a bit more of the problem...
So... the flickering disappears when removing the bridge.... BUT the performance goes actually worse than while using single GPU. Even though, I get more points in pcmark Vantage with sli mode...
6k with single gpu, 11k with sli.
And the fps in wow is really awful with the sli... In windowed mode I'm getting like 6-15 fps. (Especially turning on the shadows causes it to go crazy.)
By tweaking a lot, when using single gpu, I managed to get like 120 fps in gpu easy areas. But with dual I'm stuck to quite low fps. It's driving me crazy... I wonder if I should just sack the cards and get some gx275 or something ( though someone mentioned that I should wait until the end of year as there will be 3xx series out, which should drop the price of the 2xx series.)
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