Martian123 .. will you use the talking stick ? Learn how to keep quiet while another holds the stick & speaks ?
Listen
When I ask you to listen to me
And you start giving advice
You have not done what I asked
When I ask you to listen to me
And you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way
You are trampling on my feelings
When I ask you to listen to me
And you feel you have to do something to solve my problems
You have failed me, strange as that may seem
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself
You contribute to my fear and weakness
So please, listen and just hear me
And if you want to talk
Wait for a minute for your turn
And I will listen to you
This is something I found about listening, from my knowledge of the talking stick its about this, being able to speak from your heart & being able to listen.
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost