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Pfiemelcheese




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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 03:22    Post subject: WTF unbelievable
So i met this girl and she wants my to cut of my manlyhood, being my ponytail, what the fuck do I say to her to change her mind. I ain't cutting off my ponytail for anyone, if she don't take me for who I am she can go sit on it. I still want to keep this girl but I don' think its normal for her to want this.

Maybe girls are fashionable and follow the latest trends and shit, but I'm a guy and I couldn't care less.

Anyone had a girl that wanted to change some shit on you, luckily she doesn't want me to change anything else, its just this ponytail she wants gone:LOL:
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 03:34    Post subject: Re: WTF unbelievable
Pfiemelcheese wrote:
I ain't cutting off my ponytail for anyone, if she don't take me for who I am she can go sit on it.

Kinda answered yourself there. Explain to her you don't want to cut it. If she wants to hang your relationship (or whatever there is between you two) down to your hair style, she's not worth having anything with, aside from a one night stand.

A girl wanted me to shave once. We sat, I explained I don't want to do it, and that was it.
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 04:02    Post subject:
My wife is like that with my hair. I like my hair longer than the average guy and she always bugs me about it and tells me shes going to give me a haircut. Eventually I just show that shes angering me and she stops.
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 06:56    Post subject:
You know what I like about you Pfiemel? A lot of people here try to be funny but you are funny unintentionally. I mean all your talk about super-awesome pecs and a ponytail! WTF! You remind me of someone else on this forum who's hilarious but for all the wrong reasons - good ol' Jokergem. Razz

Newsflash - The 80s are over! (Too bad they don't have fluoroscent green or hot pink to choose from.)

And ponytails were lame even when they were in. This girl is doing you a favour and seeing that she has some sense of style, (not referring to fashion but class) she might be the best thing that's happened to you.
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 07:33    Post subject:
say no! ponytail now, tomorrow your soul!
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 08:14    Post subject:
No one should EVER cut their hair or go out of their way to change themselves for another person. The person you are with should respect your look. After all, that is suppost to be what attacted them to you in the first place! They shouldn't be out to purposely change you. If you are with someone for the right reasons then you kinda change naturally. It is a free will thing.

Even if you have some uber-mullet haircut.
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 09:10    Post subject:
Tell the silly cow you will cut off your pony tail if she gets a face lift and a boob job.. that will shut her up.

Sorry but I just cannot stand people that try and change the person they are with..
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 10:05    Post subject:
In one hand you should definitely be true to yourself, if you like it, and you're good with it then fu** it... But in the other... personally I could never wore long hair (so messy to take care of, all the drying, washing...), and... what swingman said kinda makes sense... I just think that long hair belongs to girls, and short for men (NOT vice versa (no matter what you said about Demi Moore in G.I. Jane Very Happy))


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 11:54    Post subject:
Yeah I see where you are coming from, and one part of me says swingman is right, ponytails are out of fashion, but I never cared for fashion, I just have a longer head, short hair just doesn't suit me. She already admitted she was a girl with alot of demands and that she allways wanted to drive her will through, kinda letting me know what I was getting into:LOL: But I'll tell her later today to lose 10kg and learn the kamasutra, and maybe then I will cut it off:) Still this girl is everything I wanted in a chick, finally I meet someone who has all my intrests, is intelligent, never boring and kablam, you got this shoved on your plate:(

Why on earth is there allways some kind of problem or is it just the way women are?


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 12:16    Post subject:
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omfg.. i just found a pic of Pfiemelcheese
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looks like kevin mitnick before he got laid


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 13:34    Post subject:
I don't think you should cut it but maybe consider it. If she has a much better sense of style than you it's not wrong to take her advice. My dad has let his beard grow and doesn't fit him at all Embarassed and he doesn't take anyone else's advice.. too bad for him! Razz
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 13:46    Post subject:
I had longer hair before I met my gf and she said, that she would like to see me with short hair. So I did and she loves it Smile
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 14:26    Post subject:
i wouldnt change for anyone, its the hair now next week it will be something else until you have been molded into the man she wants.

say to her "i think you would look better if your boobs were a size bigger why dont you have surgery?" and see what the reaction is Laughing


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 14:27    Post subject: Re: WTF unbelievable
Pfiemelcheese wrote:
So i met this girl and she wants my to cut of my manlyhood, being my ponytail, what the fuck do I say to her to change her mind. I ain't cutting off my ponytail for anyone, if she don't take me for who I am she can go sit on it. I still want to keep this girl but I don' think its normal for her to want this.

