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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 00:04 Post subject: |
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Hard to think of something worse than that. Make sure to let him know you are there when he needs, it can be really hard being alone at times like these.
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 00:19 Post subject: |
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Feels as if cancer related deaths are rapidly increasing 
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 00:22 Post subject: |
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Dont let him slip out of your grip!!
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 00:47 Post subject: |
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Positive thoughts sent.
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 08:07 Post subject: |
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Yeah, cancer sucks
Does your friend has any job in Pl? Maybe he can move to his uncle or his dad, and try to start anew?
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 08:59 Post subject: |
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Huh, odd, the father of my best friend passed away recently because of cancer too. He doesn't have any more family left except for a cousin. Also has money problems, can only pay the electric bill and stuff but not the phone/internet.
So I offered him to dump his PC at my place and staying here as often and long he wants. Well, it's two weeks now and he's almost living here . Comes here everyday after work and only drives back home (with his mountainbike) to sleep. Anyways, I'm pretty relieved that he's here and not being all alone in that old ass and empty house of his (it's in pretty bad shape). We're talking alot about the situation and ofc having tons of fun living up the old times again (it's somewhat like a two week Lan-Party ). He's lighting up again and I'm working hard on cheering him up every day because I think that the most important thing now is that he's got company. Even though me and my family have alot on our own plate at the moment... aunt had two strokes shortly in a row last month. She couldn't talk and wasn't able to move her left arm and leg. Strangely enough, the 2nd stroke fixed those issues and she's way better now but still somewhat struggling and in alot of fear of it happening again. (I mean, wtf?! Friggin human body!)
But I think this is normal, almost everyone is going through this sooner or later. People are getting older and we all gonna see (or have seen) beloved people passing away. It's only natural but still nothing you can really prepare for. Hits like a truck. We even had to see it here on the hump very recently... and it struck me hard because I can relate 
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 09:17 Post subject: |
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Your friend can be happy to have you!
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Posted: Wed, 24th Oct 2012 11:14 Post subject: |
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dingo_d wrote: | Does your friend has any job in Pl? Maybe he can move to his uncle or his dad, and try to start anew? |
Nope, he's currently studying on a university, no job yet.
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Posted: Sat, 27th Oct 2012 11:48 Post subject: |
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Just came back from the funeral, it was quite nice although it was raining throughout all of it.
My friend chose "Love of my life" by Queen as the funeral song, quite an interesting choice but everyone sang along.
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Posted: Sat, 27th Oct 2012 13:48 Post subject: |
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How you can say a funeral "was quite nice"
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Posted: Sat, 27th Oct 2012 14:00 Post subject: |
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Um, as in the mass and the whole procession.
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