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Cohen
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 Posted: Tue, 20th Nov 2007 15:44 Post subject: Life really does suck at times |
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well yet another thread for me in the bitching session.
Life.
WELL, currently, I feel like I have none. No job, no money *hardly*, me and my girl are not doing too well lately either. Her friends all abandoned her because they don't like me, which is ghey. We can't really go out with my friends since they are always busy.
I suggested we finish seeing each other last night, but in the end i took it back cause i couldn't do it.. i love her too much, and its unfair to make us both suffer the sadness of a breakup on top of both of our problems, god damn it. Lots of tears, lots of sorrow and all the rest of it. Guilt..
I just wish I was happy again, since college is over I have been so bored, sitting in front of the comp never has been so boring, only when a new game comes out is it interesting. (the schoolboy geek dream of sleeping late and playing games 'til my eyes roll out has finally got boring, something i never thought would happen)
/rage,
/rage.
hmm.. So my girl is out of work too, and can't get work until after xmas because her family relies on her and her car for almost everything, including trips to work and back so her time is tied up. This is really making us both suffer.
Then, if anyone is still reading.. there is my father, my parents split up several months ago and things got real hairy, my mothers "adultery partner" is a total fucking ASS HAT who no-fucker likes except for my mother.. And xmas coming up with no money, and the awkwardness of having my mother and father hating each others guts sat at the table with the rest of the family. 
And my GF at xmas.. since i hate her mother and sister for the way they treat her sometimes I avoid going over to her house which puts friction upon us.
Meh thats why we have this section, to bitch, so there ive bitched. I just now have to wait for mr cheese to reply with his smiling ass avatar and chants that depression is bullshit, well sure it is bullshit but if im not depressed im VERY VERY VERY VERY down and losing faith in living. Oh gawd.
This year has really sucked, I can't wait for January 1st
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Nov 2007 17:58 Post subject: |
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You really need to get a job, don't make excuses, it's just something you need to do. A Christmas job is piss easy to find, most retailers will hire anyone during the sale period. Thats the first step.
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Cohen
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Ashmolly
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Nov 2007 19:58 Post subject: |
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Pfft, Ill added to this bitching session. I leave for Iraq this Saturday. Im leaving behind my 1 and 4 year old, my wife, my computer and 360, and my cars. Ill go out there and sit making tax free money, so I'll miss the little ones christmas, new years (when I usually get pissy drunk). Ill be kicking sand while everyone is having a good time. 1 more year left of this B.S.
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Cohen
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Ashmolly
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Nov 2007 22:00 Post subject: |
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Radar Tech, do ill be out making sure our airplanes radar is up to par for random missions
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Nov 2007 22:12 Post subject: |
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| Ashmolly wrote: | | Radar Tech, do ill be out making sure our airplanes radar is up to par for random missions |
Ah. I was under the impression you would be sitting like a duck on those damned retarded road blocks and check in stations. I feel sorry for the poor bastards on those aswel, they have to sit there just waiting for the next car bomb to roll in and blow them up, or insurgents to attack. Then, if that doesn't happen, hows about a nice routine patrol up the road dodging the roadside bombs?
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| Posted: Wed, 21st Nov 2007 09:45 Post subject: |
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ya, life does suck at times. I totally know what you mean. My life is shit atm too but I have hopes it will improve. Sometimes that is all we have.
Take care.
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PrideLess
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| Posted: Wed, 21st Nov 2007 12:38 Post subject: |
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We all have ups and downs in life, but it is up to us how we will deal with it.
But that kind of stuff are quite common before holidays.
We have nice saying here : It is not a shame to fall into mud, it is shame that you dont get up from it . ( sounds strange in English )
@Ashmolly : Take care of you self and pop in from time to time and let us see how youre doing.
@watergem : If you really love your GF, dont break up with her now. Every relationship is on that kind of tryouts everyday. Be strong and deal with it and you will be happy again.
Oh well my two €s !
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Ashmolly
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| Posted: Wed, 21st Nov 2007 17:16 Post subject: |
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| PrideLess wrote: | We all have ups and downs in life, but it is up to us how we will deal with it.
But that kind of stuff are quite common before holidays.
We have nice saying here : It is not a shame to fall into mud, it is shame that you dont get up from it . ( sounds strange in English )
@Ashmolly : Take care of you self and pop in from time to time and let us see how youre doing.
@watergem : If you really love your GF, dont break up with her now. Every relationship is on that kind of tryouts everyday. Be strong and deal with it and you will be happy again.
Oh well my two €s ! |
For sure, I plan on making the best of this trip. Can't get out of it now, so Ill make the money and celebrate christmas late hehe. |
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Nov 2007 00:13 Post subject: |
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| Ashmolly wrote: | | Pfft, Ill added to this bitching session. I leave for Iraq this Saturday. Im leaving behind my 1 and 4 year old, my wife, my computer and 360, and my cars. Ill go out there and sit making tax free money, so I'll miss the little ones christmas, new years (when I usually get pissy drunk). Ill be kicking sand while everyone is having a good time. 1 more year left of this B.S. |
So where in iraq?
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| Posted: Sun, 25th Nov 2007 23:20 Post subject: |
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Mate, I ain't gonna diss you, cuz your problems are real and not in your head like that smuck in the other topic, and for many of your problems there's a solution, getting a new job would help matters heap(easier said then done I know). If you start making money then your sorry ass family will have no more shit on you, and it will be you that can crap on their head. And don't get just any job cuz those suck, I searched 4 years straight and been in and out of the dole and jobs till now I found a job that pays so well I even make 500€ more working a mere 4 days then guys working in the factory hauling their asses off 5 days in a week:) But then again, I did pick up a few courses which took me 4 months of intensive study(sometimes studying over 12h a day, on average I would study 8h).
So take matters in your own hand and pick up some decent MS exams or some shit and get a job in a highranking company that pays well for guys who are expert in a particular field of IT(Exchange server, DNS, you name it, pick one and make sure you get it under your skin, its fucking hard at first but once you cross that magical thresshold of 2 weeks study things get a whole lot easier and it goes from boring to incredibly interesting).
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2007 07:45 Post subject: |
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First things first tell your girlfriends lazy bloody family to get the bus! they are taking the piss mate..
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 27th Nov 2007 01:06 Post subject: |
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Split up with the misses after one awful weekend up and down arguments and tears, but in the end I think its for the best. Both kinda admitted we will always love, and care, so should stay friends. Now the pressure is off to come see me in the car a lot, im hoping things get better for her at home. If we stay good friends then fuck it thats life, fine by me. I know people say it never works, but who knows. I just want what is best for both of us, so i ended it. She took it hard and deep but some love from the family will sort her out, im hoping anyway. Its my first real breakup too..
:/
^ describes my views on life right now, with a little bit of :s
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Thu, 29th Nov 2007 14:25 Post subject: |
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| KaiKo wrote: | | hercules18 wrote: | Whats gonna happin in January 1st?  |
its a new year.. meaning a new start for many people. |
i really hope thats true this year |
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| Posted: Thu, 29th Nov 2007 23:22 Post subject: |
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Try to remember that there are always those who face even worse than ourselves.
I am also facing tough times,
Due to a car accident, my girlfriend lost our baby, she was only a few months into pregnancy, she is also not doing well emotionally or physically for the most part she has stopped talking to me, which is difficult, cause we both need support during these times, thankfully she has family. Which is where she lives at the moment. Hopefully she will come around in time but I am doubtful, this is a large character change. I have been under a lot of stress due to my job, and adjusting to changes that have been occuring with my previous relationship which affects
access to my daughter. It feels like I'm loosing everything at times, we all face rough times. I also know a few people who have lost loved ones recently in terrible ways, I try to cope thinking that things will get better, but that takes time. So far I have found two things helpful
1 is to do things that you usually do, keeping things status quo. 2, is to do things that you never do, I have contacted many old friends and am going out to do different events at different locations, while still managing to visit my favourite spots. I find this keep enough familiarity in my life and adds new dimensions, which cause distractions not letting me think to much. Of course I find that my good old friend Alcohol has been a bitter sweet friend.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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Cohen
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| Posted: Thu, 29th Nov 2007 23:33 Post subject: |
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thanks for that martian buddy.
Seems like you got it tough as shit. Stick it out bud. Take care! I've learned however that the more time that goes by the easier it is to cope. hope that helps man.
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 01:41 Post subject: |
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yeah, take this opportunity to evaluate your original statement that life sucks simply due to boredom
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 12:37 Post subject: |
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| watergem wrote: | thanks for that martian buddy.
Seems like you got it tough as shit. Stick it out bud. Take care! I've learned however that the more time that goes by the easier it is to cope. hope that helps man. |
many people have it rough, I will survive, perhaps not the way I planned it, but I will get through.
you too! make it through!
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 12:37 Post subject: |
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| watergem wrote: | thanks for that martian buddy.
Seems like you got it tough as shit. Stick it out bud. Take care! I've learned however that the more time that goes by the easier it is to cope. hope that helps man. |
many people have it rough, I will survive, perhaps not the way I planned it, but I will get through.
you too! make it through!
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 17:08 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | Try to remember that there are always those who face even worse than ourselves.
I am also facing tough times,
Due to a car accident, my girlfriend lost our baby, she was only a few months into pregnancy, she is also not doing well emotionally or physically for the most part she has stopped talking to me, which is difficult, cause we both need support during these times, thankfully she has family. Which is where she lives at the moment. Hopefully she will come around in time but I am doubtful, this is a large character change. I have been under a lot of stress due to my job, and adjusting to changes that have been occuring with my previous relationship which affects
access to my daughter. It feels like I'm loosing everything at times, we all face rough times. I also know a few people who have lost loved ones recently in terrible ways, I try to cope thinking that things will get better, but that takes time. So far I have found two things helpful
1 is to do things that you usually do, keeping things status quo. 2, is to do things that you never do, I have contacted many old friends and am going out to do different events at different locations, while still managing to visit my favourite spots. I find this keep enough familiarity in my life and adds new dimensions, which cause distractions not letting me think to much. Of course I find that my good old friend Alcohol has been a bitter sweet friend. |
The meeting old friends, changing your routine while keeping it too is spot on man.
Thats exactly what you need to do |
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 17:14 Post subject: |
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martian123, sorry to hear that, sounds like you do have actual hardship (and are doing steps to handle it) whereas the OP just sounds like he isnt taking responsibility for his actions, and in comparison is making a fuss about nothing!!
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 21:45 Post subject: |
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| MasterJuba wrote: | | martian123, sorry to hear that, sounds like you do have actual hardship (and are doing steps to handle it) whereas the OP just sounds like he isnt taking responsibility for his actions, and in comparison is making a fuss about nothing!! |
Thank you for the support guys, I would like to add I don't think the OP is making a fuss
about nothing. I did not come here to provoke such thoughts, I was more making a point
that there is always worse, his dilemma is real, perhaps not as severe as my own but real none the less.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 22:37 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | | MasterJuba wrote: | | martian123, sorry to hear that, sounds like you do have actual hardship (and are doing steps to handle it) whereas the OP just sounds like he isnt taking responsibility for his actions, and in comparison is making a fuss about nothing!! |
Thank you for the support guys, I would like to add I don't think the OP is making a fuss
about nothing. I did not come here to provoke such thoughts, I was more making a point
that there is always worse, his dilemma is real, perhaps not as severe as my own but real none the less. |
HOw do you stay so positive tho man? |
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 23:05 Post subject: |
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I try to keep busy, I try to keep productive. I am sure if you knew me or even saw me in person
you would know that I am not quite as positive as usual.
I make no false claims I am hurting.
I try to practice what I preach, I go through the steps I teach to others.
I have signed up at the gym, I realize that my cardio is subpar, and I lift
less than most women, but I'm not a big guy I am going for stress relief.
I also try to surround myself with positive people, that will help me become
positive.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 30th Nov 2007 23:18 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | I try to keep busy, I try to keep productive. I am sure if you knew me or even saw me in person
you would know that I am not quite as positive as usual.
I make no false claims I am hurting.
I try to practice what I preach, I go through the steps I teach to others.
I have signed up at the gym, I realize that my cardio is subpar, and I lift
less than most women, but I'm not a big guy I am going for stress relief.
I also try to surround myself with positive people, that will help me become
positive. |
You sound your doing what im doing, well trying to do too.
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