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TiHKAL
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 Posted: Mon, 3rd Mar 2008 05:14 Post subject: It's Over |
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Well my gf of 9 years told me friday she's moving on. It didn't come as a complete shock, the last six months have been hell. I don't even know what to do with myself anymore.
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TiHKAL
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Mar 2008 05:19 Post subject: |
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A little more info:
Basically it boils down to her being 29 and not having done anything with herself. She wants to travel the world freely and I can't. I am not going to go into details about why, but i have a good job and i can't afford to lose it.
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Mar 2008 07:33 Post subject: |
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she had to ruin it is she
ahh well nothing is solid, been there done that heard same story before
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Mar 2008 10:30 Post subject: |
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First and fore-most take care of your family and yourself, everybody else is secondary. Worry about your own well being and keep moving forward. You may feel like shit for a bit but you'll realize very fast all the new doors open to you.
Good Luck man.
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Cohen
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CaptainCox
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Mar 2008 12:39 Post subject: |
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Hm, sounds fishy to me. Had to many Gfreinds that wanted to find themselves and turned out they simply wanted to shag other guys...sorry to put you off here man, cause 9 years is a looooong time, I know cause I been there.
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Mar 2008 20:21 Post subject: |
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Go and shag some pro man!!!
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wazzaap19
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| Posted: Tue, 4th Mar 2008 03:56 Post subject: |
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9 years, DAMN! Your practically married. But anyways, my condolences.
The night beckons me
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| Posted: Tue, 4th Mar 2008 07:51 Post subject: |
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| gingerninjaaaaaa wrote: | | Go and shag some pro man!!! |
I dont think he is liable to stoop as low as that! you would have to have no self respect to shag a prossie, and sex is not the be all and end all of a meaningful relationship. After a long time together other things matter more than getting your end away.
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| Posted: Tue, 4th Mar 2008 12:09 Post subject: |
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just like that? after 9 years? damn..
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deelix
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Cohen
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Mar 2008 20:20 Post subject: |
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When these types of things happen after so long there are always other issue's, I would be awefully suspect if after 9 years of being in an ideal (or even really healthy) relationship that someone would just decide that they had to travel the world. Furthermore travelling the world and breaking up are mutually exclusive, obviously there are other factors.
I wish you well, but it's time to move on. You sound like you have a great job since it is so important to you, build upon it form other healthy relationships with people.
Take some personal time and be well.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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TiHKAL
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Mar 2008 22:04 Post subject: |
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It's really hard to start being well as she still lives in my house. Yeah i agree there is more to it, maybe sometime in the future i'll find out what it was. Either way, I am not going to try and mend this relationship - not this time. I'm done!
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She doesn't just want to travel. She wants to goto school, then travel. Going to school in a different state. In the end, though i'm no longer the raver/party kid i used to be so she if probably trying to find the old me again.
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TiHKAL
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| Posted: Wed, 5th Mar 2008 23:50 Post subject: |
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Yeah we did - she was actually opening a restaurant. I thought she wanted to do that for awhile. It was actually a total shock to me when she said screw that i'm leaving. The place is opening next month and she was going to be the manager/head chef. Which IMO is pretty good for somebody with no education.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Mar 2008 02:33 Post subject: |
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| tihkal wrote: | | Yeah we did - she was actually opening a restaurant. I thought she wanted to do that for awhile. It was actually a total shock to me when she said screw that i'm leaving. The place is opening next month and she was going to be the manager/head chef. Which IMO is pretty good for somebody with no education. |
Dude, that's just fucked up.
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Mar 2008 02:39 Post subject: |
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| tihkal wrote: | | Yeah we did - she was actually opening a restaurant. I thought she wanted to do that for awhile. It was actually a total shock to me when she said screw that i'm leaving. The place is opening next month and she was going to be the manager/head chef. Which IMO is pretty good for somebody with no education. |
I thought being a chief required education. Well to be a good one anyway in a decent restaurant.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Mar 2008 04:40 Post subject: |
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| Dazz99 wrote: | | Dazz99 wrote: | awww  |
srsly i'm about to baw irl |
ROFLMAO oh that made my toes tingle |
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| Posted: Thu, 6th Mar 2008 05:50 Post subject: |
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Very good friend of mine once said, "i'm under no illusion, relationship's don't last forever, just gotta get the best outta the ride", that to me is reality.
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Mar 2008 05:01 Post subject: |
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| Van.Helsing wrote: | | Very good friend of mine once said, "i'm under no illusion, relationship's don't last forever, just gotta get the best outta the ride", that to me is reality. |
I guess if that is your idea that the realationship is doomed (don't last forever) when you go into it, that is what will end up happening. All relationships take effort.
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TiHKAL
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Mar 2008 06:21 Post subject: |
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well - thanks for the reply's from the people that were decent enough to say something somewhat genuine. Also, a big fuck you, to the people who felt it necessary to be gaping assholes. Do i expect any less, no! Does that mean i can't hate you for it, no!
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you sick bastard... haha j/k ^^
That really sucks. I wish you the best!
