Feeling like an incel for the first time in my life
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 21:01    Post subject: Feeling like an incel for the first time in my life
So i made a comment on a board which got more popular than i expected. Well, suddenly some girl starts messaging me about it and asking about my day every day. I talked a bit back and forward casual like. a message a day as i don't really care too much. I'm like 12 years older and suddenly she starts sending video's of her dolling up and making duck faces. I know what's going on, but i don't know if i want any part of it Laughing

Well i got a girl somewhat chasing. Not something happening every day.
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Nalo
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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 21:15    Post subject:
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tonizito
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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 21:18    Post subject:
Sure he's a girl... on the internet Laughing


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i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 21:26    Post subject:
Nalo wrote:
You wanna get rid of her? Share your political views.


What are my political views?

tonizito wrote:
Sure he's a girl... on the internet Laughing


Well, one can never know Laughing
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PickupArtist




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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 21:44    Post subject:
girls on a board ? making the first move ? super unlikely , if its not discord or snapchat or tiktok, its a catfish Razz

just have fun with it, ask for her snapchat/insta and make sure its real live vids and not recycled materials from some scammer in afrika or india
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 21:50    Post subject:
It's a girl. Shared name with email address and it's the same person on facebook as vids shared

First though, she's kinda young and im not into girls who likely havent figured themselves out yet. Another is she's from the US Laughing So it's not so much that i don't know what to do, but rather i'm not very interested. I'll just be casual and see what happens
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tonizito
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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 22:40    Post subject:
Stormwolf wrote:
It's a girl. Shared name with email address and it's the same person on facebook as vids shared
Oh there's probably a girl all right. But are you really exchanging messages with her or with some weird dood? My money's on the latter.

As an aside, why would you feel like an incel? Do you want to kick her ass or something? Philosopheraptor Laughing


boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote:
i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then
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Shocktrooper




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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 22:59    Post subject:
Get her to pay the flight to USA, enjoy some vacation and then nut and run
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Sun, 28th Aug 2022 23:13    Post subject:
tonizito wrote:
Stormwolf wrote:
It's a girl. Shared name with email address and it's the same person on facebook as vids shared
Oh there's probably a girl all right. But are you really exchanging messages with her or with some weird dood? My money's on the latter.

As an aside, why would you feel like an incel? Do you want to kick her ass or something? Philosopheraptor Laughing


It was just a self deprecating joke about being unable to figure out how to handle this without being a massive dick Laughing Nahh, just don't want my of anything really as it stands. Had she been like 26 or 27 then i'd be way more willing to actually put in some effort. Well, i'm not much for long distance stuff in the first place so i don't really know if i would.

Shocktrooper wrote:
Get her to pay the flight to USA, enjoy some vacation and then nut and run


I ain't spending shit myself. Was in Amsterdam in July and blew almost 3k Euro. I feel that was enough for a while. Next year it's Japan so i'm saving for that.
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Iwasfaggotonce




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 00:53    Post subject:
Never been to tinder? Or what is this? It is the first time some internet lady has shown interest in you? Laughing

I am too old for this world or this world is too baffling for me. Over the years i've been messing with hundreds of girls, been to dates with at least 40+ with them. And now years later finally getting married soon.

I don't know, this thread sounds kind of like saying "i took a shower this morning" Laughing
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 01:24    Post subject:
Iwasfaggotonce wrote:
Never been to tinder? Or what is this? It is the first time some internet lady has shown interest in you? Laughing

I am too old for this world or this world is too baffling for me. Over the years i've been messing with hundreds of girls, been to dates with at least 40+ with them. And now years later finally getting married soon.

I don't know, this thread sounds kind of like saying "i took a shower this morning" Laughing


Weird braggart post. Anyway, first time on the internet without deserving it, but not in real life.
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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 02:00    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 02:40    Post subject:
So how do you handle it without being a dick? Don't be a dick. Razz
Interested? Talk to her and pursue it. Not? Tell her thanks for the interest you are flattered, but not looking for that at this time.

Way I see it, its just a matter of overcomplicating a simple situation you deal with all the time: People/places trying to sell you something. How do you handle it if you are walking in a store and approached by someone trying to push some product; or get a call trying to sell you something? If you are not interested you politely tell them no thanks, not looking for buy that now and go on your way. just this one involves people selling you romantic interest, vs something else.

And if nothing else after that, she keeps bugging you...sometimes people need to learn the life lesson in the gentlest way (if possible): Not everyone you want to bang, wants to bang you.


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Yuri




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 03:29    Post subject:
Use this
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1 and 2 are still amazing.
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Reg67




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 10:55    Post subject:
Block the daft immature cow, after all you will ALWAYS come off worse if there was even a suggestion wrong doing on either of your parts.
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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 11:56    Post subject:
The_Zeel wrote:
fhitb


"Enlightenment is man's emergence from his self-imposed nonage. Nonage is the inability to use one's own understanding without another's guidance. This nonage is self-imposed if its cause lies not in lack of understanding but in indecision and lack of courage to use one's own mind without another's guidance. Dare to know! (Sapere aude.) "Have the courage to use your own understanding," is therefore the motto of the enlightenment."
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 12:57    Post subject:
Reg67 wrote:
Block the daft immature cow, after all you will ALWAYS come off worse if there was even a suggestion wrong doing on either of your parts.


