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z00mer
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spankie
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well if you want to keep her as a friend, surely dont start a relationship now.
But if you want to have sex with each other, why not? If you are mature enough to handle it properly and know what you are doing and you bot agree to be just fuck buddies, there is no way this should be a major problem.
But if one of you 2 think fucking will fuck things up, dont do it. You could mention it sometimes, in a ' drunk' moment (you dont have to be drunk, just drink something so you can blame the booze the day after;)) and say 'we are such good friends 'i could never imagine us having sex' or something like that and see how she reacts. If she is such a good friend as you say she is, you should be able to discuss such things.
I have some friends, both male and female, and they have a 'regular fuck buddy'. They have sex sometimes, no commitment. If they fuck someone else in the meanwhile, no problem. You known, 2 grown up people, having sex. Better a regular than fucking everything that walks.
But of course you 2 have to decide that yourself. Just try to find out a) if she is open to the principle of a 'fuck buddy' and b) if she might consider you.
The second method is a bit more risky. You might take her to a party, give her some cocktails, dance with her and see what she does. Problem is that you might have to do the talking after you had fucki fucki and she might expect more and thats a shitty problem you have then 
Good luck;)
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 02:39 Post subject: |
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she probably just sees you as a friend like your one of the girls. maybe you should talk to some of her other friends and see what they think? but only ones you should be able to trust not to go and tell her.
i think theres a risk of her not beeing so close with you anymore if she finds out you have strong feelings towards her but she doesnt feel the same way.
i think trying to get her drunk so you can have sex with her is lame if she ends up regretting it or feels like it was planned by you then you wont be her friend anymore
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spankie
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Cohen
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 02:52 Post subject: |
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women, dont you just love them?
It was a similar thing between me and my current GF. We where both kind of shoulders to cry on so to speak. It worked out for us however, we got together in the end.
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z00mer
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 03:16 Post subject: |
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| snop1050 wrote: | | she probably just sees you as a friend like your one of the girls. maybe you should talk to some of her other friends and see what they think? but only ones you should be able to trust not to go and tell her. |
Most of her friends are guys, which is why I didn't think anything of it at first. But when I went out with her last there was tons of other guys there for her to talk to, but she kept wanting to sit by me or go hang out in a corner and talk with just me. She would grab my arm and be like "let's go over here" etc.
Also, there's tons of guys at work she has talked to before and gone on breaks with before, but lately she comes around me more and more. Like before we started getting to know each other she would go on breaks with the same group of guys. Even though occasionally I'll see her talk with them still, she'll pull me outside and walk passed all of them not even asking them to join us. It's weird.
Sometimes when we're in a group and talking to different people we'll glance at each other and she'll smile even when I'm not even in their conversation. It's hard to explain. I don't fucking know. It's probably all in my god damn head.
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 04:07 Post subject: Re: There's this girl... |
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| z00mer wrote: |
She's average looking and thin... |
PASS! I read no more than to here. Tell her to eat like a grown up and to call you in a year.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 05:54 Post subject: Re: There's this girl... |
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| Nailbiter wrote: | | z00mer wrote: |
She's average looking and thin... |
PASS! I read no more than to here. Tell her to eat like a grown up and to call you in a year. |
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 06:09 Post subject: |
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I thought that was a weird description too.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 06:38 Post subject: |
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I love thin girls!
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 19:20 Post subject: |
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I love slightly bigger ones, not fat as a turkey, but nice belly, nice hips is sweet, just no egg rolls and everything is splendid.
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Cohen
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gobo
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jun 2008 01:36 Post subject: |
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be blunt about it ask if you can get it in. Just wear a rub she sounds like a skanky hoe. If she says no then fuck her. But seriously a bitch talking to you at work on a break... that aint nothing serious imo. She will probably tell you to get lost.
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| Posted: Wed, 11th Jun 2008 07:27 Post subject: |
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A quick lesson for you my friend z00mer
make a choice decide that you would like more or not. Assuming you do want more approach her and tell her simply that you enjoy the time together and you'd like to spend more. Unless she is stupid she should figure it out and respond accordingly.
About this description, she is on one side average and thin, but has a sexy walk and the most beautiful eyes. To me it sounds like she's more than average at least to you?
Don't use alcohol for sexual relations.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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deelix
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jun 2008 04:25 Post subject: |
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| deelix wrote: | Thin chicks are so disgusting  |
it depends on your definition of thin. If you meen stick figure thin, like they dont eat enough then I agree.
But if a woman is thing and has a tight body, I find that sexy. It shows she probably works out and keeps in shape. |
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| Posted: Sat, 14th Jun 2008 07:15 Post subject: |
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I think thin is fine, skinny sounds worse at least the way I apply it in my mind.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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) in my head is saying to do this and it is getting louder and louder. What should I do?
