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Aeon




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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 14:51    Post subject: :(
Just had a phone call from my mom that my brother is doing very bad at the hospital...when they decide to start with morphine/morfine it's the end of story...

It take atleast 3-4 hours from now until my sister arrives and I can go to the hospital...this sucks so bad you know....not in the mood to do anything, all sorts scenarios are crossing my mind Sad

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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 14:54    Post subject:
I don't know anything on the background but i hope that everything goes better than what you have in mind.


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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 15:04    Post subject:
That sucks Sad

Hang in there aeon...


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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 15:25    Post subject:
I'm sorry to hear that..that's terrible Sad ..stay strong mate
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 15:38    Post subject:
My heartfelt sorrow for what you, your brother and your family are going through!

You mentioned he was handicapped, what exactly is his condition?
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 15:39    Post subject:
Dammit aeon, that sucks. Sad
Hope everything works out.


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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 15:56    Post subject:
Thanks guys...
@ Nhiumewyn, He has a hard time breathing, because there is something in his lungs.


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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 16:04    Post subject:
aeonfast wrote:
Thanks guys...
@ Nhiumewyn, He has a hard time breathing, because there is something in his lungs.


Cancer?
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 16:13    Post subject:
oh shit, I'm sorry to hear that aeon Sad ...
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 16:17    Post subject:
Hope everything works out
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 16:23    Post subject:
What's happened to your brother?
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 16:57    Post subject:
@ Nhiumewyn, No it's not cancer. More like the flu with his lungs as a target.
@H_S, long story mate.


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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 16:58    Post subject:
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@ Nhiumewyn, No it's not cancer. More like the flu with his lungs as a target.
@H_S, long story mate.


What are the doctors telling you? As far as chances of survival?
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 21:30    Post subject: Re: :(
aeonfast wrote:
Just had a phone call from my mom that my brother is doing very bad at the hospital...when they decide to start with morphine/morfine it's the end of story...

It take atleast 3-4 hours from now until my sister arrives and I can go to the hospital...this sucks so bad you know....not in the mood to do anything, all sorts scenarios are crossing my mind Sad

Losing your grandma or something is one thing...losing your (handicapped) brother is 10000x worse I think Crying or Very sad


That's horrible =/ If it makes you feel better, I was under morphine for around ~2 weeks in an American hospital due to some weird incompatibility with regular anesthetic. Just because the doc is using it on your brother doesn't mean things have taken a turn for the worse. From what I gather it's just regular procedure when they're not sure regular anesthetic will work out.

Hang tight!
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PostPosted: Thu, 19th Jan 2012 21:56    Post subject:
Dat is foking klote kerel, veel sterkte en succes ermee!


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PostPosted: Fri, 20th Jan 2012 05:49    Post subject:
If it's not cancer, then he'll be fine. I believe.

*crosses fingers*
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PostPosted: Fri, 20th Jan 2012 10:54    Post subject:
It's probably going to end...the blood results and everything else are worse now so they going to start with morphine and we are getting him home, that is where he wants to be Sad


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PostPosted: Fri, 20th Jan 2012 11:00    Post subject:
Ah man sorry to hear that Sad

I hope on a miracle for you.


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PostPosted: Fri, 20th Jan 2012 21:55    Post subject:
Fuck that. Condolences Sad


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PostPosted: Fri, 20th Jan 2012 21:58    Post subject:
All the best aeonfast. Needless to say, make the most of your time with him.



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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 00:30    Post subject:
Oh man ....

I'm so sorry.

Isn't there something that they can do ? Anything ?

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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 00:39    Post subject:
tell him everything you want him to know, hug him, and whatever will happen there will at least be no regrets. Good luck to your brother, you and your family! I cant imagine going through anything like that Sad
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 00:42    Post subject:
Paintface wrote:
tell him everything you want him to know, hug him, and whatever will happen there will at least be no regrets.
This.
Seems logical but at times like these it may go over your head. Sad


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 00:59    Post subject:
Hope some sort of miracle happens. If not, let's hope it all ends painlessly and he dies peacefully surrounded by his loving family.
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 01:18    Post subject:
But what is the diagnostic ?


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 01:38    Post subject:
Uhm, I don't know if it's proper English, but he has moisture and slime in his lungs. They can't suck it out and he has an infection too in his lungs. They test results from the morning showed it is only getting worse...this is difficult to say..but he is going to pass away within a few days Sad
They will built up the morphine (0.5 now) until, well, until it's over.

We wanted to get him home, bunt since he gets 15 liters of oxygen it's not possible. If we transport him home, the hospitals vehicle can't deliver more then 6 liters. He will be gone then before we even get home.

It's now night here and I'm still here to watch him, because my mom needs some sleep and it's very difficult to understand he will be out of our lives within a few days. I keep thinking I'm going to visit him next week, just like I did before...but that is not going to happen...it feels like I'm in a movie...a very bad one Sad


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 01:41    Post subject:
Uhm wich hospital is he in?! Cuz my sister told me today that she treated someone with the SAME sympthons, aswell as the oxygen being at 15 liters and morphine part...


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 01:41    Post subject:
zipfero wrote:
Nhiumewyn wrote:
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I'm sure he's going to take your comment, print it out, and show it to the doctors who realizes their grave mistake. Come on, man.


I'm not criticizing the doctors, I'm stating my personal opinion that in cases like this is generally preferable to continue interned than to go home.


Cases like what? Your level of presumption about this astounds me. You. Have no clue what is going on nor should u. Anyway stopping this in the takeoff lane. My condolences aeonfast.


He did mention that it was a serious condition, and it was affecting his lungs, obviously it can be a myriad of things, he also did mention that he is currently taking morphine, which is known to weaken the cardiovascular system, regardless of what the diagnosis may be, the facts are that his brother is in a severe condition with a pathology which debilitates his ability to breathe and taking a drug that is known to cripple the cardiovascular system, more specifically the heart.

Obviously the doctors and aeonfast have more information that any of us here, I have an opinion based in the information that was shared in this post, and that's what I expressed, I don't see a need to be so angry about it as you just did.

Anyway, I wish his condition improves and all this turns for the better.
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 01:55    Post subject:
aeonfast wrote:
Uhm, I don't know if it's proper English, but he has moisture and slime in his lungs. They can't suck it out and he has an infection too in his lungs. They test results from the morning showed it is only getting worse...this is difficult to say..but he is going to pass away within a few days Sad
They will built up the morphine (0.5 now) until, well, until it's over.

We wanted to get him home, bunt since he gets 15 liters of oxygen it's not possible. If we transport him home, the hospitals vehicle can't deliver more then 6 liters. He will be gone then before we even get home.

It's now night here and I'm still here to watch him, because my mom needs some sleep and it's very difficult to understand he will be out of our lives within a few days. I keep thinking I'm going to visit him next week, just like I did before...but that is not going to happen...it feels like I'm in a movie...a very bad one Sad


Jeez,

Aeon, I've been through something similar before with a family member, it can be so hard but just remember the good times, laugh about them before he goes, let him know he's loved and won't be forgotten.

It does so much more than you can imagine.

My thoughts are with you guys.


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jan 2012 02:47    Post subject:
sausje wrote:
Uhm wich hospital is he in?! Cuz my sister told me today that she treated someone with the SAME sympthons, aswell as the oxygen being at 15 liters and morphine part...
Twee Steden Ziekenhuis in Tilburg.

And thanks guys for the compassion. I think the most difficult part has still/yet to come though.
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