I dunno how that could happen seeing as my investment is more or less 0. Also we're from different parts of the world. She cant do shit
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Frant
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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 20:04    Post subject:
Duckface, stalking, dolled up, not even close in age...

Oh.. I found her image:




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 20:06    Post subject:
Stormwolf wrote:

Shocktrooper wrote:
Get her to pay the flight to USA, enjoy some vacation and then nut and run


I ain't spending shit myself. Was in Amsterdam in July and blew almost 3k Euro. I feel that was enough for a while. Next year it's Japan so i'm saving for that.


Have you regained your short term memory after what I guess was a "heavy" and relaxing vacation?




@Shocktrooper:
Meh.. I moved 500km to move into my girlfriends apartment (we met at a remote school with student homes) after 7 months. 3 months later I was devastated after a breakup, living in a shitty city I didn't like and lived in a 18 m² one room apartment where grey dust sometimes covered the exterior window sill. I lived close to a big crematorium. Another two months and I moved back to my hometown.

So yeah.. no.. moving long distances like that is very risky and can go really bad.


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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 20:47    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 22:02    Post subject:
Nalo wrote:
You wanna get rid of her? Share your political views.


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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 22:35    Post subject:
Frant wrote:
Stormwolf wrote:

Shocktrooper wrote:
Get her to pay the flight to USA, enjoy some vacation and then nut and run


I ain't spending shit myself. Was in Amsterdam in July and blew almost 3k Euro. I feel that was enough for a while. Next year it's Japan so i'm saving for that.


Have you regained your short term memory after what I guess was a "heavy" and relaxing vacation?




@Shocktrooper:
Meh.. I moved 500km to move into my girlfriends apartment (we met at a remote school with student homes) after 7 months. 3 months later I was devastated after a breakup, living in a shitty city I didn't like and lived in a 18 m² one room apartment where grey dust sometimes covered the exterior window sill. I lived close to a big crematorium. Another two months and I moved back to my hometown.

So yeah.. no.. moving long distances like that is very risky and can go really bad.


Well what short term memory?

Also i have the exact same experience moving into a gf's place. Didn't take long until shit hit the fan

Moving in with a gf is something you should do together. Meaning rent or buy one, not one moves into anothers place. It's uncomfortable and if you're unlucky you'll never feel quite home
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PickupArtist




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 22:40    Post subject:
any of these gfs taking meds ? Mine took anxiety meds and holy fuck the mood swings were brutal, major red flag for me now Sad
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Mon, 29th Aug 2022 22:49    Post subject:
Well, these gfs are experts at pulling themselves together and being all nice in the start, but once they get comfy all hell breaks loose. Just don't with mental trauma or general issues with their psyche.
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PostPosted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 10:56    Post subject:
Hey guys, not all girls are like that. Look if you are in your thirties something (or older), the nice girls maybe gone (they are banging someone else Razz). Then ask yourself, what would a potential girlfriend think of you? Try to come with a reasonable sketch of yourself -> self reflection.
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Stormwolf




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PostPosted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:06    Post subject:
iconized wrote:
Hey guys, not all girls are like that. Look if you are in your thirties something (or older), the nice girls maybe gone (they are banging someone else Razz). Then ask yourself, what would a potential girlfriend think of you? Try to come with a reasonable sketch of yourself -> self reflection.


What is the point of your post? That naturally we are the reason we're getting treated badly by women with proven emotional issues?

I have been nothing but kind of supportive with any gf's. Never any pointless fight or anything. Should i treat her like a dog and teach her discipline? is that your way of thinking? If not for that, i fail to see how you can pin blame my way, especially when you've got no clue what experiences i have. Try to reflect on yourself and ask yourself why you automatically assume the woman is innocent.
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PostPosted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:13    Post subject:
Nalo wrote:
@Frant Interesting. I have a similar experience with a different outcome.


Yeah.. I just had a veeery bitter experience that gave me some serious emotional scars, hence my wariness even though it was 20 years ago. I stopped dwelling on it many years ago but when it does come into my mind it scratches those old scars.


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PostPosted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:22    Post subject:
@Stormwolf I wasn't exactly talking to you directly, I started with hey guys (plural). So things may not apply to you Mr. Stormwolf. I don't assume to know what you have been trough, why do you assume that? And I don't assume that the women is always innocent, why do you assume that? I don't pin the blame on you, that is three wrong assumptions projected onto me.

I am going to stay out of this one, I don't like battling fallacies, good day!
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PostPosted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:25    Post subject:
Just do what Sultan FireMaster does and have a long distance girlfriend in as many countries and cities as you can. And bring them to you, don't go to them. Schedule their visits one after the next and your sexy needs are met for at least a year. If one flakes, schedule another in her place.

I hear you about heartaches and drama that only happens when I take one girl seriously and put some stake in the relationship. If you want a real relationship the lesson I learned is that the chances of finding a sane person on the internet that would deliver on that front are slim so don't count on it too much. Instead take crazy for what crazy's good at: crazy good sex. Which I prefer when it comes on a plane/train/bus, leaves on a train/plane/bus and doesn't come knocking unless when allowed to.
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