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 Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:17 Post subject: told her to STFU during dinner |
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We went out for dinner and it's ramadan here in Istanbul, so all the muslims eat around 8.45pm. every restaurant was full, I told her to wait 5-10 min. and that we'll be able to get a table at a nice place. I've told her 4 times, do you think she listens? nope!
she enters the emptiest fucking restaurant, which smells gross and is fucking hot inside. We sat there for like 3 mins. I've told her that I don't want to eat here, because it's also very expensive.
She gets up and just walks / runs out. I ran after her told her to wait, she didn't wait. so I pulled her on her arm and she asks me where to eat... I told her "Just shut the fuck up for a second and you'll know where we'll eat."
well, we found a nice table immediately, she didn't talk to me during the meal and ate very quickly, so she could go back to the hotelroom. She's in the room now, I took my surface pro and sitting in a nice cafe outside, smoking a pipe and drinking some coffee.
DAAAAAAAAAAAMMMnnnn... the next 2 days are going to be HELL.
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Good job, you acted like a prick, and now instead of apologizing you are typing on nfohump, crying about it. 
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:26 Post subject: |
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| sausje wrote: | Well you know how to solve this!
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fuck her in the butt WS?
--- like I've already said in the other thread, I've catched her talking to her co-worker while I was in the shower. She hid it from me that she has a new BF.
fucking hell, I'm done with her when I'm back in germany. So, fucking her in the butt is going to be very hard to do.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:32 Post subject: |
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yes, sausje. she is / was
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:33 Post subject: |
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| Kurosaki wrote: | | LeoNatan wrote: | | Good job, you acted like a prick, and now instead of apologizing you are typing on nfohump, crying about it. |
I'm not going to apologize. She has been lying to me a lot and being a bitch. she's the prick |
I don't follow your blog. But still, you stupid to take her on vacation if she cheating on you? And you still acted like a prick. |
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:33 Post subject: |
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Why did you even go in the first place then? Should had left her behind and took your best friend instead. 
Or did you think that this might help boost the relationship again?
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:35 Post subject: |
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So basically you two have unresolved issues and are now arguing over fucking dinner... Amazing. I see this relationship going places.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:35 Post subject: |
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no wait. there's a misunderstanding here. I didn't know that before we came here. I just found out 2 days ago.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:37 Post subject: |
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Ah you found out during your vacation..
Well did you fully pay for it? and how sure are you of her cheating on you?
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:44 Post subject: |
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no, she paid for her part. well, it's not really cheating, we weren't really dating yet, but she gave me hopes and dude....she wanted to go on a vecation with me alone? .... it's just a huge letdown rather then cheating.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:46 Post subject: |
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Oh that sucks, well then there isn't really much you can do other then either sit out those 2 days and try to talk with her about it, find out the why behind it all. Or take an early flight home and then put an end to the relationship..
But i would first try and find out the why if i where you, at least you won't be left with questions after this is over.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:47 Post subject: |
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| Kurosaki wrote: | | no, she paid for her part. well, it's not really cheating, we weren't really dating yet, but she gave me hopes and dude....she wanted to go on a vecation with me alone? .... it's just a huge letdown rather then cheating. |
Hmmmm seems that maybe you should have tried to clear things out with her BEFORE doing something like this.
Would have been a lot easier and saved both of you some unfortunate stuff... like what just happened, regardless of the blame.
Worst comes to worse, go your separate ways, unless you were/are sharing a car there or something like that.
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:51 Post subject: |
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rebook the flight or burn her ticket just before you leave 
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:53 Post subject: |
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Wait...what?
I thought she is your girlfriend? So you went on vacation with a random woman? And no its not cheating if you AREN'T TOGETHER.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:54 Post subject: |
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haha, nah, I'm going to sit out those 2 days. well, I'm going to apologize later or those 2 days are going to be hell.
no toni, we're not sharing anything, only the room that we are staying in right now.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 21:57 Post subject: |
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@xaxx, like I've said. We were very close and were getting closer.....damn, she wanted to go on this vecation, not me :/....
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:00 Post subject: |
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| Kurosaki wrote: | | @xaxx, like I've said. We were very close and were getting closer.....damn, she wanted to go on this vecation, not me :/.... |
Well, I'm guessing you hoped the vacation would work on your favor but... should have also had foreseen this happening 
Personally, I wouldn't commit on something like this before having a better idea of what role I would be playing, BF or just friend 
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:01 Post subject: |
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Ok whatever. Anyway from where i'm sitting you've screwed up and should apologize. She wasn't cheating on you since you aren't an item but its obvious you're annoyed with the fact and you're taking out on her through...dinner?
She didn't grab your arm and scream obscenities at you, i would seriously go and apologize.
Oh yeah and i still don't understand why you went on vacation with her without knowing whats what.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:04 Post subject: |
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alright, I'll apologize later :/....
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:06 Post subject: |
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And explain why you were angry.
From what i read its the right thing to do. Even if she was being annoying with the whole restaurant thing you overreacted.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:08 Post subject: |
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| LeoNatan wrote: | | Good job, you acted like a prick, and now instead of apologizing you are typing on nfohump, crying about it. |
So the rule of thumb is, women can act how the wish, while your response should always be in a gentleman and accommodating manner as if she did nothing wrong herself?
Why does the genitals they possess give them magical 'get away with being an asshole' powers?If I was out with a guy friend, and he started acting that way, I would treat him no different than a female or vice versa..your demeanor and equipment between your ears dictates how I respond to you, not your equipment between your legs.
If he said he was out with a buddy, and the buddy acted like that, and he acted that way back, would you say "You over reacted and should feel bad for speaking to him in such a manner, regardless if he started it"?
I mean to me, I find treating women like they aren't people, and some god being to forgive then beg for forgiveness yourself for causing them to act that way is MORE offensive to women. its coddling and idolizing them..instead of treating them like an equal.
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:09 Post subject: |
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| sausje wrote: | Well you know how to solve this!
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fuck her in the butt with sausje!
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:15 Post subject: |
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Only if kuro is up for it 
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| Posted: Sat, 20th Jul 2013 22:16 Post subject: |
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| DXWarlock wrote: | | LeoNatan wrote: | | Good job, you acted like a prick, and now instead of apologizing you are typing on nfohump, crying about it. |
So the rule of thumb is, women can act how the wish, while your response should always be in a gentleman and accommodating manner as if she did nothing wrong herself?
Why does the genitals they possess give them magical 'get away with being an asshole' powers?If I was out with a guy friend, and he started acting that way, I would treat him no different than a female or vice versa..your personality and equipment between your ears dictates how I respond to you, not your equipment between your legs.
If he said he was out with a buddy, and the buddy acted like that, and he acted that way back, would you say "You over reacted and should feel bad for speaking to him in such a manner, regardless if he started it"?
I mean to me, I find treating women like they aren't people, and some god being to forgive then beg for forgiveness yourself for causing them to act that way is MORE offensive to women. its coddling and idolizing them..instead of treating them like an equal. |
Actually, I would yes. What I took from the story is the girl was hungry, sat in a restaurant, dude made a scene, she tried to leave and he pulled her by her arm. Well, yes, if this happens with a "guy" friend of his and not a girl, he is an equal prick. The gender doesn't matter.
If she's such an asshole, why are they on vacation together? |
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