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Aeon
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VonMisk
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Well some time ago we were talking with my wife and she told me what she liked when we first met. First of all I seemed to be funny, had a nice smile and didn't seem dumb. Oh and she liked my lips 
Just be yourself, don't do idiotic stuff. If you have to be different for her, you'll have to either become that different person (can't be easily done, you have to want it), or you'll just hate yourself and her later on when you can't.
I tried to be the better guy, paying more attention, listening a bit more and so on. There is still much to learn and improve for me, but I feel better this way 
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vaifan1986
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Saner
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 10:02 Post subject: |
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Spend all the time talking about your ex, chicks dig tat shit.
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I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 10:27 Post subject: |
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listen to what she want to say, chicks like a good listener, one of the things i did when i was single and going on a date, two kisses on the cheek, the second kiss , make it look not intentional but kiss in the neck. 
allways worked for me.
and dress something casual like this .
| Sin317 wrote: | | while you can't "turn gay", you can cut off your balls. believe me, you'll never think of women again. |
| zmed wrote: | | Or just a defense mechanism. If you fart, you'll most definitely smell it so your brain tells you it ain't bad as strangerfarts. |
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Aeon
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 10:54 Post subject: |
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It's normal there to start with 2 kisses on the cheek? Here we just shake hands and say ''Hey, I'm Jeremy, nice to meet you''. Or something like that.
@madness, I wouldn't have a problem with that, haha
@Vai, maybe later 
@Pumpy, good one. Will definitely try that
@VVonMisk,
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Ankh
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 12:06 Post subject: |
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| Aeon wrote: | It's normal there to start with 2 kisses on the cheek? Here we just shake hands and say ''Hey, I'm Jeremy, nice to meet you''. Or something like that.
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in Portugal it is, we kiss 2 kisses on the cheek at women , hand shake other man, but we are latin people, maybe its diferente in other cultures. i know the arabs dont greet women , but kiss other man in the cheeks
| Sin317 wrote: | | while you can't "turn gay", you can cut off your balls. believe me, you'll never think of women again. |
| zmed wrote: | | Or just a defense mechanism. If you fart, you'll most definitely smell it so your brain tells you it ain't bad as strangerfarts. |
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Aeon
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 12:07 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 12:18 Post subject: |
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| PumpAction wrote: | | didn't seem dumb |
^^ just to point out the MAIN part in my post |
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Ankh
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 13:03 Post subject: |
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All of those things you suggest really are different depending on the gale you date.
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tw1st
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 14:34 Post subject: |
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Don't make it seem like an interview, that's one of the worst things you can do....
Find something similar you share in interests and maybe talk about that instead.
Aeon, do you know her for a while, or have you just met?
A nice hug would suffice, handshake might be a bit weird.
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 14:39 Post subject: |
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Be yourself, just be confident.
Show your funny side (yes you have one Aeon  ).
Ask about stuff you want to know about her (don't fake interest) and don't be afraid to also talk a bit about you.
Stuff everyone should know: dress up nicely (don't overdo it), shave!, make sure your breath don't stink (nor you either xD)
And because it's the hump: let her play kings bounty while you FHITB!
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Nalo
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RatKing
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Ankh
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 16:06 Post subject: |
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Tbh you might aswell go straight for her breasts and skip the small talk.
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 16:31 Post subject: |
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Be confident, don't stammer, a lot of eye contact, be confident, don't complain about your stuff, that date is for both of you to enjoy, not dwindle on day to day problems. Be confident.
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Nalo
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 17:14 Post subject: |
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Oh and if she talks -> listen. Seriously. LISTEN! She'll enjoy it so much more and this will show your interest. If you can't stand listening to her, she might not be the right person for you after all; if you can then you won't require this advice anyway, that's why I am shutting up here and won't type any other useless bullshit that will only take away your time for planning and preparation of the date to meet the girl you like and would like to know more about, of course displayed by the creation of this thread and the message that you posted to this community of nice people, which really want the best for you, even if some of them look sexist, you know that we are all good at heart. FHITB.
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tw1st
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 17:20 Post subject: |
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| PumpAction wrote: | | Oh and if she talks -> listen. Seriously. LISTEN! She'll enjoy it so much more and this will show your interest. If you can't stand listening to her, she might not be the right person for you after all; if you can then you won't require this advice anyway, that's why I am shutting up here and won't type any other useless bullshit that will only take away your time for planning and preparation of the date to meet the girl you like and would like to know more about, of course displayed by the creation of this thread and the message that you posted to this community of nice people, which really want the best for you, even if some of them look sexist, you know that we are all good at heart. FHITB. |
Seriously this, my first date with my current fiance, was her talking 80% of the time and me listening lol. Like pumpy said, it will show you are interested.
Either way, best of luck Aeon, let us know how it goes.
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 17:50 Post subject: |
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If you're looking for something serious, be yourself and don't put a mask on.
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 17:53 Post subject: |
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If you enjoyed the date, tell her - maybe your body language tells something different, but don't lie.
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Aeon
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 18:41 Post subject: |
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Aaah, so many replies, so much love
Be myself, be confident, eye contact, listen to her, show my funny side. Reading all these comments make me pretty nervous, haha. Also, I should be a gentleman aswell and of course, pay the check.
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Stuff everyone should know: dress up nicely (don't overdo it), shave!, make sure your breath don't stink (nor you either xD)
And because it's the hump: let her play kings bounty while you FHITB! |
Yeah, I already know what to wear. I already asked her last time if she likes me more with a beard or without and she said without, so I'll shave just for her, haha. I'll make sure I smell good.
| The_Zeel wrote: |  i thought this was a Sellob thread |
It might turn into that after friday...I'll get the booze ready just in case.
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Aeon, do you know her for a while, or have you just met?
A nice hug would suffice, handshake might be a bit weird. |
Well, I actually 'met' her via a chat website and you guys might think that shit doesn't work, but so far...can't complain. We are talking via Whatsapp every at the moment. It seems she is sort of interested in me but the main connection at the moment between us, is that she lost her father a month a go and I lost my handicapped brother a year ago. Question is, should I bring that up friday? You know, talk about it, sort of be there for her. Or should it all be happy and we don't talk about it.
Not sure about the hug aswell...think I'll let that one decide at the moment itself.
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| Posted: Wed, 27th Nov 2013 18:48 Post subject: |
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Be yourself, if she does not like you or vice versa then move on, it's not meant to be. Don't try and be someone you are not.
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