Maybe girls are fashionable and follow the latest trends and shit, but I'm a guy and I couldn't care less.

Anyone had a girl that wanted to change some shit on you, luckily she doesn't want me to change anything else, its just this ponytail she wants gone:LOL:
Bear in mind that if she thinks its acceptable to demand such from you, that means she will be yielding to equally large demands of her. hair will grow back, a girl who will yield to so completely to the demands of her man on the other hand is harder to come by than a little hair. Wink


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 14:51    Post subject:
i agree with the girl loose your ponytail
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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 15:02    Post subject:
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i agree with the girl loose your ponytail

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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 15:32    Post subject:
snoop1050 wrote:
i wouldnt change for anyone, its the hair now next week it will be something else until you have been molded into the man she wants.


+1

She was obviously attracted to you with your ponytail, there's a saying an old friend of mine told me, start as you mean to go on.

Make sure she understands that there are things that are important to YOU and would not change, i'm not just talking about hair...

Worked for me, and i'm now very happily married, be strong she will respect you more Razz


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 15:54    Post subject:
lmfao you go from one nutty bitch to another mate Razz


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 22:13    Post subject:
She's not a nutty bitch, this one has style, looks and the brains to back it up, I did compromise with her on one point, I said I will consider cutting it but only if we are going out for a longer time and she shows me she truly loves me for who I am. So if she keeps on whining about the ponytail then I will know what to do, else I will cut it on my own regards. So its all up to her.


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PostPosted: Sat, 21st Jun 2008 22:54    Post subject:
Do You actualy look like on Your avatar? If so, then cutting the ponytail won't do You much good...
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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 03:13    Post subject:
Ponytails are pretty corny, they really only look good on specific type of people. The usual basement nerd who doesn't wash his face rocking a ponytail always cracks me up. Some Lord of the Rings type shit. Laughing

Getting rid of it isn't the end of the world, for all you know you'll be back to short hair and 6 months from now things won't work out with the girl. Grow it again and return to the cheese-fest that are ponytails. Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 08:28    Post subject:
You lot are missing the point here, it does not matter if his hair is cool or crap, or whatever your opinion of long hair on guys is: The point is one of principle, she liked him for what he was when they met, so why does she want him to change? and why the fu*k should he?

stick to your guns mate, give and take is a good thing in relationships but not so soon and not at such a personal level, shes unbelieveably rude to ask such a thing of you in my opinion.
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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 10:34    Post subject:
some girls force their partners to change alot of things about them, and then leave because "you arent the person i fell in love with". So dont do it Very Happy

but this thread is worthless without pics, so we can judge ourselves if it should go or not. Because if the nforce says so, you have to do it Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 10:59    Post subject:
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Ponytails are pretty corny, they really only look good on specific type of people. The usual basement nerd who doesn't wash his face rocking a ponytail always cracks me up. Some Lord of the Rings type shit.

some people are to vain ... aslong as its looked after there shouldnt be a problem imo, if its frizzy , greasy or has millions of split ends then yea cut if off and get a haircut thats doesnt take much time to look good.

maybe you should try asking some of your other friends what they think of your hair? if you dont want to post pics Wink or just some randomers at the gym
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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 11:15    Post subject:
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maybe you should try asking some of your other friends what they think of your hair? if you dont want to post pics Wink or just some randomers at the gym


LOL i can just see him asking some random guy at a gym, do you like my hair!! Razz Laughing


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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 11:34    Post subject:
Imo cut it off. It can always grow back .


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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 14:26    Post subject:
Personally I would cut it off. Only because I have always had short hair and I dont really see it as that much of a big deal. It could be a tiny thorn in the great bush so to speak, a little needle in a haystack of a good relationship. Dont over think about it. So you cut your hair fresh, may be the start of a new, happier you?

even better idea, you compromise something that you dont like about her. Or perhaps the old *do this for me il do this for you* kinda thing.

Could get anal out of it Wink

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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 14:28    Post subject:
Dont cut it of, let her take you for who you are, not for who she wants you to be.
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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 15:30    Post subject:
watergem wrote:
Personally I would cut it off. Only because I have always had short hair and I dont really see it as that much of a big deal. It could be a tiny thorn in the great bush so to speak, a little needle in a haystack of a good relationship. Dont over think about it. So you cut your hair fresh, may be the start of a new, happier you?

even better idea, you compromise something that you dont like about her. Or perhaps the old *do this for me il do this for you* kinda thing.

Could get anal out of it Wink

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PostPosted: Sun, 22nd Jun 2008 15:33    Post subject:
She aint a keeper if she aint let you hit the pooper.


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